Enlightened Conflict

learned versus learning

June 19th, 2013

“Human history becomes more and more a race between education and catastrophe.” – H. G. Wellslearning and tragedy

 

So.

This is about truth, learning, unlearning … and contradictions.

First. I have always believed the moment you own a contradiction is the moment you capture an emotional and intellectual awareness.

Second. I am not sure I have always applied that thinking to Truth.

That said.

This is about letting go and holding on.

Letting go and holding on to … well … Truth.

<so I imagine this is about learning & unlearning>

And I imagine this is about the catastrophe called truth <these days>.

Because if there has ever been a time when conventional wisdom, aka ‘truth’ was challenged more … I cannot identify that time.

Regardless.

Truth is a contradiction <in a way>.

The dilemma always is if you explain truth … some people stop and debate <the edges of it> and some people start moving <simply accepting it as it is>.

And then if you tell people less than the whole truth? They will typically unerringly <and maddeningly> take action on the only path remaining … in the space that resides in the ‘less than.’

Regardless.

Truth implies some ongoing ignorance … because it is sometimes a moving target.

And understanding you have ignorance suggests you are ready to let go of something you have learned … and yet you will almost always want to hold on to your knowledge. Let me suggest one thing … Ignorance is relentless <whether you want to face it or not>.

What forces you to face the relentlessness of ignorance?

Typically it takes a catastrophe.

A catastrophe like something you have learned as unequivocal, or known as “truth”, has become equivocal, debatable and maybe even not a Truth anymore.

Now. Once facing the catastrophe … you should seek, and embrace, the contradiction.

Because owning this contradiction is powerful.

And because a real contradiction actually represents a real Truth in a way.

Because …

- truth is rarely simple.

- truth is often ambiguous.

 

I imagine an additional contradiction would be that … in its ambiguity … Truth is never frail.

In fact … it is the strongest, least frail, most powerful weapon of all.

But this ambiguity is difficult to accept. Me? I know better than to disbelieve what I find difficult to accept. But it is difficult.

It asks a lot for someone to think this way.

And in that thinking it has come to me that the idea of an irrevocable truth <always something I struggle with as the idea of an absolute, irrefutable truth> is perhaps not smart … well … maybe just not useful.

I do know that sometimes I worry that the idea behind most of my truths is nothing more than a story I’ve told myself so often that I can’t imagine anything but that idea … that story embedded in me <and we all like a good story don’t we?>.

The story, told and retold and retold again, embeds itself in the lore of the mind.

In the end I am simply calling my story ‘the truth.’

 

I think this is one of the foundational thinking platforms in Life.

 

It’s not unusual for my story truths despite having been told a zillion times mentally to become untrue. Sometimes it is unraveled thread by thread slowly.

Sometimes in the blink of an eye.

 

All it can take is for someone to say something … perfectly articulated … and the core of the truth … once unshakeable in its storied strength … becomes shaken.

The threads of the truth becomes frayed … sometimes even snipped clean … revealing thoughts <and some truth> unseen until then.

 

Sometimes I don’t even need anyone to watch Truth unravel.

Sometimes I read something and a small voice <of wisdom I imagine> begins weaving a new story in my mind.

Luckily.

I am not alone.

Smarter people than I … scientists, geologists, archeologists, physicists, astronomers … well … everyone who knows something about something … are all discovering that the world isn’t exactly as they learned when they were learning that something they are renowned for … or even imagined but a generation ago … and in some cases things they ‘knew’ even a year ago.

We are finding that the past is not written in ink but rather pencil … in fact … reality <in some ways> is the same.

 

It seems like everything in the world can shift shapes & colors.

 

It seems like in an instant a new version of some Truth in, and of, the world can arise.

 

It makes me wonder if there is such a thing as “the truth” … or an unequivocal Truth … if something can be unraveled or undone so quickly.

Despite the fact I have always wanted truth to be some kind of eternal reality … in the end … truth is often ambiguous.

And therefore I am forced to constantly learn … or unlearn … or I am faced with a world that no longer exists <meaning that I am doing and thinking relatively meaningless irrelevant things>.

 

learning hoffer world no longer exists“In times of change, learners inherit the Earth while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.” – Eric Hoffer

 

Now.

All that I have said, and suggested, is relevant to the everyday person living in everyday life. Heck. Everyday life <parenting, friendly debate at the bar, etc.” is difficult with regard to Truth and its ambiguity.

But lets take  minute and talk business.

It would behoove today’s business world to think about this … and not just think about this as a ‘whole new world’ apocalyptic burn everything and start anew  idea but rather taking what is known and ‘unknow it’ <unravel it and reweave>.

The leader who stops learning … or maybe better said … the one who believes he/she is learned on how things should be done … are only then equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.

This is a big thought.

And while it seems like common sense … the business world is strewn with antiquated thinking leaders.

And certainly strewn with antiquated organizational management leaders.

Oh sure.

They may say some of the right things. and they may go through the motions <i.e., set up a digital department or send people to social media conferences or trying anything that is buzzworthy at the moment> but at the end of the day they continue doing the same things … or worse … applying all their learned antiquated thinking as judges on all the new aspects they have invested to put in place.

 

And then they wonder why their world and culture is dysfunctional and good people leave and … in general … productivity isn’t as good as it could be … and should be.

 

They have stopped learning.learning yoda_unlearning

Or maybe they have stopped unlearning.

But they certainly do not know Truth as it exists in the moment.

 

Sure <once again> their lips move with the right words but what actually comes out is the same ole same ole.

I fully understand that challenging truth is difficult.

And therein lays the contradiction.

We love truth but maybe not trust truth <anymore>.

Ok.

Maybe we do trust Truth but rather we get distracted by the more philosophical truths when the on the ground truths are there and available to any and all willing to learn <and unlearn>.

 

“The big questions became increasingly irrelevant and felt more like a distraction. I was more interested in ground truth―the stuff you need to know on location in your life in order to navigate the twists and turns of daily human existence.” - Jim Palmer, Notes From (over) The Edge

 

Here is the funny thing in today’s world.

And, actually, it may be the same as it ever was … but just more so now than before.

 

As truth becomes more identifiably ambiguous the older people <business leaders in particular> are holding on to what they know, or think they know, harder and tighter than ever before.

 

As truth becomes more identifiably ambiguous the younger people <especially in businesses> are letting go of old truths <some would call it unlearning> faster and smarter than ever before.

 

So maybe trust is being placed in a different arena now … maybe we should trust learning & unlearning more than ever.

Maybe we should embrace the restless minds and the quest for Truth.

truth was realityAnd maybe if we do so … we will learn to trust Truth once again.

Part of trust is in the constant challenge … challenging conventional wisdom in search of Truth.

Because in the end … Truth is good.

And restless constant unlearning is the path to Truth.

And truth can become reality once more.

every day teachers

June 14th, 2013

teacher maya angelouSo.

This may sound wacky in today’s world … but I believe we are all teachers  … yup … not just those with a title of ‘teacher’ who is standing up in front of our young people day in and day out <beginning at some miserable pre-dawn hour> working with them to fine tune their minds into working, thinking machines.

That said … think about this.

 

“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.”  – William Arthur Ward

 

Here’s the deal.

If you are an adult reading this … either accept the fact you are a teacher or … well … you are cheating someone … a someone who is waiting to be taught something … or … a someone who EXPECTS to be taught something.

That certain someone <let’s call them young people> is waiting to be inspired. I just wanted to clear up the despicable thought that despite what we adults say about the lazy game playing youth they are actually big hyperactive brains waiting to be inspired to do something.

We inspire … or make their lives uninspired. It is our choice.

It drives me nuts the way so many people want to delegate teaching to “teachers” <educators>. Absolutely. Frickin’. nuts.

And I am not just talking about ‘readin’, writin’, ‘rithmetic’ type stuff <although that can certainly be included>.

 

Any teaching.

teaching children to be intelligentBecause I go even more crazy because so many people ignore the fact that despite all their energy invested to avoid any type of teaching … they are actually frickin’ teaching.

Youth learns not only in the classroom but also through observation. Yup. Those little bastards <I use that term fondly> are watching everything we adults are doing and saying … including <but not exclusive of>:

Bad habits.

Good habits.

How to ‘do things.’

Whatever.

 

They are observing … and well … learning.

<insert a big fat grown up “uh oh” … or “oh shit” … here>

 

Accept the responsibility.

 

What you do around a child teaches. If you do not accept the responsibility, trust me, kids are thinking you are being responsible.

And, possibly, you are responsible for their souls <at least the development of their souls>.

China suggests teachers are “engineers of human souls.”

In China they say that a good teacher is like a candle – it consumes itself to light the way for others.

 

Now.

I am not going to ask every grown up to do the last part … because that suggests giving so much of yourself to teaching you are consumed for the benefit of others <by the way … it is a good legacy to have if you actually do elect that path>.

And while teaching is like being an engineer <a science> … imparting knowledge effectively to others, especially children, is an art.

 

A great teacher embraces <ok … accepts …> the engineering aspect and teaches in ways that makes someone want to learn.

 

He or she inspires you to go beyond the standard lesson <Life lesson or education lesson>. They inspire students to think and strive and experiment.

It is a Life truth that teaching always lives on in all of us who has been taught.

That thought alone should remind all adults that they are teachers.teachers fingerprints dont fade

 

It seems kind of obvious to me that you <an adult> have to believe you are a teacher because you really cannot guess how far reaching your influence will be.

That’s the thing about being an adult <oops … teacher>. You never know whose life you are changing.

‘My teacher is in all people – but not all people are my teacher’

 

Oh.

Just a side note so no one thinks this is just personal opinion.

A study by the University of Kansas recorded the number of words parents from 42 families in various socio-economic groups spoke to their 4-year-old children. Children from professional families heard on average 45 million words before kindergarten. Children from poor families heard on average 13 million words <educational level of achievement followed accordingly>.

This is the beginning of the achievement gap and the cold calculus of poverty.

Some of those missed words not only were about real learning … some were about hope <and dreams>.

“You should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.” – Dee Cantrell

 

I am not suggesting accepting responsibility for being a teacher is easy. It is not <ask any school teacher>.

 

The trouble often occurs when priorities become misdirected or misguided. Life gets busy for us grown ups. And then we segment responsibilities so that we can manage our own ‘to-do’ lists. One segmentation is ‘teaching is for teachers.’

Well.

I imagine sometimes we forget that Life just cannot be segmented that easily. It is easy to overlook the fact that even something as random as algebra logic blurs into everyday life logic … and the discussion of that logic can sometimes lead anywhere but algebra itself. The sometimes seemingly senseless being taught in school <only seemingly to those adults who do not use the information in every day life and have actually forgotten things like algebraic logic> creates ripples of learning outside the school. So why should it all remain at school? Isn’t the best teaching actually a combination of experience and ‘in-the-moment’ reflection? <yes>

Anyway. I can guarantee you one thing unequivocally … it all leads to a Life lesson.

Therefore … all that said … the responsibility an adult holds for the well being of young people is paramount.

Of greater importance than just about anything else.

You may feel this, and believe this, more as a parent but being a parent is irrelevant on this issue … it is the responsibility of all adults.

If you do not agree?

Shame on you.

I understand that sometimes people lose sight of what is right and what is wrong but with children and teaching it is paramount you recognize and take steps to rectify your beliefs <and actions>. And you know what? While I am ranting about how it is a responsibility, which implies you aren’t doing anything but what you should be doing by doing it, you deserve credit when you accept the responsibility.

Teaching is difficult.

Montaigne – in the 1700’s – reminded us of several things about being a teacher:

learning white board What_is_LearningIn truth, all I understand as to that particular is only this, that the greatest and most important difficulty of human science is the education of children. For as in agriculture, the husbandry that is to precede planting, as also planting itself, is certain, plain, and well known; but after that which is planted comes to life, there is a great deal more to be done, more art to be used, more care to be taken, and much more difficulty to cultivate and bring it to perfection so it is with men; it is no hard matter to get children; but after they are born, then begins the trouble, solicitude, and care rightly to train, principle, and bring them up. The symptoms of their inclinations in that tender age are so obscure, and the promises so uncertain and fallacious, that it is very hard to establish any solid judgment or conjecture upon them. ’Tis the custom of pedagogues to be eternally thundering in their pupil’s ears, as they were pouring into a funnel, whilst the business of the pupil is only to repeat what the others have said: now I would have a tutor to correct this error, and, that at the very first, he should according to the capacity he has to deal with, put it to the test, permitting his pupil himself to taste things, and of himself to discern and choose them, sometimes opening the way to him, and sometimes leaving him to open it for himself; that is, I would not have him alone to invent and speak, but that he should also hear his pupil speak in turn. Let the master not only examine him about the grammatical construction of the bare words of his lesson, but about the sense and let him judge of the profit he has made, not by the testimony of his memory, but by that of his life. Let him make him put what he has learned into a hundred several forms, and accommodate it to so many several subjects, to see if he yet rightly comprehends it, and has made it his own.

To know by rote, is no knowledge, and signifies no more but only to retain what one has intrusted to our memory. That which a man rightly knows and understands, he is the free disposer of at his own full liberty, without any regard to the author from whence he had it, or fumbling over the leaves of his book. A mere bookish learning is a poor, paltry learning; it may serve for ornament, but there is yet no foundation for any superstructure to be built upon it.

 

Ok.

Enough of that.

<although part 1 .. “A mere bookish learning is a poor, paltry learning; it may serve for ornament, but there is yet no foundation for any superstructure to be built upon it” … and althouth part 2 .… ‘That which a man rightly knows and understands, he is the free disposer of at his own full liberty’ are  big thoughts we should all be very thoughtful of>

 

In the end.

Just accept you are a teacher.

And accept the fact, whether you are actually good or bad at it, that when you DO get it right … there’s a way in which teaching invokes curiosity and passion … no matter what the subject.

Great teachers make learning feel good.

Great teachers actually feel good when it all works.

Great teachers effect living as well as just the mind.

Great teachers beget great responsible thinking adults.success path real life

Montaigne also offered the reciprocal thought that “Learning is living, and living is learning”.

If we grownups are truly honest with ourselves … we are not just interested in merely filling a child with knowledge or content, but rather with guiding the child to discover activities that help the child to become “well-formed.”

That guidance not only helps to provoke, make them think <sometimes think hard>, and introduce new ways of looking at the world for many years … but it also helps guide them through Life. Because <just as  reminder> … success in Life is rarely a straight line.

Just be a teacher.

Oh. And remember these words, I often use, because they seem relevant to this topic … “37 seconds used wisely … is a lifetime.”

 

waiting versus the battle (and managing moments)

June 13th, 2013

Soldier: This is the worst part. The calm before the battle.waiting momenst become-nothing

 

Fry: And then the battle is not so bad?

 

Soldier: Oh, right. I forgot about the battle

-          from a Futurama episode

 

So.

I chuckled when I read this.

And I am guilty of saying something similar <the calm before the battle part>.

 

One of my favorite quotes comes from a midshipman’s diary entry on Collingwood’s flagship before the battle of Trafalgar:

“… we await glory in silence. Oh, let the din of battle begin.”

 

Waiting can suck.

It can be uncomfortable.

It can be tense.

It can actually drive you a little crazy.

Oh.

Yeah.

Then there is the battle.

Oops.

Talk about being uncomfortable & tense.

 

I imagine I could suggest something wise here like ‘doing is better than not doing’ or even ‘Life is nothing without action’ … but I will not.

 

Instead I will say <after sagely pondering this philosophical question>

 

Parts are parts & pieces are pieces.

 

<that is my sage thought … sorry>

 

Aw.

Let me explain.

Prior to any actual moment … the moment you are within is simply a prelude to what is to come as well as past the actual moment is simply another moment that has arrived in its own time.

Say what?

The worst part is the calm before the battle.

The worst part is the battle itself.

The worst part is the aftermath of the battle.

But.

The best parts are also found within each of those moments.

 

Each moment is the best of times … and the worst of times.

 

Well.

At least you can find pieces and parts of both within every moment.

 

Best or worst?

Glass half full or half empty?

Optimist of pessimist?

 

Aw. Who cares?

All I can really suggest is that we can see the best and the worst of what lies within each of us in every moment associated with a battle … whether that ‘battle’ be within everyday life or a business situation or an athletic event or even a real battle.

Within those moments we are challenged to be the best we can be.

Our lives are often defined by these moments.

Ok.

Maybe not our lives but certainly our character.wait until i am no longer afraid

Character as in how we are seen … by others … and most importantly … by the person we see in the mirror.

I imagine my real point here <beyond using a silly but insightful Futurama quote> is that character can be defined in parts & pieces of moments not always by big things <or an entire moment>.

We each have our little demons that cannot wait to diminish our character.

They lurk in the parts & pieces of the moments.

Is it within the waiting?

Is it within the battle?

Is it within how we manage after the battle?

They exist everywhere & nowhere. And in that same everywhere & nowhere our character awaits.

Character manages to deal with the parts & pieces of moments … the moments which contain both the best of times & the worst of time … and … well … all these parts & pieces define our character.

Every moment is a battle in itself. There is always a waiting before as well as the battle itself. They all overlap. We may hate it … but it is simply the worst … and best … and it is Life.

keeping your eye on key business issues (as I see it)

June 12th, 2013

Ok.business old white guys

I get asked a lot about key issues facing businesses these days … some marketing people but mostly just business people wanting to talk about business <and being successful or the corollary … how to avoid doing stupid shit that will keep you from being successful>.

After having had this conversation several times I have narrowed it down to my big 5 <or little 5 depending on how valuable you may find this> when someone asks me the keys to having a successful business.

 

-          decommoditization

-          fragmentation

-          lack of interest

-          nudging

-          influencers

 

Other people will have other things but these are mine. Why?

Well. I tend to believe if you pay attention to these 5 things your business will have a fighting chance of being successful. Not because these are brilliant insightful epiphany type business thoughts but rather these are the basics <with a twist> and they keep your head in the business game.

 

Let me explain them.

 

decommoditization:

Meaningful differentiation is difficult if not impossible.  It is more than features & benefits and it is absolutely more than sheer ‘puffery’ <the claim that we are unique and everyone will beat a path to our door>.

This is truly the challenge of what a really smart guy named Hugh McLeod calls ‘decommoditization.’ Most businesses simply begin from the wrong place. They either seek ‘white space’ in the competitive environment or they believe they are different and set out to tell the world about it.

That is good old school ideology.

But it is bad because it is old thinking.

In today’s more cynical world the mind’s perception map assumes everyone is equal until proven otherwise.

Every day a business is decommoditizing itself or it is slipping down the slippery slope to commodity.

Unless your business is lean hogs, rough rice, natural gas or soybeans <all commodity futures you can invest in> you better have your head focused on decommoditizing.

 

fragmentation:fragmented audience

Business has always been about managing a bunch of moving pieces. Even small businesses.

The parts & pieces make up the whole. But managing the whole is unrealistic as well as shortsighted <as well as doesn’t really maximize the pieces & parts>.

All that said … keeping an eye on fragmentation is a nice simple business concept … well … with just about every aspect of a business.

Fragmented culture.

Fragmented organization.

Fragmented messaging.

Fragmented process.

<just some examples>

Fragmentation is bad. Why?

Because I can almost guarantee that 99% of the time fragmentation = unaligned.

Oh.

And unaligned anything is bad in a business.

The easiest example is fragmented unaligned messaging. It is a common problem and it leads to fragmented brand <and lower brand value> and confused consumers <and lower sales>.

Heck. Fragmented messaging even confuses the organization <the employees>.

Brand messaging alignment leads to more efficient spend and increased sales <and a focused organization>.

Now.

The hardest example is a fragmented culture. A fragmented culture is ripe for structural corruption.

And by fragmented culture I mean “everyone articulates the company purpose or focus differently.” It may not be huge differences but this is like that stupid game you did when you were kids … lining up with Styrofoam cups linked by a string. The last kid will hear something through the Styrofoam cup but as they all throw the cups into the recycle bin they will all be discussing that they heard something slightly different.

<by the way … that is bad>

I tell most business that fragmentation management is an ongoing battle. Everyday a business will seek to break apart all on its own through inertia. Everywhere a leader goes he/she/it should be sniffing out fragmentation. Keep everything aligned and all will be good.

 

lack of interest:

People, in general, don’t care until they have to care.

I would like to point out that while we all say “the greatest thing since sliced bread” that sliced bread was not that great to people in the beginning … people just didn’t care about sliced bread … they liked what they had <unsliced>.

Anyway.

The corollary to that thought?

Everything is interesting at some point.

Yup.

Everything.

It’s all about uncovering the most relevant time to be relevant <and interesting>. Pick the wrong time and you waste $’s because the consumer just doesn’t care. Be interesting at the right time and the brand becomes relevant <and sales will increase>.

Whenever I bring this topic up … oddly <in general> … I find everyone gravitating to the ends of the spectrum … half believe whatever their widget is that everyone is interested in it … and the other half suggest the world has gone to hell in a hand basket and people don’t care about anything.

Regardless.

Assume people don’t care about what it is you want to tell them. And assume they don’t care about your product <until you do something wrong>. This is a good starting point for all businesses. It is also a great <overlooked> place for solid well known businesses to‘re-begin.’

Huh? Say what?!? You bet. I cannot tell you how many times I have seen a well-known business have great awareness numbers <people know who they are> but those same people have very little to say in terms of details <this is often called empty awareness>.

And why does that happen?

Lack of interest. People just don’t care until they have to care.

 

Nudging Nudge-Cliff1nudging:

So.

Getting people to care <and how to decommoditize>.

So often we want to bludgeon people with our business … the ideas and why it is so good for you … and break through that ‘lack of interest’ barrier I just talked about.

It is tempting to do.

Loud noises show that you are making a big effort <not really … but it creates the perception of>.

Here is a truth … nudging is actually more effective.

 

-          Can a Nudge Radically Change Shopping Behavior?
A professor at New Mexico State University ran a little ‘behavioral economics’ experiment at a local supermarket.
He placed a strip of tape across the middle of the grocery carts, and added a sign reading, “place fruits and vegetables in front of this sign, and other groceries behind it.”
This simple nudge doubled the amount of produce people bought — ten times more than any nutrition education did. Why? Because it established new social norms. People felt that it was now expected behavior that they’d buy that much produce.
This kind of nudge is brilliant and confounding: it’s remarkably effective.

 

Nudging is effective because it creates a behavioral shift without overt promotion, or bribes or any real loud noises.

Anyone can scream … ah … but those who can whisper? Worth every penny you can pay them. I don’t suggest that businesses solely rely on nudges … but I do suggest that building a business around the concept of nudging creates a behavioral pattern tied to whatever it is the business is offering. And that is a business foundation to build upon that can withstand the storms of competition and time.

By the way … nudging ain’t just for marketing … it is an excellent concept with regard to culture and business organizational behavior.

 

influencers:

The truth is that not all people are created equal when it comes to building a successful business model. And that means within the organization as well as without.

Therefore it is not about how many friends you have but rather who your friends are.

This pertains to decommoditizing, creating interest, nudging, whatever.

now is our timeFind the people who really matter and they not only spread the word … but they also stop the <negative/wrong> word. They are like a filter that permits things out but does not permit things in.

And I hate to break the news to everyone … but this isn’t social <or being social> this is about connecting with people who matter and creating a connection <and a type of relationship>.

We hear a lot about the increasing importance of social media and being involved <or being left out> but the truth is that the idea of <social> connectivity is more important than discussing social media. Social media is simply a tool in your arsenal to connect with these important people <influencers>.

Businesses can thrive … as well as have a buffer for when they are being challenged … with a strong influencer base <internally & externally>.

I tell businesses to think quality versus quantity on this topic.

It is a boring old concept applied to a new idea.

Frankly it was good then … and is still good now.

 

That’s it.

These are not ‘one-offs’ but rather ongoing commitment checklist.

Great leaders, and the managers, in business almost have these imprinted on their brains as a filter for everything they see, hear, smell or just sense in general. I tend to believe businesses committed to these will probably end up in a pretty good place. They can certainly do other things <to have a ‘business success list’ would take pages I believe> but these 5 seem to work pretty well.

the in-between

June 8th, 2013

wretched hollow of the“I struggle to think of anything more miserable than living a life in the wretched hollow of the in between.”me

Ok.

Having quoted myself …

What if that is all there is?

What if life is made up primarily of the in between?

And what if it is actually more important than all the other shit we focus on day in and day out?

What if the in-between is the big epic holiday from Life?

 

For all we could and should being

In the one life that we’ve got.

Everybody says that time heals everything.

But what of the wretched hollow?

The endless in-between?

Are we just going to wait it out? Imogene heap (Wait it Out)

 

Think about it.

If life is a journey <not a destination> then isn’t the completion of that thought that you are always in between?

In between where you were and where you will be <or you are going>.

Geez.

That doesn’t sound good.

In fact that sounds horrible <to me>.

And I imagine to people who have specific aspirations and goals and things they target as “success in life” it is even worse … it sounds an awful like nonsuccess, lack of focus and wasted energy.

It sounds like either not knowing where you are supposed to go <which is something that everyone is telling you is the key to happiness> or you are stuck someplace that isn’t moving toward where you want to go.

None of that sounds good.

But isn’t in between <in this sense> about finding your way?

Finding ‘home’ mentally’?

Where home, in the sense of ‘where I am going’, remains elusive mentally and physically.

And that you are in the search for … well … whatever it is you are searching for.

That means we are all supposed to be searching … well … all our lives.

Ok.

That was generalization.

How about thinking about this as living in between on the majority of things.

Would it be okay to be in between on all the <85%> things but ‘where you meant to be’ on the 15%? That suggests you are anchored on the important, or some, things.

Is that good?

Well.

As I noted above for me that is still miserable <or at least sounds so>.

Not knowing something as important as that seems like it should be in the minority of the time and not the majority <meaning it is okay to ‘not know’ for periods>.

And yet.

If you have ever been to a tropical island … I would suggest many of the people there live long periods of their life in between.

And by ‘in between’ I mean simply meandering through Life.

The majority seem to have left something behind but … well … haven’t made any decisions with regard to gaining anything more ahead <tangibly>.

In my rat race words … they still have not found what they are seeking.

inbetween why am i here inbetweenHere is the crazy thing.

They, for the most part, are quite content.

They seem to smile more <good> and maybe bathe less <not so good>.

They may wear the same shirt a couple of days in a row … and it isn’t some fancy designer shirt.

They don’t wear socks and they seem to be in less of a hurry <but almost always seem to get places on time>.

And … well … they seem to smile more.

So maybe it is just me.

Maybe I am trapped in the American ‘can do’ … or ‘should do’ attitude and missing out on what life has to offer when you spend it in the in-between.

I do know that when I am around people who are peacefully existing in the in between I seem to wander there into that wretched space.

And it doesn’t seem so wretched then.

And I wonder.

And then it is painful <becoming wretched again>.

I want to know where I am going. I want to know what I should be doing. And I want to be doing something purposeful for someone.inbetween want to feel important

Oh.

Yeah.

But they seem to smile more.

 

Maybe part of growing up is learning how to be comfortable in the in between … and not “being successful” and “having something to show.”

Maybe.

But it seems strange to me.

And it seems so far out of my natural DNA the thought of it makes me reach for another cocktail <preferably a pain killer> just to calm myself.

Oh.

But they seem to smile more.

 

And when I see them smiling … they do talk to me about their own in between, oddly enough, it reminds me of Alice in Wonderland …

 

 

Alice:                    “would you tell me please … which way I ought to go from here.”

Cheshire cat:     “that depends a good deal on where you want to get to.”

Alice:                    “I don’t much care.”

Cheshire Cat:     “then it doesn’t matter which way you go.”
Alice:                    “so long as I get somewhere.”

Cheshire Cat:     “oh, you’re sure to do that, if only you walk long enough.”

 

 

Look.

I imagine we all reach some crossroads in our lives.

Some moments when we question where to go from here.

I am an older guy.

I’m supposed to not only know where I am going but I am also supposed to be well on my way to be there <wherever or whatever ‘there’ is>.

Sometimes I feel I have visited ‘there’ already … and … well … shit. It wasn’t all it was cracked up to be.

That said.

Frankly … lately I wonder about what I will be “when I grow up” <which I imagine is the mature view of ‘where am I going’>.

Therefore I do spend some time in that wretched hollow I call ‘the in between.’

And, yup. it is wretched to me.

All my life I have improved businesses, organizations and projects. And I love doing that. And I imagine along the way I have improved myself <at least one would hope that was a by product>.

At the moment I am doing none of those things <at least on a 100% basis which is what I am used to>.

So what happens next?

I define myself by doing.

It makes you think … what happens when you stop doing?

Well.

Doing what you have always believed has created some ‘value’ in Life. I still think and write and share ideas and help people … but not in the way I used to where organizations counted on me.

Being a salaried employee is comfortable.

Doing and providing value daily, if not weekly, is comfortable … at least to me.

I don’t know that I am that different from the majority in this sense.

Many of us … most of us … like feeling productive. Heck. Most of us like BEING productive <in some form or fashion>.

It is funny.

I had this discussion with someone sitting at a bar in the islands.

Someone who was comfortable with the inbetween.

Mostly comfortable because they defined their Life differently … and, frankly, from a pragmatic standpoint had figured out a way to do something that paid the bills without the ongoing stress of where next month’s  money is going to come from.

Anyway.

Lastly.

Here is what I think about in-between and people and today’s culture.

 

Sometimes people need to be pulled out of the in-between.

They cannot get out on their own.

 

Wow.

That certainly goes against all of today’s “you have to be a self starter” or “you cannot count on anyone but yourself” or “no one is going to do it for you” philosophy being expounded, and pounded, into today’s culture.

I imagine I think of this the same as the slippery slope of Life. The in between, just as the slippery slope, is difficult to get off of or out of without a helping hand.

This isn’t about not being strong enough or not being enough of a self starter … or not even not being qualified or ‘good enough’ at some work talent … some people just get stuck.

And some of those people are simply better at being in the game than in getting in the game.

I know I tell people to get in the game all the time. Take chances and take some uncomfortable risks.

And I am not backing off of that.

But there is a difference between doing that while actually in the game then when you are out seeking to get in.

For example … myself … put me in the game and I will play like every second is the last second of the game. I take calculated risks and am relatively fearless in a business environment. But I am also relatively clueless about getting in the game if I am on the sidelines.

It is a different skill … and a different attitude.

And it isn’t about avoiding anything … or avoiding choices <or inability to make the hard choices> and … it is not even about being lazy … it is simply a different Life skill.

 

inbetween-spaceWhew.

This in-between thing can be quite wretched for many of us I imagine.

All I really know is that the conversation I had made me think and the next day at the same bar I had this scribbled on some napkins for them to read <they all bought me drinks after reading>.

 

I don’t share many things I write personally but try this one out as I ponder ‘what I will be’ and what I will do because I feel like I still have something to offer <professionally>.

And I am currently squarely residing in the in between.

And it is a really uncomfortable place for me.

In fact … I am relatively sure the in between is the wretched hollow in Life.

——-

 

Napkin scribblings at a bar in the Caribbean after a pain killer <or 2>. Oh. This is also probably my first published piece in that the bar owner liked it so much it is now posted behind the bar.

Here you go:

‘tomorrow I was nothing’

 

tomorrow I was nothinginbetween intersting people some of the most

yesterday I was no more than today

today I was believing that which is was not.

in some little place in between everything i hold on to “I believe in me.”

but

makes you wonder

if we ever reach a day

when we can discern the difference

between

that which is

what was

and what will be

and what we believe,

even in me.

so are we destined to suffocate

in the silent seconds

strewn in the wretched hollow

of the in between

where the only thing seen

are question

after question

after question

of the difference between

what is, what was and what will be.

oh, so i ask Life to wait on things

things that seem practical to the wise

as i wait

for wisdom with closed eyes

hoping all will appear on our fingertips to touch

that which is right from the wrong

and what we can feel may lie unseen in the in between

where it all becomes real

regardless

can you count the Mondays

Life thinks of calling me

and doesn’t?

because in the hollow of the in between

I know that i am you and you are me

and in the grey

in between decisions

seek the light of what is right

despite the fact you sometimes doubt that which is

and aim to the left

where darkness beckons.

in the end

departing the wretched in between

is simply what it is

and always comes back to what was.

so don’t blink

or you may you sink into the in between

of what you think

rather than what you should know

for tomorrow was nothing

and yesterday 

was holding your dreams

and today is what is.

——

<please note: I wrote the original for this maybe 6 months ago in a very pensive mood while relaxing on an island in-between – pun intended – working on business projects remotely>

Thanks for reading <sometimes don’t think I say this enough>.

inside out leadership

June 7th, 2013

Inside Out LogoOk.

This is about running a business and the heretical thought that the consumer is NOT the king or queen <if it helps … I will also suggest that they are not subjects of the kingdom either>.

I thought about this again after I watched the following TED.com video on how leaders inspire action.

http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action.html?goback=.gde_129331_member_8477855

 

<please note: the video is long but interesting if you like this kind of stuff … and … what I am going to write about has little to do with what is said in the video>

 

That said.

Why did I think about consumers not driving everything after watching this?

Well.

It reminded me that great leaders don’t respond … they … well … lead.

Maybe not always proactively but they lead from the inside out … not from the outside in.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

A bunch of people pay some lip service to the thought I just typed but it all goes awry as soon as their lips close because they then immediately start focusing on “what does the consumer want” or “how can I make my consumer happy?”

Now.

I understand you cannot go whole hog in one direction <solely “it’s about me” with wanton disregard for the people who actually purchase whatever it is you want them to purchase> but I believe too many business people have this equation <balance> way out of whack.

A business certainly  needs to understand its position in customers’ minds but a fundamental feature of a successful company is having a certain stamina for consistency. This is an ability to have a core strength combined with an inherent flexibility to adapt without being knocked off course by some short term consumer “gosh … I think this is what I want’ trend.

 

Good leaders appreciate the value of this business stamina and focus.

And at the core of this stamina idea is a focus on an embedded trust & integrity within the essence of the organization and ultimately its people <who actually embody the corporate brand>.

A trust & integrity tied to its purpose <which I imagine is a combination of individual morality as well as organizational  morality>.

The process in doing this?

I have heard people suggest that this is ‘turning the telescope inside’ where you look inside the company <users, employees, culture, etc.>  and explore the ‘brand essentials – where it comes from, how long it has been around, what the company is all about, its culture, values, personality, what makes it different, and so on.

And all that is good stuff.

But inevitably stamina circles around the overall intent of the process: desirable to consumers, distinctive from competition, deliverable by company, durable over time.

Well.

Maybe.

That’s important stuff but its … well … stuff.

Most processes will invariably pound away on those business distinctions … but honestly … inevitably it comes down to consistent, predictable essence <purpose, moral compass, vision … whatever you want to call it>.

And ,to me, inside out leadership is more important than ever because I believe the business world is finally reaching the critical point in a shift that began in 1990 <or so>.

Huh. Why now?

Easy answer.

Generations.

Change always needs to evolve and people need to wrap their heads around change … and big changes only truly evolve as people implement it in youth <so it is embedded>.

inside out killing myslefAnd, frankly, in the midst of change leaders kind of make it up as they go <as they have for maybe 20 years or so> but now we have a clearer picture of what a business will be facing moving forward.

 

Two books clearly outlined the initial stage of the generational shift <Drucker’s New Realities in 1991 and Toffler’s Powershift in 1990>.

I would like to remind everyone what Alvin Toffler wrote in 1990 in discussing this business shift:

 

“Anyone who believes that we’re just going to leap into some sort of glorious new age is very unrealistic … far-reaching turmoil can be expected, as individuals and institutions either adapt to, or resist, change.”

 

Yup.

More than twenty years ago Alvin Toffler wrote a book called Powershift: Knowledge, Wealth, and Violence at the Edge of the 21st Century which was a look at how social, political, and economic power structures were changing on the cusp of the computer age.

It foresaw many of the issues businesses <and the world> are facing today … and how the business world tried to cope <with far reaching turmoil>..

He noted when he wrote the book that at rare moments in history the advance of knowledge has smashed through old barriers. The most important of these breakthroughs has been the invention of new tools for thinking and communication, like the ideogram … the alphabet … the zero … and at that time … the computer.

 

He clearly outlined the impact on businesses created by the computer <and internet>.  The fact that the entire business structure kind of entered a chaotic stage as old barriers fell and leaders <who were steeped in an entirely different culture & world> struggled to adapt to the change <with no playbook to follow>.

He pointed out that everything reorganized <production, labor, distribution of knowledge as well as how it is all communicated> and at the same time as everything fell apart leaders tried to piece it all back together again … leaders who were learning on the fly and, frankly, making it up as they went.

 

And while Toffler & Drucker walked everyone through the shift … how did the existing business world and leaders deal with the shift?

In some one else’s words … business leaders “attacked everything in life with a mix of extraordinary genius and naive incompetence, and it was often difficult to tell which was which.”

<note: that is an awesome quote>

Business book after business book has been written on these leaders … sometimes skewering and sometimes praising … but they were simply adapting with an extraordinary mix of genius and naïve incompetence.

 

Ok. Moving on to today.

This means we are now entering a period of time <almost 25 years after the shift> when a generation is entering into the workplace which is steeped in ‘knowledge as wealth.’ We have reached a point that Drucker & Toffler ignored … the time when new leaders are not adapting to the shift but rather leaders are implementing engrained attitudes & behavior.

 

As I said upfront.

Consumer is not really the king/queen. The knowledge wealth <the company> is the king, queen or ruler … and they provide value to their citizens … without being subservient to the citizens.

So.

Why did leaders suggest consumer is king/queen?

Well <I will rationalize for them because they may actually have had a good reason>.

As knowledge wealth was dispersed to all levels within an organization <someone called it the democratization of knowledge> businesses became more fragmented.

These vast changes, within a short time, created stress and distortion beyond the adaptive capabilities of most people and pushed our physiological and psychological resources to the limits.

Interestingly Toffler identified maladaptive psychological conditions seen in the attempt to adjust.

This adjustment entails forms of denial, specialization, obsessive reversion, and super-simplification.

Oh my.

That sure sounds a lot like what we say about many of today’s leaders <and some of the leaders we grew up working under>.

 

The easiest way to say this is to say that knowledge could slink into any office space and anyone smart enough to use it could become smarter than the person they reported to. It is easy to see that this organization fragmentation driven by real/actual knowledge could easily become chaos … unless leaders put a shiny object in front of everyone that was easy to grasp and easy to accept – the consumer.

Frankly it was a cheap leadership trick from leaders. And at its worst actually could divert a company from its true purpose. At its best … it made businesses money.

Now.

I say this with the benefit of hindsight. It is quite possible that I, trying anything imaginable to rally & focus an organization around, would have done exactly the same.

But it is not the way to go.

And good leaders today have the opportunity today to get it right.

It is not easy and it is certainly challenging.

The big challenge?

I believe that today’s successful business is the ultimate contradiction – personal freedom for openness to imagination and creativity <with a tolerance for individuality> tied to careful channeling and close control of directed purpose and actions/behavior.

This contradiction makes it impossible for leaders to lead in a traditional way <the way they learned to lead from those who were adapting to the shift> and there needs to be a new leader, and leadership style focus, to manage in this evolved business environment.inside out leadership

 

It becomes dynamically more challenging because beyond the consumer is the king/queen trick … leaders were also faced with organizations shifting from a culture of individualism management <management by ‘one’>. This post-industrial revolution stage rewarded people who could break problems and processes down into smaller and smaller parts. This disintegration or analytic approach had led management to think of production as a series of disconnected <or mutually exclusive> parts to be honed to ultimate efficiency. At that time the entire process was seen as either sequential or isolated.

This is what current managers/leaders grew up on and tried adapting to the changing business world.

This is what they feel most comfortable with especially when problem solving or delving into a situation.

However.

The new knowledge system driven by technology <and the spread of knowledge across multiple constituents instead of solely knowledge leaders> began to understand <and treat> production or the process as increasingly simultaneous and synthesized. The parts of the process are not the whole and cannot be easily isolated. Everything feeds into the other arcing back and forth in a never ending cycle.

That threw the business world in a tizzy and leaders scrambled to adjust.

 

In addition <to add an additional layer> we began interrelating data in more ways, giving them context, and thus forming them into informed information as well as assembling chunks of information into larger and larger models and architectures of knowledge.

That ‘non mutually exclusive’ skill set began creating a need for a different type of leader/manager <one who did not exist at that time>.

Want more challenge?

Now the practical business issues I just outlined gained additional complexity because as information, and access to knowledge, became available to the lowest common denominators <any work space> at the same time we began to realize that not all this new knowledge is factual or even explicit.

In other words … not all knowledge was good <or available>.

Much knowledge is unspoken, consisting of assumptions piled atop assumptions, of fragmentary models, of unnoticed analogies, and it includes not simply logical and seemingly unemotional information data, but values, the products of passion and emotion, not to mention imagination and intuition.

 

This new knowledge based business model created new opportunities … and new challenges to leaders.

Toffler’s implicit assumption was that new technologies usually work in favor of the common man. He argued, for example, that computers are helping “thoroughly smash” the knowledge monopoly of Western managers and specialists, leading to a democratization of power.

inside out distribution of powerWell.

I agree and disagree.

I agree it creates a perception of democratization of power.

I disagree it smashes the knowledge monopoly of managers.

 

I believe it simply began the need for the creation of a new type of manager/leader.

And it certainly began the need to look at businesses, and capitalism, as a whole differently <which is probably a separate post in that it is a philosophical crisis we seem to be facing today that is an outcome of this shift beginning 25 years ago>.

 

And I even agree this whole line of thinking totally changes on how we should be looking at businesses and inevitably ‘capitalism’ as it is defined in our minds.

As Toffler suggests: “if the shift toward knowledge-capital is real, then Capital itself is increasingly “unreal” – it consists largely of symbols that represent nothing more than other symbols inside the memories and thoughtware of people and computers.

Capital has therefore gone from its tangible form, to a paper form that symbolized tangible assets, to paper symbolizing symbols in the skulls of a continually changing work force.  Finally, the electronic blips symbolizing the paper. Capital is fast becoming “super-symbolic.” Salt, tobacco, coral, cotton cloth, copper, and cowries’ shells are useful things that served as money. However, paper money dominated the industrial society … today, as a more advanced economy emerges, paper money faces near-total obsolescence. Not a single coin or piece of paper money is exchanged. The “money” here consists of nothing more than a string of zeros and ones transmitted by wire, microwave, or satellite.

In brief, the rise of electronic money in the world economy threatens to shake up many long-entrenched power relationships. At the vortex of this power struggle is knowledge embedded in technology. It is a battle that will redefine money itself.

“Mind-work” is range of “mixed” jobs – tasks requiring the worker to perform physical labor, but also handle information. Since the inception of the Industrial Revolution, big smokestack companies have held a great control on the economy.

But In the super-symbolic economy, “wealth creation is increasingly dependent on the exchange of data, information and knowledge. “With these changes, there are now growing conflicts between the “highbrow” or knowledge-base and the “lowbrow” or muscle-base businesses.

 

All that said.

Leadership will be defined by the inside aspect of businesses. Not just in producing things but rather knowledge capital and how it is managed. Not just innovations and ideas … but getting an organization to collectively think in a common direction.

Leadership will be defined by their ability to not respond to the consumer but rather respond, and adapt, to the organization <boy … there is a paradigm shift … isn’t it?>.

And the organizational power, in general, will depend on taking advantage of the cracks in the process. The cracks speed creates. The events that were not pre-programmed or foreseen.

I imagine leadership power partially depends on chance <finding the opportunities to lead within the moment> and managing human behavior in a desired fashion.

This doesn’t mean everything is accidental. Not everything is random. In fact power is found within predictability as well as randomness. Power implies combining chance, necessity, continuity, chaos and order.

 

Interestingly Toffler suggested, in 1990 I would like to remind everyone, the following <which impacts my thinking on inside out>:Inside out The-Mind-Film-Concept-Art

-              THE CORPORATION OF THE FUTURE – the bigger the world economy, the more powerful will be the smaller players. This is because they are more flexible, faster and more economical – not burdened by layers of bureaucracy. Computers and telecommunications, now affordable to small companies, allow them to compete globally, and deregulation and globalization of financial markets gives them access to capital. Computer-driven technology also makes it possible to produce small runs of customized “higher value-added” products aimed at niche markets. Products produced “just in time” save money on inventory, and they can be quickly improved to compete with rapidly changing technology and tastes. Big companies will break up into confederations of small, entrepreneurial units. Small interacting firms will form themselves into temporary mosaics to be more adaptive and productive.

 

-              KNOWLEDGE IS THE RESOURCE OF THE FUTURE – land, natural resources, factories and workers are no longer the measure of a country’s wealth because multinational businesses can easily obtain these things anywhere in the world. It is the APPLICATION OF KNOWLEDGE that now offers the competitive advantage in the world economy. The KNOWLEDGE WORKER is the true asset because of the knowledge and abilities he or she possesses. In the twenty-first century at least 35 percent of the workforce will be knowledge workers. They must have formal education, possess specific knowledge and skills, have the ability to acquire and apply theoretical and analytical knowledge, and continue to learn throughout their lives. They will work in teams because no one person can know enough to do it all. Because they are the true assets and are highly mobile, companies will work hard to keep them.

 

I bring this into the discussion not only because he was so accurate in his 1990 thoughts but because to me this means the new inside out leaders of today will have more of an opportunity to create the necessary attitudinal shift in business world than in recent years. Smaller organizations are easier to create attitudinal and behavioral direction than larger organizations. Lots of smaller pieces and parts coalescing in a common direction can affect a larger cultural shift.

a host of different smaller business formats will shift traditional power away from manager-bureaucrats in the years ahead and create a new power for leaders <that they not only need to recognize but embrace in order to be successful>.

I believe organizational morality <or value beyond profit> will become the leadership cornerstone within an organization.

And while morality and virtue are developed over time <via repeated decisions to choose what is right and to fore go what is wrong> which typically means there is no quick fix to any organizational morality problems … lots of smaller pieces can be redirected in the here and now.

 

What about laws? <you may ask>

Sure.

Laws can help foster an environment in which virtue can be developed and exerted more readily. But if managers and leaders could be empowered and encouraged to take moral considerations into greater account, and unshackled from the constraint to operate their corporations with an unwavering focus on maximization of shareholder value the cultural shift can happen. And within a generation I believe. Think within a 2 decade span.

Forestalling the wrongdoing of the future can only be reached with a longer term perspective because the creativity and persistence of wrongdoers in the present <or at any time actually> is mind numbing.

Look.

Having spent a boatload of years in the corporate world I know that business leaders don’t want young people coming into their companies who are brilliant but dishonest. Nor do most want to build a flawed organization which will encourage moral ambiguity in decision making <albeit they lose sight of this with a focus on profits>.

And yet we are bombarded with stories of greedy corporate leaders and corrupt decision-making/actions all the time.

Indeed, every sector of our society seems confronted by a crisis of character … but the change can occur within the business world. A change created by the new inside out business leader.

 

All that said.

Today’s’ inside out leader faces a variety of challenges. I will speak to what I consider the two biggest:

-          Embracing fragmented knowledge while empowering it through  organizational ‘tribes’

-          Discerning between desire for speed and need for speed

 

-              inside out leader: Embracing fragmented knowledge while empowering it through ‘organizational tribes‘

 

There are two portions to this challenge … contradictory but compatible.

Individualism empowered by access to knowledge and organizational tribes embedded within organizations.

First.

Tribes.

I didn’t coin this term and in fact Toffler may have used it in 1990. I like the term. It exhibits a stronger cultural aspect than simply suggesting the younger generation of employees cluster into groups of likeminded people.

Because it is more of a behavioral truth if we just say that this generation’s attitude embraces the communal aspect … comfortable in ‘tribes.’ Not full large organizations but tribes <organizations are made up of a number of tribes>. Not unlike the Iroquois nation there are various tribes co-existing under a common charter. Each with separate cultural nuances and rituals but clearly aligned on a bigger purpose.

I began there because todays leader grew up under the ‘dog eat dog’, ‘big fish eat little fish’ and ‘kill or be killed’ every person for themselves organizational upward movement mentality.

Remember … I shared these Toffler words earlier in the post:

“Big companies will break up into confederations of small, entrepreneurial units. Small interacting firms will form themselves into temporary mosaics to be more adaptive and productive.”

He didn’t recognize a cultural shift affecting the generation <more of a community/tribal character> but rather focused solely on the power shift <knowledge wealth>.

As the two connect <a cultural shift and a business power shift> the words he shared become even more powerful … and meaningful to a new inside out leader.

These smaller units are tribes within an organization.

Each with its own ‘power’ to be managed by a leader savvy enough to move pieces seamlessly and have the ability to empower disparate thoughts, and tribes, into an aligned organization.

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The new inside out leader will need to recognize the balance between managing individuals and managing tribes <with tribal cultures>. Neither a one-size-fit –all mentality or a one-by-one management mentality will work and be successful. It will be about empowering tribe without having tribal war … and permitting the natural tribal leaders to arise from the culture.

 

Second.

Fragmented knowledge <individualized empowerment through knowledge>

A truth.

Knowledge is the most democratic source of power. The truly revolutionary aspect of knowledge wealth, and the internet, is that it can be grasped by weak & poor as well as strong & wealthy which makes it a continuing threat to the powerful, even as they try and use it to enhance their own power.

Toffler said this:

Bureaucracy is also a ways of groupings “facts”. A firm neatly cut into department according to function, market, region, or products is after all a collection of cubbyholes in which specialized information and personal experience are stored.  The vaunted “rationality” of bureaucracy goes out the window. Power, always a factor, now replaces reason as the basis for decision. The power structure based on control of information was clear, therefore: While specialists controlled the cubbyholes, managers controlled the channels.”

 

Reading this also explains why every leader is tempted <if not actually desirable of> to control the quantity, quality, and distribution of knowledge within his or her domain.

Therefore the internet has created a power shift by taking it from solely under those with legal or formal position and towards those with natural authority based on knowledge and certain psychological and political skills.

It became a leader’s headache as knowledge could slink into any office space and anyone smart enough to use it could become smarter than the person they reported to. It is easy to see that this organization fragmentation driven by real/actual knowledge could easily become chaos … unless leaders begin showcasing a different ability than maybe we have valued up until today.

This means today’s leaders need to be assimilators of fragments.

They need to encourage empowered individuals and tribes to accumulate knowledge and then redirecting or gathering disparate pieces of knowledge into new forms in which the organizations, and ultimately, the tribes benefit from.

The control of knowledge is the crux of an organization’s struggle for power and a leader’s biggest challenge in tomorrow’s businesses.

Compounding the issue is that the hyper speed in today’s world is making facts obsolete faster. Therefore knowledge built upon certain facts becomes less durable. This has 2 key impacts:

-              truth is fleeting <and decision making has small windows of opportunity>

-              business has become more abstract <as knowledge streams non stop into and within an organization>.

 

Which now leads me to discuss speed.

 

-              inside out leader: Discerning between desire for speed and need for speed

Inevitably speed kills <leadership power, decision-making, quality, sense of teamwork, etc.>.

Economics is now all accelerated <even if it isn’t really … we incessantly talk about it as if it is>. And all this accelerated pressure <speed> also shifts power by putting stress, and inevitably undermining, the fixed, bureaucratic chain of command.

Now <taking a step back>.

While everyone talks about a faster world today I would like to point out business has always had a love affair with speed. I would like to remind everyone that the second phase of the industrial revolution was focused on breaking apart production processes <and behavior associated> into the smallest portions with the intent to isolate and shrinking time to the most efficient pace possible.

I point that out because we have always desired speed. But we do not necessarily NEED speed. Speed is not only an addictive objective but an elusive one … the more you get the more you want.

That said.

I believe the new inside out leader will learn how to slow organizations down. They will need to be able to discern the difference between desire and need.

I don’t mean make them slow … but rather simply slow them down.

There are a variety of ways to do so but I would suggest the best, and easiest, is to embed the core purpose or vision of the organization within each employee.

Organizations will slow to think … and assess. And only leaders can empower organizations to do this.

 

Therefore this will be a new kind of leader stressing the central importance of character and virtue in a culture … focusing everyone on the basics … decency, doing the right thing, cooperation and that actions always have long-term consequences.

This changes decision-making from “if it makes money it is good” to “how does this fit within our purpose/direction?” … which inevitably leads to smarter decisions and sometimes even adapted decisions <on the ground> all meeting a common purpose.

It slows down the organization to think a little.

James Q. Wilson wrote in The Moral Sense “Order exists because a system of beliefs and sentiments held by members of a society sets limits to what those members can do.”

Those limits not only provide a moral compass but also steady an organization <invariably slowing it down smartly>.

Businesses, in order to function well, therefore depend upon the virtue of their participants. Any distrust engendered by moral ambiguity raises wasteful transaction and monitoring costs to levels that can paralyze a business and infringe upon effective leadership <plus different tribes will assume different rules within the ambiguity>.

Moreover, moral ambiguity leads to the phenomenon of “putting profits before people.”

Even Adam Smith understood the link between markets and morality. Contrary to his common portrayal, he did not believe that a successful economy could arise from the raw, unbridled pursuit of self-interest. He maintained that self-interest could fuel a successful economy only if it were narrowed by the constraints of traditional morality.

Now.

If you do not believe there is a business benefit to what I just suggested there are some results of a major research study <which I need to refind the source>.

It was a study of professionals in all vocations who did not succeed and why did they not succeed <or even fail>.

Was it because of a lack of knowledge?  No, their education provided that or they acquired it.

Was it because of a lack of skills?  No, their education and/or life experience provided the necessary skills.

Was it because of a failure of character?  The study stated an unequivocal yes.

 

In the end … it is pretty simple … inside out ‘slowing down an organization’ will come down to an ability to drive <and exhibit> consistency and predictability.

And an ability to avoid structural organizational corruption due to fragmentation <and a desire for speed>.

So.

I use the term structural corruption to refer to a specific kind of risk‐taking in which an entire enterprise,  industry, or market deviates from accepted norms of behavior in a dangerous way. Often the pressures of business performance override the kinds of good judgment that managers would otherwise apply.

Structural corruption doesn’t materialize out of nothing.

It begins with a private but clearly stated agreement within a small group to cut corners, to find ways of doing things that appear to be in its favor but fail to account for their broader implications. The behavior then spreads to the wider workforce that hasn’t been party to the original consensus, but which now views the practices that have resulted as standard operating procedure. Often years pass before it becomes clear that the breadth of the original agreement to engage in questionable conduct exposes the entire organization to compromise and reputation loss.

In order to battle organizational misbehavior and structural corruption the leader has to use consistency and predictability.

While they cannot regulate behavior they can certainly, and publicly, manage ethical violations. Because individual violations ignored … lead to a group <or followers inclined to act the same way> violations which leads to organizational fragmentation … and ultimately some type of dysfunction <structural corruption>.

There is a simple solution.

The new leaders will find magic in consistency.

Not regulation and rules.

They need to encourage events which make values substantive in employees’ minds.

And, inevitably, management responses need to be predictable.

Organizations will be operating on consensus not compliance to moral obligations and actions.

Organizations will be connected by the shared values … and the consistent delivery of decisions based on the shared values or shared purpose.

 

Anyway.

Inside out leadership.

In today’s world of pundits, pontificators and prognosticators we seem to believe everything is new and a crisis and unforeseen. We overlook some really smart things said in the past and do not take the time to reassess and reapply the thinking.

Drucker and Toffler were true futurists. They recognized and outlined the real shift happening. The only thing they missed was what most miss … the generational lag.

When a shift happens <like the computer or even the printing press> the existing culture deals with it. sometimes with naiveté and sometimes with ingenious.

During the shift an entire generation not only has to watch the fumbling & bumbling of those doing their best to cope <therefore viewing the test tubes of management in front of their very eyes> but they also are steeped in the shift from early behavior patterns. The shift shapes who they are versus the shift being adapted to be the generation having to accommodate it.

Outside in kind of worked because it not only generated money/revenue but in general a happier consumer who felt important <who doesn’t like that?>. But it also worked because this knowledge power created a newer faster ‘responder’ organization which permitted leaders to be … well … lazier. They could build careers based only on responding and not foresight & consistency … and makes gobs of money.

But.

“If it feels good do it” mentality is not an effective business management style <especially if encouraging individuality and individual freedom in business>.

“If its profitable do it” mentality is not an effective business management style because it doesn’t breed the organizational cohesiveness to balance against the individual freedom.leadership dimensions diagram_2

But the worst thing about those?

If both of those management thoughts are driven by the outside, the wants & desires & whims of the consumer, then the organization will never be centered.

Ambiguity, not just morally, will reign within an organization.

Oh.

Ambiguity in leadership, and an organization overall, is bad.

 

Inside out leadership leads to minimizing ambiguity and maximizing organizational focus, efficiency & … well … doing the right thing.

Inside out leadership is the key to the future successful business.

 

no one noticed

June 4th, 2013

futurama doing things right“When you do things right, people won’t be sure that you have done anything at all.” – God (in Futurama)

 

So.

In case you have forgotten … Futurama was one of those random Fox sci-fi based animated shows in the early 2000’s. Typical of that genre <Simpsons & family guy> … when the writers wrote a good show it was a frickin’ great show … and when they missed … well … they missed <by galaxies in this case>.

Regardless.

I loved the premise behind this series … it follows the adventures of a late 20th-century New York City pizza delivery boy, Philip J. Fry, who, after being unwittingly cryogenically frozen for one thousand years, finds employment at Planet Express, an interplanetary delivery company in the retro-futuristic 31st century.

And, typically of Fox, it was full of those incredibly excellent moments where they lampoon other shows as well as some topical moments.

For example … here are the top sci-fi references you would find in the show …

Futurama sci fi references: http://www.ugo.com/tv/every-sci-fi-reference-in-futurama

 

Anyway.

Back to the quote.

Here’s the entire conversation:futurama best 1

the Galaxy God: Bender, being God isn’t easy. If you do too much, people get dependent on you, and if you do nothing, they lose hope. You have to use a light touch. Like a safecracker, or a pickpocket.
Bender: Or a guy who burns down a bar for the insurance money!
the Galaxy God: Yes, if you make it look like an electrical thing. When you do things right, people won’t be sure you’ve done anything at all.

 

Regardless of whether this thought is delivered from some animated galaxy God or not … this thought is a big thought <which, I imagine, is the reason why they had the god character deliver it>.

It is a Life truth.

The fact that the really great things in life are easy to miss … easy to mistake as nothing … and yet they are … well … right.

Goodness … heck … greatness … whether we like it or not … is stealthy.

This combined with the fact that small acts of kindness can be more effective than doing great, drastic actions makes ‘doing things right’ truly a selfless act.

Easy to miss … easy to mistake … when everything is great.

Oh.

The corollary thought to what I just typed is that sometimes if you try and accomplish huge, world changing things … they become engulfed in the spotlight.

Yup. In the business of what you do or are attempting you gather supporters … sometimes even large groups of supporters … but more often than not you inevitably gain people along the way who disagree <in some way> and even if in a minority they are loud.

And from that grows conflict.

And doing things right actually becomes debated.

And the debate is often in the nuance.

<note: that is kinda nuts when you think about it>

Cynically I could suggest that what is better to do is perform the small acts … the ones that are unnoticeable by the mainstream public … therefore you avoid the conflict.

But.

I am not that cynical.

Doing things right isn’t about small … nor large … but if you do it right … really right … people will not really be sure that you’ve done anything at all.

Now.

In today’s bombastic world it can actually become a bad thing if no one notices. Why? <insert ‘huh?!?’ also> because someone else at the exact same time is telling everyone what they did … and yes … unfortunately … often the squeaky wheel does get the grease.

Aw heck.

The value is never in the credit. And we need to remind ourselves of that more often.

 

“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.”

 

Little things can matter.

A subtle touch can create the needed ripples.

And you can be the initiator, instigator or implementer … or even all of them … and it doesn’t really matter.

In fact.

How do you know when you not only did the right thing … but did it right?

no turning backNo one notices.

Well.

How is that for Life advice?

Don’t be noticed <but always do the right thing well>.

 

<I will not be making millions writing that book>

 

Being good <or God> isn’t easy.

You always have to be ‘doing’ and yet you always have to not be noticed.

Your reward?

Things are done right.

And people believe they did it themselves.

 

By the way.

That is also called “character.”

That said … I could have easily used the infamous character quote … “character is what you do when no one is looking.”

But I didn’t. on purpose. Because the Futurama quote is a stronger point about character.

It takes it one step further.

Character is doing the right thing and not being noticed. You are facilitator for good … and what is right. And have the strength … an inner strength … to just do what you do with no recognition … no outside stimulus. You just do.

 

Yup.

Don’t be noticed <but always do the right thing well>.

People won’t be sure that you have done anything at all.

But who cares?

Being good <or doing the right thing> isn’t really about anyone noticing.

Hey.

Being good isn’t easy.

there sure are a lot of successful businesses out there

May 31st, 2013

small business claires storeWell.

The obituary of Rowland Schaefer the other day reminded me that there are a shitload of businesses out there in this great big world of ours.

And sometimes surprisingly making money.

Rowland?

He founded the ever present mall retail store called Claire’s.

<no idea who original ‘Claire’ was … apparently he changed stories a lot when asked who Claire was>

 

Ok.

Before I get to Claire’s.

 

I have pretty much seen every type of businesses’ balance sheet and business model throughout my career so I know how easy it is to make money <assuming you know what you are doing>.

That said.

small-business ideasFrom the outside looking in I cannot tell you how many times I scratch my head wondering how some businesses even exist.

I am silly.

But I am also an admitted cynic of all new business startups <even when I see the numbers>. I am also an admitted crappy entrepreneur. I am too pragmatic … and cynical. That is the reason I thrive working with existing businesses fixing them.

Anyway.

The point here is that business can thrive anywhere and any time and in any in any industry. And I mean any industry.

I have driven across the United States several times and am astounded by the random stores <and signage for said businesses> littering the landscape. There are dozens, nay, thousands of antique stores, swimming supplies, doll outlets, tech support, etc. stores scattered around the business world.

I have visited random cities around the world. And I am astounded by the number of storefronts, or in Europe more often, the street vendors, littering their landscape.

All are open for business.

And they are there to stay.

Will they make millions? Probably not.

Will they make their owners a good living & life? Probably.

Will they still make me scratch my head wondering how they exist and continue to exist? You bet.

 

Look <and these numbers will be in the realm of rightness but probably not exact>.

 

About three quarters of all U.S. business firms have no payroll. Most are self-employed persons operating unincorporated businesses, and may or may not be the owner’s principal source of income.

 

There are something like 25 to 30 million businesses in the good ole US of A.

Around 20 of those million are firms with no payrolls. Just good ole entrepreneurs going about their business <and lives>.

And then there are about 6 to 7 million with payrolls <they represent about 97% of all business sales/receipts>.

 

So.

Just because I seemingly know my business shit … I don’t really know shit.

 

There are so many ways to make money in the business world it can make your head spin.

I am probably tainted by my bigger business experiences.

I am tainted by “we need to show growth every month” and “what will stockholders say” or even the simple “if we are not growing – in some perceptible tangible way – there is something wrong.”

Most business people simply say “how do I make a good living for me and my family.”

Constraints, or pressures, from an outside financial community to those people aren’t growth but rather ‘paying the bills.’

This is a paradigm shift for someone wacky like me.small business grwoth ideas

But it is a healthy one for me to think about.

 

And you know what? Rowland <getting back to Claire’s> got this.

His business thinking was pretty simple.

He focused Claire’s on the teenage and preteen markets.

He focused a retailing experience that appealed to these age groups, with bright colors, kid-scale prices and fast-changing merchandise to encourage frequent visits.

He focused on location to drive traffic <malls> and therefore saw little need to advertise.

He focused on the little picture <and ultimately managed the big picture>:

“The fashion business isn’t perilous for us. We get our money and get out. But if an earring goes out of style in New York or Los Angeles, it will be a while before it goes out of style in Des Moines, Iowa.”

He focused on margin <all that little crappy stuff for kids to buy was ninexpensive to make and each little item gave a really nice profit margin> and small space <equivocating to small staff and small operations expense>.

He focused on annual earnings not monthly <the fickle tastes of fad-conscious youngsters sometimes produced mixed results, making the stock at times a roller-coaster ride—albeit one that trended strongly upward over the years>.

 

Here is the crazy thing.

If Rowland had come to me in the beginning with this idea I probably would have told him he was nuts. I would have shook my head <sagely of course> and suggested he couldn’t even maintain a business.

And I would have been nuts.

Ok.

It is possible once I saw the numbers and thought my way through it I would have become slightly less cynical but still most likely would have given it a less than 50% chance of survival.

 

How wrong would I have been?

As of October 27, 2012, Claire’s has 3,469 stores in 36 countries: 1,947 in North America (United States & Canada), 1,141 in Europe (United Kingdom, France, Switzerland, Spain, Ireland, Austria, Germany, Netherlands, Portugal, Belgium, Poland, Czech Republic, Hungary and Italy), and 381 franchised and licensed stores elsewhere in the world (Japan, Middle East, India, Mexico, Turkey, Ukraine, Greece, Malta, Guatemala, El Salvador, Panama, Venezuela, and Dominican Republic).

 

I would have been wrong in a very very <very> big way.

 

confusedPersonally <and professionally> I like these reminders.

It reminds me that while I may know some business shit I still don’t really know shit.

It reminds me that there are some things I am good at … and some things I should avoid like the plague because I am not good at it.

It also reminds me that <using USA as an example> 25+ million people are smarter than I am.

They have a business.

They know how to make money doing so.

And they are making a living.

Oh. And I bet, in general, they are pretty happy.

heroes

May 27th, 2013

“Heroism is an obedience to a secret impulse of an individual’s character. hero emersonNow to no other man can its wisdom appear as it does to him, for every man must be supposed to see a little farther on his own proper path than anyone else.”- Ralph Waldo Emerson <ESSAY VIII Heroism>

 

So.

Let me start by saying I tend to believe little things can make a big difference.

And in a never ending struggle with everyday common Life you should seek the small victories because in the end … a big Life is made up of some pretty important small victories.

That said.

Some things are bigger than others. And some big things cannot be done by accumulating a bunch of little things … even if they are really good little things. And some big things should never be diminished.

Like heroism & heroes.

Yup.

On a day in the United States where we recognize the memories of heroes … the veterans of the military … I want to talk about heroes.

Now.

Before I say what I want to say … I know we need heroes.

Not just for practical reasons <we need to remember that they actually did something heroic that made a difference> but from a character compass standpoint.

They become a North Star for attitude, actions and character.

Universally we all have a desire to hear the stories and to identify with people with strong character and learn through the circumstances and choices that make them heroic to us.

And.

I believe it is a Life truth that there can be no great heroes without great followers.

And we the ordinary people … are the great followers … always seeking the great heroes.

And that is what I want to discuss.

Great heroes.

And how I struggle with the ‘local media spotlighted’ heroes.

Because I believe that in order to deserve a real hero … we the people, the common everyday people who fight the good fight day in and day out, must be able to rise above a sense of self and the belief that we are ‘heroic’ in our everyday lives … and stop thinking the overall belief that heroism resides in the capacity of the majority.

hero time isFor true heroism is not in the purview of the common person.

True heroism is not for you & I <okay … maybe some of us … but not me>.

 

Whoa ! <you say>

Let me explain my thinking.

 

We have a desperate … and not a bad objective … desire for heroes and heroism.

And in doing so we have a tendency to celebrate the glimpses of heroism found in the ordinary person in possibly an extraordinary moment.

And maybe by doing so we diminish heroism.

 

To me … despite how we want to treat these following things as exceptional or examples for people to follow … things like duty, honor, courage & integrity are every day obligations for everyday people.

Not exceptional … but expected.

 

People should be going about doing what they do with a sense of duty. Simply doing what we expect people should do.

This versus commend only those who ‘serve beyond the call of duty’ without expectation of reward.

 

I believe Heroes should be an esteemed status.

Elite.

Just as there is only one North Star the great heroes remain the brightest of the bright stars.

And when we create heroes from those who simply portray courage or a strong sense of duty <or doing what is right> it seems to lessen rather than increase the image and reality of true heroism.

Great heroes are few in number.

Great heroes are not doing little things that matter.

 

I fully understand this is a contrary point of view.hero not common

We like everyday heroes. Or the idea of them.

News always raises up the unheralded local person … the unknown personality … the common person doing something seemingly heroic in everyday Life and shares ‘the story.’

We like it. And these people certainly deserve to be commended.

Commended as heroes? Well.

You could argue that to claim most people are heroes, and do heroic things, suggests that there really are not any heroes.

 

Heroes are not common.

Heroic acts cannot be common.

 

Ok.

Here is the good news <for me> so that before everyone starts shoving random objects up my wazoo … Ralph Waldo Emerson agrees with me <or I guess I agreed with him?>.

 

Ralph Waldo Emerson. – “The characteristic of heroism is its persistency. All men have wandering impulses, fits, and starts of generosity. But when you have chosen your part, abide by it, and do not weakly try to reconcile yourself with the world. The heroic cannot be the common, nor the common the heroic.”

 

Ralph <or Waldo to his closest drinking buddies> wrote an essay on Heroism. A brilliant piece <albeit he uses a boatload of words I do not understand and strings them together in some very odd sentences>  where he solidly puts forth a belief that heroes are special … and few.

 

Let me share some of his thoughts <I have bolded the really special parts>:

 

Our culture, therefore, must not omit the arming of the man. Let him hear in season, that he is born into the state of war, and that the commonwealth and his own well-being require that he should not go dancing in the weeds of peace, but warned, self-collected, and neither defying nor dreading the thunder, let him take both reputation and life in his hand, and, with perfect urbanity, dare the gibbet and the mob by the absolute truth of his speech, and the rectitude of his behaviour.

 

Towards all this external evil, the man within the breast assumes a warlike attitude, and affirms his ability to cope single-handed with the infinite army of enemies. To this military attitude of the soul we give the name of Heroism.

 

Heroism feels and never reasons, and therefore is always right; and although a different breeding, different religion, and greater intellectual activity would have modified or even reversed the particular action, yet for the hero that thing he does is the highest deed, and is not open to the censure of philosophers or divines. It is the avowal of the unschooled man, that he finds a quality in him that is negligent of expense, of health, of life, of danger, of hatred, of reproach, and knows that his will is higher and more excellent than all actual and all possible antagonists.

 

It is the state of the soul at war, and its ultimate objects are the last defiance of falsehood and wrong, and the power to bear all that can be inflicted by evil agents. It speaks the truth, and it is just, generous, hospitable, temperate, scornful of petty calculations, and scornful of being scorned. It persists; it is of an undaunted boldness, and of a fortitude not to be wearied out. Its jest is the littleness of common life. That false prudence which dotes on health and wealth is the butt and merriment of heroism. Heroism, like Plotinus, is almost ashamed of its body.

 

… which common duty can very well attain, to suffer and to dare with solemnity. But these rare souls set opinion, success, and life, at so cheap a rate, that they will not soothe their enemies by petitions, or the show of sorrow, but wear their own habitual greatness.

 

heroes memorial-dayHeroes are immortal in their heroism.

Heroes have no death.

And they are bigger than us normal everyday folk.

Their purity has never been ‘shrunk to the common size of man.’

 

We should put heroism on a pedestal just as we should exalt the true heroes.

 

Emerson reminds us heroism cannot be common … because it is the one thing that is deemed worthy of immportality “… made death impossible, and affirms itself no mortal, but a native of the deeps of absolute and inextinguishable being.”

 

Ralph was a smart guy.

And said some really smart things.

We cheapen heroism a little bit by bestowing that honor on too many for too little. And by ‘too little’ I am suggesting we have set the bar too low.

We should expect honor, duty, integrity and … yes … courage of convictions and courage to do what is right from everyone.

Those things are the standard for citizenship.

 

Heroes carry that standard to the forefront and beyond. They are the ones who speak the truth when truth is most difficult to speak, have the fortitude to not be wearied out by littleness of common life and are the rare souls who but wear their own habitual greatness.

murphy’s laws of war (& business)

May 15th, 2013

Well.murphys stupid

This post is partially silly and partially truth.

And maybe that summarizes all of Murphy’s laws in general. What makes them fun to read is that they almost always seem to contain a <maddening> grain of truth.

I was cleaning out a folder and came across a shortened <there is a website that has almost 100 Murphy’s laws of war> list of Murphy’s Laws of war.

And, no, Murphy is no Sun Tzu <The Art of War>. Oh. But just to say this while it is on my mind … every business person should, at minimum, read The Art of War but it doesn’t hurt to have a copy of the little easy to read pamphlet in your working space. Its good <business> stuff.

Anyway.

Let me share Murphy’s version of war theory before I wax poetically on how relevant they are to business.

Murphy’s Laws of War:

 

-          Professionals are predictable. It is the amateurs that are dangerous.

-          Never draw fire … it irritates everyone around you.

-          Friendly fire … isn’t.

-          Never forget your weapon was made by the lowest bidder.

-          The enemy invariably attacks on 2 occasions:

  • When they are ready
  • When you are not

-          If the enemy is within range … so are you.

-          Mines are equal opportunity weapons

-          When the pin is pulled Mr. Grenade is not our friend

-          When in doubt, empty your magazine.

-          Don’t ever be first, don’t ever be last, and don’t ever volunteer.

-          If it’s stupid but it works, it isn’t stupid.

 

Well.

On every single point I was drawing a correlation to business.

 

interviewing jonny_asking_questions_2Professionals are predictable. Professionals can be bad … good … lazy … but predictable. And consistent. Why? Because they actually do know their shit. They may get lazy, or play politics or even get bullied by someone louder … but they really do know their shit. Amateurs? Well. Simply … they don’t know their shit. Sure. They may get lucky on occasion as well as they may instinctually be okay <on occasion> but they are extremely unpredictable. Even worse? If an amateur has an early success they stretch that to ‘I am now a professional’ and become dangerous. Amateurs are valuable to have around because (a) they can see things differently so you can work the wheat from the chaff and (b) someday they will be professionals. But on their own? They are dangerous.

 

Never draw fire … because it does irritate people around you. There is an art & a science to actually raising the objection … drawing out a complaint or criticism. It also contains risk. People do not like risk. Especially if they are not controlling it. If you draw the fire … be prepared to take the bullet(s). If you are not ready to do so? You will irritate the people around you even more.

 

Ah. Friendly fire. Let’s call it constructive criticism or what could be <and is often called> ‘healthy debate.’ Well. It may be healthy but it sure doesn’t feel good or healthy. I guess this also falls under the ‘if it hurts it must be good for you’ philosophy. By the way? That is a stupid philosophy. Work is difficult enough without offering up the supposed friendly fire to your co-workers.

 

Your weapon is made by the lowest bidder.   Oh so true. In today’s business world, despite the fact everyone says ‘quality is number one’ they don’t really mean it. Ok. Maybe they mean it sometimes. And ‘sometimes’ means … well … there will always be an aspect where someone decided to go ‘lowest bidder.’ What do I mean? I have a project with 25 aspects. I decide to go lowest cost on 15 aspects so I can go high quality on the other 10. Murphy’s Law? Somewhere within the 15 going on the cheap will haunt you. I say all that <bringing it back to business> because while you may decide to put your ass on the line because you feel confident ‘we did it the right way’ … just know that somewhere within all that ‘right way’ a component was given to the lowest bidder.

 

The enemy attacking. I laughed when I read this. Why are people in business always scrambling to address competition? Well. It’s because they are always surprised when it happens. And it’s crazy. More time is wasted (a) preparing yourself for an attack that will never come when you want it to and (b) flailing in response to an attack. The point? You control what you can control. Your own company and business. Ignore an attack if it has acceptable losses and attack when you are ready.

 

If they are in range … you are in range. To me this is the disillusionment of believing you have an advantage. Advantages are so fleeting if you blink you can miss it <and get your ass blown off>. The moment you have an advantage … trust me … someone is already moving into either (a) the space you just left to get you from the rear or (b) into the same space you are moving into to attack all on their own. Never assume you have an advantage. Never assume if you perceive you have an advantage that it will last. Well.  Never assume you are out of range.

 

Mines are equal opportunity weapons. Pointing out problems doesn’t mean you are absolved from (a) blame, (b) becoming part of the problem or even (c) getting your ass blown up. Notice how people are often hesitant to complain or point out some flaws? It isn’t because they don’t see them or recognize that they shouldn’t be solved … it’s because they also recognize that they could get hurt themselves.  Oh. That’s why having a minesweeper employee is priceless. Pay her/him anything they want if they are good at it.

 

The grenade one. Well. That is a silly one. Kind of. Why kind of? Everyone makes mistakes … in life and in work. Mistakes, like it or not, are like grenades. Once a mistake is made … the pin is pulled. It may be on a 5 second timer, 5 hour timer … even a 5 year timer … but it is a grenade and it is on a timer. Too many times I see people trapped by their own mistakes. And, frankly, they get their ass blown off simply because they held on to the grenade. I know the metaphor is silly … but you get it. In business <for sure> and in Life <most of the time> mistakes have to be shared. By sharing you not only potentially save your own ass … you most likely decrease collateral damage. Simplistically … Mr. Grenade is not your friend.

 

When in doubt, empty your magazine. Whew. If I had seen this earlier I would have put it up as a sign in my office. Inside an office there is so much discussion on strategy of what to do and what to say and ‘showing all your cards’ and when … and it is such wasted energy. If you have the bullets use them. Trust me. If you use them all and still get killed it’s because you didn’t have enough or you didn’t shoot straight enough … you didn’t get killed because you should have held one or two back. Plus. There is a fairly well-known fact that magazines <business bullets> are manufactured in quantities. You can always grab another magazine if you get the opportunity. Say what? No more magazines or bullets! Oh well. Just means someone was smarter than you and had more bullets. Holding one or two back ain’t gonna help here either. Use it if you got it.mustache reindeer

 

Don’t be first, last or volunteer. This one is tricky. But I will give a personal opinion on this … I prefer, in business, to be a quick follower. I know that may sound strange <because leading implies being first and I like leading> but I have always tended to believe the ‘first’ <in general> were simply the most hasty. The most impatient. The ones most scared to not be first. In their desire to be first they just didn’t have all their proverbial shit together. In fact … my dream business scenario is actually to see 2 hasty ‘firsts’ coming out of the blocks duking it out and bludgeoning each other. Whew. Did I just say I liked being the 3rd out of the blocks? Well. Yeah. If it could play out that way. Being last? Nope. Too late. But a quick follower? Absolutely.

 

If it’s stupid and works it isn’t stupid. In the business world … too often when things go right and someone perceives it happened out of sheer luck or ‘stupidity gone right’ … it gets ignored. It gets ignored as (a) non replicable and (b) don’t want to replicate <because it was stupid>. You want to know what’s stupid? Ignoring something that worked. I am certainly not suggesting that the ends always justify the means but I am suggesting that working is working. Somehow, someway … it worked. Therefore somewhere within what happened something was not stupid.

Please note that it is mostly the arrogant know it all senior managers who overlook the ‘stupid but worked.’ They “know better.” They “know the right way to do it.” Aw … baloney. They are being stupid.

 

Well.

That was fun <for me>.

Oddly <in my pea like brain> I thought of writing this using Murphy when I saw this list in some magazine from the J.Crew CEO on business. Maybe because some of the things he suggests would make great Murphy’s Laws at some point.

In addition? I happen to agree with him on his list. Here are his thoughts … the ones I really liked.

 

corporate cultureCreativity Tips From J.Crew CEO Mickey Drexler

 

-          “Every business could be creative.”

I talk to so many people about the lack of creativity in companies in America. Part of creativity is contrarianism. Creativity battles common wisdom. Because if there’s common wisdom, there’s an opportunity. In my own experience, whatever was a good idea was a bad idea to most people.

-          “Companies are in the Stone Ages organizationally.”

You can tell by the offices. “I’m going to see the king!” The king is on the top floor and there are 17 people in front of the king’s office. There are layers of bureaucracy. It shouldn’t be like that.

-          “Most companies should have a rule about how big they get.”

Not necessarily assigning a billion-dollar value or a 10 billion-dollar value, but companies that become too ubiquitous go one way.

-          “America’s companies are built to destroy creativity.”

If you become the head of a big company today, you’re not the youngest person in the world. You have a contract. You get a jet. You have a huge overpaid salary. You get bonuses. Do you think that CEO is going to screw around with fast, creative change? No. And the board of directors–the last thing they want is someone who’s going to change things. Steve Jobs–he would bet the company, he wouldn’t care. But there are very few people who run companies that way.

-          “You have to keep moving forward.”

Everything has a trend to it; I don’t care if it’s appliances or engines. I always ask: What has a company done in the past five years that somebody’s noticed?

-          “You cannot copy high quality.”

It takes a long time to get a reputation for quality. There are people in our industry, they’re basically copiers. Look at the cars on the streets. They all look alike. But if you put quality into a product, then have it validated, you have huge credibility. It takes time to earn that.

-          “Simplicity is very difficult to achieve.”

Try to ask someone to make a really good roast chicken.

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Good stuff.

Smart guy this Mickey. Maybe he should meet Murphy and create some laws.

 

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