christmas … is there a house of hope for me and you
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“My idea of Christmas, whether old-fashioned or modern, is very simple: loving others.
Come to think of it, why do we have to wait for Christmas to do that? “
Bob Hope
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“Gotta take the time to search the mind.”
Traci Spencer
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Children laugh
Children cry
They’re the future of our time
Will they hold us to blame
For all the things we’ve turned away
I don’t like what I see now
I don’t like where we’re going
I don’t like it, no
You and I, we’re getting older now
You and I, who will show them
If we don’t show them how
I want to know is it true
Is there a house of hope for me and you
I want to know is it true
Is there a house of hope for me and you.
<House of Hope>
Song by Toni Childs
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Ok. I admit. I am most likely using Christmas as an excuse to highlight two songs with great messages about vision & hope.
I would suggest, in general, the Christmas gift we end up finding the most value in is hope.
It is a fairly simple idea to suggest we all need hope.
I tend to believe all of us understand a hopeless existence just isn’t worth living. Or maybe I could say that the moment people can’t see Hope, life becomes dangerously hollow.
I think all of us humans <schmucks too> instinctively know this so we spend at least some portions of our lives searching for hope.
However, sometimes we settle for something a little short of hope.
What do I mean?
Well.
With a legitimate desire to feel good about where we’re headed, we tend to mistake positive thinking for genuine hope.
And this year not only did it seem to be more difficult to think positively, but hope seems to be challenged by a world that may appear to be in flux to many people.
Now.
Even if it is not in flux, we do perceive it to be, so therefore the natural reflex is to, well, cocoon our hope.
What I mean by that is we begin to worry a little more on “I” than “we.”
We focus hope a little more on self rather than selfless.
Now.
This doesn’t mean we have suddenly become selfish or that we do not care about others, this is more simply ‘survival mode.’ In that I can’t care as much about others until I know that I have been cared for enough that I feel I am in an okay position & place.
I say that because Hope’s biggest challenge in the future is going to be from a larger world view. With everyone hunkering down avoiding the ‘crazy world’, the world may be put on strict Hope diet.
That’s okay.
We will figure it out.
But for today, maybe just around this Christmas, ponder a world view of Hope.
Take the time to search the mind, “is there a house of hope for me and you?”
Because I believe that if you take a moment and touch it and feel it and sense it, when the future occasion should arise – when you are in a position to care – that world view Hope will touch the spark that resides within and the world Hope will light on fire.
Music is always a great reminder of things that matter and finding music to share hopeful messages is like putting a gift to music.
I could share Christmas music & songs, but instead I am going to share hopeful songs. These are two older songs that are nice to listen to and nice t learn the words to.
Here is my Christmas music gift for this year:
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Song: House of Hope
Toni Childs
bonus …
House of Hope Live <she sounds exactly like she does in the recorded version>:
The second song is by Traci Spencer and called This House. The video is horribly early 90’s video making at its worst, but the message is so good you should ignore the video and listen to the words.
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Song: This House
Traci Spencer
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Well. There you go. Gotta take the time to search the mind … Is there a house of hope for me and you ?
Search your mind.
There is always a house of hope for you & I.
Sometimes, and some days, you just have to look a little harder to see it.
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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays.
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listening, speaking, specialist, spend on the gift, spiral of loneliness and despair, stand for something within yourself, standing on the uncertainty pedestal, standing up every time we fall down, star gazing, state of being perpetually dissatisfied, statistical decision theory, statistics, statistics cannot make the decision for you, statistics getting in the way of a good decision, stay or go, stimulus reponse, stop and think, Stop looking for happiness, Stop looking for happiness in the, stories, stories we will never tell, stories you want to hear, story they never want to tell, straight lines, straight lines are rare in life, stranger say they have hope for them, strategy, strength against adversity, strength of character, strength of character to make change, strengthen your critical thinking skills, stressful decisions, stretch the bars of the cages, stretch your limitations, strip away the undoable and identify the doable, struggle between energy and indolence, struggle between vitality and decay, Stuff I Like, stumble upon doing it right, stunning grace in the face of overwhelming life, style more important than substance, style over substance questions, subconscious influences behavior, subconscious is really a place of super-fast data processing, success is not a good teacher, success lies within the understanding of the process, successful economy could arise from the raw, suck at managing our lives against our limitations, swallowing nonsense, symbolic dynamics, symbolic value of the exchange, systems remain stagnant, Take or be taken attitude, take revenge on doubters, take the time to search, take the time to search the mind, takers will take what you allow, takes some hard choices, taking account of reality, talking, tangled ball of string, tangled up people, teaching, teen despair, teens, that i will be tomorrow, That is courage and not confidence, that moment kind of moment, that really wasn’t necessary, that Santa Claus is real, that simply living life, that which could be, Thcourage and not confidence, the answers are within you, the best advice is priceless, the creatures of the commonplace, The Deadweight Loss of Christmas, the entanglement of nuances, the gift we end up finding the most value in, the global generation, The idea we all need hope, the little big things, the moments that words fail, the more we try to tailor a present precisely to a recipient, the more you do not know the more you can learn, the most powerful weapon in life is not a mission, the myth of original, the myth of the proprietary process, the numbers told me what to do, the odd moment of beauty where time is not the same, the ones who actually get a second look, the only thing truly unique is your personality, the people who get lost, the pleasure of who gives them, The Pleasure Principle, the power of friends, the slaves of the ordinary, the small gesture in the trivial moment, the subconscious, the things we will sacrifice, the unimportance of that moment, the utility of the present itself to the recipient, the word failure is tough love, The word question, The word question is derived from the Latin quarrier, the world always belongs to the next generation, the world bends everyone, the world is always changing, their heads and hearts, then my gift to you is, there is always something more to learn, there is no formula for good choices, there is nothing left to give, they don’t thrive on non stop goals & objectives, they think that they need more now, They're the future, They're the future of our time, things you really want, things you really want for the holidays can’t be bought, thinking, thinking impossible things, thinking is good, thinking too much, This boat is obviously sinking, This building's totally burning down, this i am today, Those aren’t all Santa, thoughtful myth in our heads, thoughtful myth in our heads which we attach to the gift, thoughts, thrive on dreams, thrive on dreams and possibilities, through the looking glass wisdom, time, time and choices, time you can waste it, to allow you to give to me, to be meaningful, to be sure of you, to play with the deadly flowers, to slay a dragon you need to believe in dragons, to the people who get them than the people who give them, toni childs house of hope, too much focus on what you already know, TopModels called it The Esquire Gift Model, torturing numbers, total pleasure and pain it will generate, tough for dreamers these days, tough on dreamers, Traditional decision making theory is unrealistic, transformational people, trapped by fear, traveling with millions of toys in a confined space, trip someplace warm one Christmas, trivial moments, trivial moments in bigger life, true friend, trust, trust and doubt embodies people, Trust can be objective and subjective, Trust one side too much and it dulls, truth, truth and expectations, truth goggles, truth is rarely simple, truth is what really happened, truth or lies, truth or nothing, truth to oneself, trying to preserve will lead to stagnation, twitter triumph of humanity, unanticipated answers, unanticipated answers to reveal themselves, uncertainty is a bitch, uncertainty takes on geometric proportions, unclear leader, underneath greatness, understand a hopeless existence just isn’t worth living, understanding what you do as an organization, understanding your ignorance, understanding your own path to learning, unexpected innovation, unfocused leaders, unicorns symbolize hope, unintended results, unlearn, unlocking the story, unquestionable, unrealistic expectations, unrealistic future moment management, unshakeable, untangling people, until we meet again, upon multiple variables, urgency to find meaning, us to blame, use your imagination, used rainbows for sale, useful questions, using Christmas as an excuse to, values of independence, values of personal freedom, vibrantly alive in repose, vision, vision & hope, voices of a generation, wacky wisdom, waiting or living, walk in our footsteps, walking beyond our own footsteps, wandering with a direction in mind, want children to do better, want children to go beyond, was not trying to make changes, wasted energy worrying, we all fail, we all have dark moments, We all have moments, we all have stories, we make choices, we overlook the ability of great friends, we should all listen a little more, we should desire to make something big out, We should want to create, we suck at gift giving, weighted by its duration, well rounded learning, what do you do when you get what you want, what does human freedom consist, what I know opinions, what I want this Christmas, what is enough, what is overindulgence or decadence, what is pure decadence or greed, what is right and what is wrong, what is the alternative, what is the place of words, what it is to be America, what looks like chaos, what we are seeking explanations, what we have is not what we need, what we need is impossible to get, what we need to get us through, what we want is not what we need, what you do with your time, whatever it takes, whatever it takes to cross that dark bridge, when life is a disaster, when people do not listen, where are you going, where danger can look divine, whether old-fashioned or modern, while you may be highly qualified for an opportunity, whole does seem very far-fetched, whole flying reindeer thing, whole flying reindeer thing does seem very far-fetched, why do we have to wait for Christmas, why do we have to wait for Christmas to do that, wild hearts always seek to escape, will generate, Will they hold us to blame, with a little curiosity, with good intentions, within capitalism LURKS the possibility of moral poverty, woefully inadequate data, words, words reflecting experiences, words that become deeds, words worse than nothing unless they do something, work is often up to people, work nevertheless, work of a lifetime, world loves a cage, world waiting inside my cage, worry about implementing a great idea versus protecting it, Yes Virginia is the most famous argument for Santa Claus, yhprum's law, you are giving the gift, you are not a failure because you fail, you are overcoming objections one by one, you cannot dwell on every moment that slipped by, you doubt just enough to be humble and realistic, you fail, you have to work to get these stories, you live a little life, you lived life doing stuff, You love the gift receiver, you may gain something, you should be ready to face all sorts of problems, you will inevitably be measured by your actual deeds, ypically have to make a trade-off when gift giving
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