Enlightened Conflict

learned versus learning

June 19th, 2013

“Human history becomes more and more a race between education and catastrophe.” – H. G. Wellslearning and tragedy

 

So.

This is about truth, learning, unlearning … and contradictions.

First. I have always believed the moment you own a contradiction is the moment you capture an emotional and intellectual awareness.

Second. I am not sure I have always applied that thinking to Truth.

That said.

This is about letting go and holding on.

Letting go and holding on to … well … Truth.

<so I imagine this is about learning & unlearning>

And I imagine this is about the catastrophe called truth <these days>.

Because if there has ever been a time when conventional wisdom, aka ‘truth’ was challenged more … I cannot identify that time.

Regardless.

Truth is a contradiction <in a way>.

The dilemma always is if you explain truth … some people stop and debate <the edges of it> and some people start moving <simply accepting it as it is>.

And then if you tell people less than the whole truth? They will typically unerringly <and maddeningly> take action on the only path remaining … in the space that resides in the ‘less than.’

Regardless.

Truth implies some ongoing ignorance … because it is sometimes a moving target.

And understanding you have ignorance suggests you are ready to let go of something you have learned … and yet you will almost always want to hold on to your knowledge. Let me suggest one thing … Ignorance is relentless <whether you want to face it or not>.

What forces you to face the relentlessness of ignorance?

Typically it takes a catastrophe.

A catastrophe like something you have learned as unequivocal, or known as “truth”, has become equivocal, debatable and maybe even not a Truth anymore.

Now. Once facing the catastrophe … you should seek, and embrace, the contradiction.

Because owning this contradiction is powerful.

And because a real contradiction actually represents a real Truth in a way.

Because …

- truth is rarely simple.

- truth is often ambiguous.

 

I imagine an additional contradiction would be that … in its ambiguity … Truth is never frail.

In fact … it is the strongest, least frail, most powerful weapon of all.

But this ambiguity is difficult to accept. Me? I know better than to disbelieve what I find difficult to accept. But it is difficult.

It asks a lot for someone to think this way.

And in that thinking it has come to me that the idea of an irrevocable truth <always something I struggle with as the idea of an absolute, irrefutable truth> is perhaps not smart … well … maybe just not useful.

I do know that sometimes I worry that the idea behind most of my truths is nothing more than a story I’ve told myself so often that I can’t imagine anything but that idea … that story embedded in me <and we all like a good story don’t we?>.

The story, told and retold and retold again, embeds itself in the lore of the mind.

In the end I am simply calling my story ‘the truth.’

 

I think this is one of the foundational thinking platforms in Life.

 

It’s not unusual for my story truths despite having been told a zillion times mentally to become untrue. Sometimes it is unraveled thread by thread slowly.

Sometimes in the blink of an eye.

 

All it can take is for someone to say something … perfectly articulated … and the core of the truth … once unshakeable in its storied strength … becomes shaken.

The threads of the truth becomes frayed … sometimes even snipped clean … revealing thoughts <and some truth> unseen until then.

 

Sometimes I don’t even need anyone to watch Truth unravel.

Sometimes I read something and a small voice <of wisdom I imagine> begins weaving a new story in my mind.

Luckily.

I am not alone.

Smarter people than I … scientists, geologists, archeologists, physicists, astronomers … well … everyone who knows something about something … are all discovering that the world isn’t exactly as they learned when they were learning that something they are renowned for … or even imagined but a generation ago … and in some cases things they ‘knew’ even a year ago.

We are finding that the past is not written in ink but rather pencil … in fact … reality <in some ways> is the same.

 

It seems like everything in the world can shift shapes & colors.

 

It seems like in an instant a new version of some Truth in, and of, the world can arise.

 

It makes me wonder if there is such a thing as “the truth” … or an unequivocal Truth … if something can be unraveled or undone so quickly.

Despite the fact I have always wanted truth to be some kind of eternal reality … in the end … truth is often ambiguous.

And therefore I am forced to constantly learn … or unlearn … or I am faced with a world that no longer exists <meaning that I am doing and thinking relatively meaningless irrelevant things>.

 

learning hoffer world no longer exists“In times of change, learners inherit the Earth while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.” – Eric Hoffer

 

Now.

All that I have said, and suggested, is relevant to the everyday person living in everyday life. Heck. Everyday life <parenting, friendly debate at the bar, etc.” is difficult with regard to Truth and its ambiguity.

But lets take  minute and talk business.

It would behoove today’s business world to think about this … and not just think about this as a ‘whole new world’ apocalyptic burn everything and start anew  idea but rather taking what is known and ‘unknow it’ <unravel it and reweave>.

The leader who stops learning … or maybe better said … the one who believes he/she is learned on how things should be done … are only then equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.

This is a big thought.

And while it seems like common sense … the business world is strewn with antiquated thinking leaders.

And certainly strewn with antiquated organizational management leaders.

Oh sure.

They may say some of the right things. and they may go through the motions <i.e., set up a digital department or send people to social media conferences or trying anything that is buzzworthy at the moment> but at the end of the day they continue doing the same things … or worse … applying all their learned antiquated thinking as judges on all the new aspects they have invested to put in place.

 

And then they wonder why their world and culture is dysfunctional and good people leave and … in general … productivity isn’t as good as it could be … and should be.

 

They have stopped learning.learning yoda_unlearning

Or maybe they have stopped unlearning.

But they certainly do not know Truth as it exists in the moment.

 

Sure <once again> their lips move with the right words but what actually comes out is the same ole same ole.

I fully understand that challenging truth is difficult.

And therein lays the contradiction.

We love truth but maybe not trust truth <anymore>.

Ok.

Maybe we do trust Truth but rather we get distracted by the more philosophical truths when the on the ground truths are there and available to any and all willing to learn <and unlearn>.

 

“The big questions became increasingly irrelevant and felt more like a distraction. I was more interested in ground truth―the stuff you need to know on location in your life in order to navigate the twists and turns of daily human existence.” - Jim Palmer, Notes From (over) The Edge

 

Here is the funny thing in today’s world.

And, actually, it may be the same as it ever was … but just more so now than before.

 

As truth becomes more identifiably ambiguous the older people <business leaders in particular> are holding on to what they know, or think they know, harder and tighter than ever before.

 

As truth becomes more identifiably ambiguous the younger people <especially in businesses> are letting go of old truths <some would call it unlearning> faster and smarter than ever before.

 

So maybe trust is being placed in a different arena now … maybe we should trust learning & unlearning more than ever.

Maybe we should embrace the restless minds and the quest for Truth.

truth was realityAnd maybe if we do so … we will learn to trust Truth once again.

Part of trust is in the constant challenge … challenging conventional wisdom in search of Truth.

Because in the end … Truth is good.

And restless constant unlearning is the path to Truth.

And truth can become reality once more.

crows, ravens, hope and fathers

June 16th, 2013

Happy Father’s day. fathers brian and ben

Let’s talk crows, ravens, hope and, of course, fathers.

 

First.

Just an fyi. Crows and ravens are in the same genus but are different birds <the best example I found was … think of leopards and tiger, both are in the same genus and are obviously related, but they are quite distinct animals>.

In general, the biggest black species, usually with shaggy throat feathers, are called ravens and the smaller species are considered crows. To finish the initial link to relevancy … both crows & ravens can be fathers … and I assume in the bird world … despite their blackness typically being seen as harbingers of death … they are hopeful birds.

 

Second. Crows & hope.

“Crows.  Crows mate for life and are known to raise their young for as long as 5 years. Sometimes you don’t get that long.  Life sometimes doesn’t turn out the way you hope. Maybe it never does. But you always hope it does. It is that hope you always hold on to at major life changing events in your own life  … and particularly the lives of your children. You keep going, and you hope for the best, and sometimes, maybe not very often, your hopes come true.” – Craig Johnson <author>

 

Time and parenting is a love/hate relationship. Ok. Its a love relationship. But with some moments you hate.

A father recognizes that time seems to go quickly … and always hopes there is enough time … and hates that Life rarely does give it.

Sure … Life rarely turns out the way we hope.  Fathers? They just keep going … hoping for the best … and sometimes their hopes come true … at least for their children.

But the bottom line?

Fathers keep going.

And rarely do they keep going for themselves <despite what Maslow may suggest> but rather their internal engine is hope … hope for the best for their children. Hope they will be better than they are. Hope that they have enough time.

Crow don’t have anything on fathers … but they sure understand fathers.

 

Third. Ravens & hope.

Some people believe that ravens guide travelers to their destinations. Others believe that the sight of a solitary raven is considered good luck, but a group of ravens predicts trouble ahead. And a raven right before battle promises victory.” – Lucas Scott <the games that play us>

 

There are no promises in life <even if you do actually see a raven before battle> … but there is always hope. And, in fact, in Indian lore … the raven brought light to the world.

 

-          How Raven Brought Light To The World <American Indian lore>

 

 fathers Steve harris single_dad        Long ago when the world was young, the earth and all living creatures were shrouded in the darkness. It was said that a great chief was keeping all the light for himself, but no one was certain, for the light was so carefully hidden that no one had ever actually seen it. The chief knew that his people were suffering, but he was a selfish man and did not care.
Raven was sad for his people, for he knew that without light the earth would not bring forth the food the people needed to survive. Raven decided to rescue the light. He knew that the way to the chief’s village was very long. When Raven arrived, he said to himself, “I must find a way to live the in the chief’s house and capture the light.”
So Raven transformed himself into a seed and floated on the surface of the nearby stream. When the chief’s daughter came to draw water, Raven was ready. No matter how she tried to drink some of the water, the seed was always in her way. Finally, she tired of trying to remove it, and she drank it along with the water.
The woman became pregnant, and in time she gave birth to a son, who was Raven in disguise. The chief loved his grandson, and whatever the child wanted, his grandfather gave him.
As the boy crawled, he noticed many bags hanging on the walls of the lodge. One by one he pointed to them, and one by one his grandfather gave them to him. Finally his grandfather gave him the bag that was filled with stars, and the bag that contained the moon. The child rolled the bags around on the floor of the lodge, then suddenly let go of them. The bags immediately rose to the ceiling, drifted through the smoke hole, and flew up into the heavens. There they burst open, spilling the stars and the moon into the sky.
The boy continued to play with bag after bag and box after box until one day he pointed to the last box left in the lodge. His grandfather took him upon his lap and said, “When I open this box, I am giving you the last and dearest of my possessions, the sun. Please take care of it!”
Then the chief closed the smoke hole and picked up the large wooden box he had hidden among other boxes in the shadows of one corner of the lodge. As soon as the chief removed the sun from this box, his lodging was flooded with a brilliant light.
The child laughed with delight as his grandfather gave him the fiery ball to play with. He rolled the sun around the floor of the lodging until he tired of the game and pushed it aside. His grandfather then replaced the sun in its box.
Day after day Raven and his grandfather repeated this process. Raven would point to the sun’s box, play with it until he tired of it, and then watch as his grandfather put the fiery ball away.
Finally the day came when the chief was not as careful as usual. He forgot to close the smoke hole, and he no longer watched Raven play with the fiery ball. The child resumed his Raven shape, grasped the ball of light in his claws, and flew up through the smoke hole into the sky, traveling in the direction of the river.used stars hope and dreams
Raven spied people fishing in the dark. He said to them, “if you will give me some fish, I will give you some light.” At first they did not believe him. However, when Raven raised his wing and showed them enough light for them to fish with ease, they gave him part of their catch. When he had his fill of fish he lifted his wing, grabbed the sun with both claws and tossed it high into the sky. “Now my people will have light both day and night!” he exclaimed. And from that day forward, the people no longer lived in darkness.

 

Ok.

I will explain why when I read this story I thought of fathers <and hope>.

Fathers really are like ravens … and the father figure in the story <and the quote>. Like ravens they guide people to their destination.And fathers, whether they realize it or not, are light bringers. They tend to insure there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.

Oh. Like the grandfather of the raven in the story <despite his own flaws> they want their child to be better, do better, than they are. Fathers show the way … the hope … for something more.

At some point a father has to let their child fly. You can prepare them the best that you can … but they gotta fly on their own. And you hope that they make good decisions.

But the biggest hope of all?

They do something good & meaningful.

And you know what else? A father wants their children to be better than they were.

The raven did what his father <grandfather> either could not envision or was simply not capable of doing … and he gave the world light.

Trust me on this.

The grandfather/father in this story did not despair the child stole the box … he rejoiced the son did something he didn’t do … gave the world light.

Who wouldn’t be proud?

 

Fourth. Fathers & hope.

After having used a literary quote and an Indian folk story … here is some serious information and thoughts on fathers. Some research.

A study last year published in the Journal of Early Adolescence found that dads are in a unique position to instill persistence and hope in their children, particularly in the pre-teen and teen years.

Researchers from Brigham Young University analyzed fathers responses to questionnaires regarding their parenting style, and children ages 11 to 14 responded to questions about school performance and attaining goals. Fathers who practiced authoritative parenting, defined as providing feelings of love, granting autonomy and emphasizing accountability to a child, were more likely to have kids who developed the art of persistence, which led to better outcomes in school and lower instances of misbehavior.

Dads who ruled with an iron fist and an authoritarian style (harsher and more punishment-based parenting) had less persistent children.

“Fathers have a direct impact on how children perceive persistence and hope, and how they implement that into their lives,” said Randall Day, professor in the School of Family Life at Brigham Young University and co-author of the study. “It’s important to say that moms can do this, too, but it turns out that when fathers use authoritative parenting, they have an impact on how their adolescents perceive themselves and how persistent they are in their lives.”

Day calls these types of dads “heart beat fathers” because of their consistent presence in the ordinary day-to-day interactions with their kids.

Researchers said the study joins a growing body of research that suggests fathers are uniquely important to children’s self-regulation and self-esteem. While that is not to say mothers do not instill these values, men and fathers may take on this role more often because of societal acceptance and expectations.

“Our study suggests fathers who are most effective are those who listen to their children, have a close relationship, set appropriate rules, but also grant appropriate freedoms.” BYU resarcher

For those dads who want to incorporate more authoritative parenting into their style the resarchers encouraged parents to simply listen.

The final piece of advice from this research?

“Spend more time listening at a deep level and less time trying to give lectures or solve the problem.”

 

Well.

Teaching persistence & hope. Can it get any better than that?

And fathers give hope sometimes not by doing anything more than listening.

They give hope that the words being said by their children mean something.

And that gives kids hope that they mean something <not just their words>.

Oh.

“heart beat fathers.”

Whew. Now that is a keeper phrase.fathers day hero

 

Anyway.

Crows, ravens, fathers … it all comes down to hope.

 

I am not a big regret guy. <and, no, I do not regret not being a crow or a raven … hmmmmm … although I do like wearing black>.

I tend to be pretty happy, and satisfied, with the decisions I have made throughout life. However … I do feel like I have missed out on something big by not being a father. Mostly because despite all the other stuff that comes with being a father … they are in the Hope business.

Now that, my friends, is a meaningful career.

Happy Father’s Day.

every day teachers

June 14th, 2013

teacher maya angelouSo.

This may sound wacky in today’s world … but I believe we are all teachers  … yup … not just those with a title of ‘teacher’ who is standing up in front of our young people day in and day out <beginning at some miserable pre-dawn hour> working with them to fine tune their minds into working, thinking machines.

That said … think about this.

 

“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.”  – William Arthur Ward

 

Here’s the deal.

If you are an adult reading this … either accept the fact you are a teacher or … well … you are cheating someone … a someone who is waiting to be taught something … or … a someone who EXPECTS to be taught something.

That certain someone <let’s call them young people> is waiting to be inspired. I just wanted to clear up the despicable thought that despite what we adults say about the lazy game playing youth they are actually big hyperactive brains waiting to be inspired to do something.

We inspire … or make their lives uninspired. It is our choice.

It drives me nuts the way so many people want to delegate teaching to “teachers” <educators>. Absolutely. Frickin’. nuts.

And I am not just talking about ‘readin’, writin’, ‘rithmetic’ type stuff <although that can certainly be included>.

 

Any teaching.

teaching children to be intelligentBecause I go even more crazy because so many people ignore the fact that despite all their energy invested to avoid any type of teaching … they are actually frickin’ teaching.

Youth learns not only in the classroom but also through observation. Yup. Those little bastards <I use that term fondly> are watching everything we adults are doing and saying … including <but not exclusive of>:

Bad habits.

Good habits.

How to ‘do things.’

Whatever.

 

They are observing … and well … learning.

<insert a big fat grown up “uh oh” … or “oh shit” … here>

 

Accept the responsibility.

 

What you do around a child teaches. If you do not accept the responsibility, trust me, kids are thinking you are being responsible.

And, possibly, you are responsible for their souls <at least the development of their souls>.

China suggests teachers are “engineers of human souls.”

In China they say that a good teacher is like a candle – it consumes itself to light the way for others.

 

Now.

I am not going to ask every grown up to do the last part … because that suggests giving so much of yourself to teaching you are consumed for the benefit of others <by the way … it is a good legacy to have if you actually do elect that path>.

And while teaching is like being an engineer <a science> … imparting knowledge effectively to others, especially children, is an art.

 

A great teacher embraces <ok … accepts …> the engineering aspect and teaches in ways that makes someone want to learn.

 

He or she inspires you to go beyond the standard lesson <Life lesson or education lesson>. They inspire students to think and strive and experiment.

It is a Life truth that teaching always lives on in all of us who has been taught.

That thought alone should remind all adults that they are teachers.teachers fingerprints dont fade

 

It seems kind of obvious to me that you <an adult> have to believe you are a teacher because you really cannot guess how far reaching your influence will be.

That’s the thing about being an adult <oops … teacher>. You never know whose life you are changing.

‘My teacher is in all people – but not all people are my teacher’

 

Oh.

Just a side note so no one thinks this is just personal opinion.

A study by the University of Kansas recorded the number of words parents from 42 families in various socio-economic groups spoke to their 4-year-old children. Children from professional families heard on average 45 million words before kindergarten. Children from poor families heard on average 13 million words <educational level of achievement followed accordingly>.

This is the beginning of the achievement gap and the cold calculus of poverty.

Some of those missed words not only were about real learning … some were about hope <and dreams>.

“You should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.” – Dee Cantrell

 

I am not suggesting accepting responsibility for being a teacher is easy. It is not <ask any school teacher>.

 

The trouble often occurs when priorities become misdirected or misguided. Life gets busy for us grown ups. And then we segment responsibilities so that we can manage our own ‘to-do’ lists. One segmentation is ‘teaching is for teachers.’

Well.

I imagine sometimes we forget that Life just cannot be segmented that easily. It is easy to overlook the fact that even something as random as algebra logic blurs into everyday life logic … and the discussion of that logic can sometimes lead anywhere but algebra itself. The sometimes seemingly senseless being taught in school <only seemingly to those adults who do not use the information in every day life and have actually forgotten things like algebraic logic> creates ripples of learning outside the school. So why should it all remain at school? Isn’t the best teaching actually a combination of experience and ‘in-the-moment’ reflection? <yes>

Anyway. I can guarantee you one thing unequivocally … it all leads to a Life lesson.

Therefore … all that said … the responsibility an adult holds for the well being of young people is paramount.

Of greater importance than just about anything else.

You may feel this, and believe this, more as a parent but being a parent is irrelevant on this issue … it is the responsibility of all adults.

If you do not agree?

Shame on you.

I understand that sometimes people lose sight of what is right and what is wrong but with children and teaching it is paramount you recognize and take steps to rectify your beliefs <and actions>. And you know what? While I am ranting about how it is a responsibility, which implies you aren’t doing anything but what you should be doing by doing it, you deserve credit when you accept the responsibility.

Teaching is difficult.

Montaigne – in the 1700’s – reminded us of several things about being a teacher:

learning white board What_is_LearningIn truth, all I understand as to that particular is only this, that the greatest and most important difficulty of human science is the education of children. For as in agriculture, the husbandry that is to precede planting, as also planting itself, is certain, plain, and well known; but after that which is planted comes to life, there is a great deal more to be done, more art to be used, more care to be taken, and much more difficulty to cultivate and bring it to perfection so it is with men; it is no hard matter to get children; but after they are born, then begins the trouble, solicitude, and care rightly to train, principle, and bring them up. The symptoms of their inclinations in that tender age are so obscure, and the promises so uncertain and fallacious, that it is very hard to establish any solid judgment or conjecture upon them. ’Tis the custom of pedagogues to be eternally thundering in their pupil’s ears, as they were pouring into a funnel, whilst the business of the pupil is only to repeat what the others have said: now I would have a tutor to correct this error, and, that at the very first, he should according to the capacity he has to deal with, put it to the test, permitting his pupil himself to taste things, and of himself to discern and choose them, sometimes opening the way to him, and sometimes leaving him to open it for himself; that is, I would not have him alone to invent and speak, but that he should also hear his pupil speak in turn. Let the master not only examine him about the grammatical construction of the bare words of his lesson, but about the sense and let him judge of the profit he has made, not by the testimony of his memory, but by that of his life. Let him make him put what he has learned into a hundred several forms, and accommodate it to so many several subjects, to see if he yet rightly comprehends it, and has made it his own.

To know by rote, is no knowledge, and signifies no more but only to retain what one has intrusted to our memory. That which a man rightly knows and understands, he is the free disposer of at his own full liberty, without any regard to the author from whence he had it, or fumbling over the leaves of his book. A mere bookish learning is a poor, paltry learning; it may serve for ornament, but there is yet no foundation for any superstructure to be built upon it.

 

Ok.

Enough of that.

<although part 1 .. “A mere bookish learning is a poor, paltry learning; it may serve for ornament, but there is yet no foundation for any superstructure to be built upon it” … and althouth part 2 .… ‘That which a man rightly knows and understands, he is the free disposer of at his own full liberty’ are  big thoughts we should all be very thoughtful of>

 

In the end.

Just accept you are a teacher.

And accept the fact, whether you are actually good or bad at it, that when you DO get it right … there’s a way in which teaching invokes curiosity and passion … no matter what the subject.

Great teachers make learning feel good.

Great teachers actually feel good when it all works.

Great teachers effect living as well as just the mind.

Great teachers beget great responsible thinking adults.success path real life

Montaigne also offered the reciprocal thought that “Learning is living, and living is learning”.

If we grownups are truly honest with ourselves … we are not just interested in merely filling a child with knowledge or content, but rather with guiding the child to discover activities that help the child to become “well-formed.”

That guidance not only helps to provoke, make them think <sometimes think hard>, and introduce new ways of looking at the world for many years … but it also helps guide them through Life. Because <just as  reminder> … success in Life is rarely a straight line.

Just be a teacher.

Oh. And remember these words, I often use, because they seem relevant to this topic … “37 seconds used wisely … is a lifetime.”

 

waiting versus the battle (and managing moments)

June 13th, 2013

Soldier: This is the worst part. The calm before the battle.waiting momenst become-nothing

 

Fry: And then the battle is not so bad?

 

Soldier: Oh, right. I forgot about the battle

-          from a Futurama episode

 

So.

I chuckled when I read this.

And I am guilty of saying something similar <the calm before the battle part>.

 

One of my favorite quotes comes from a midshipman’s diary entry on Collingwood’s flagship before the battle of Trafalgar:

“… we await glory in silence. Oh, let the din of battle begin.”

 

Waiting can suck.

It can be uncomfortable.

It can be tense.

It can actually drive you a little crazy.

Oh.

Yeah.

Then there is the battle.

Oops.

Talk about being uncomfortable & tense.

 

I imagine I could suggest something wise here like ‘doing is better than not doing’ or even ‘Life is nothing without action’ … but I will not.

 

Instead I will say <after sagely pondering this philosophical question>

 

Parts are parts & pieces are pieces.

 

<that is my sage thought … sorry>

 

Aw.

Let me explain.

Prior to any actual moment … the moment you are within is simply a prelude to what is to come as well as past the actual moment is simply another moment that has arrived in its own time.

Say what?

The worst part is the calm before the battle.

The worst part is the battle itself.

The worst part is the aftermath of the battle.

But.

The best parts are also found within each of those moments.

 

Each moment is the best of times … and the worst of times.

 

Well.

At least you can find pieces and parts of both within every moment.

 

Best or worst?

Glass half full or half empty?

Optimist of pessimist?

 

Aw. Who cares?

All I can really suggest is that we can see the best and the worst of what lies within each of us in every moment associated with a battle … whether that ‘battle’ be within everyday life or a business situation or an athletic event or even a real battle.

Within those moments we are challenged to be the best we can be.

Our lives are often defined by these moments.

Ok.

Maybe not our lives but certainly our character.wait until i am no longer afraid

Character as in how we are seen … by others … and most importantly … by the person we see in the mirror.

I imagine my real point here <beyond using a silly but insightful Futurama quote> is that character can be defined in parts & pieces of moments not always by big things <or an entire moment>.

We each have our little demons that cannot wait to diminish our character.

They lurk in the parts & pieces of the moments.

Is it within the waiting?

Is it within the battle?

Is it within how we manage after the battle?

They exist everywhere & nowhere. And in that same everywhere & nowhere our character awaits.

Character manages to deal with the parts & pieces of moments … the moments which contain both the best of times & the worst of time … and … well … all these parts & pieces define our character.

Every moment is a battle in itself. There is always a waiting before as well as the battle itself. They all overlap. We may hate it … but it is simply the worst … and best … and it is Life.

keeping your eye on key business issues (as I see it)

June 12th, 2013

Ok.business old white guys

I get asked a lot about key issues facing businesses these days … some marketing people but mostly just business people wanting to talk about business <and being successful or the corollary … how to avoid doing stupid shit that will keep you from being successful>.

After having had this conversation several times I have narrowed it down to my big 5 <or little 5 depending on how valuable you may find this> when someone asks me the keys to having a successful business.

 

-          decommoditization

-          fragmentation

-          lack of interest

-          nudging

-          influencers

 

Other people will have other things but these are mine. Why?

Well. I tend to believe if you pay attention to these 5 things your business will have a fighting chance of being successful. Not because these are brilliant insightful epiphany type business thoughts but rather these are the basics <with a twist> and they keep your head in the business game.

 

Let me explain them.

 

decommoditization:

Meaningful differentiation is difficult if not impossible.  It is more than features & benefits and it is absolutely more than sheer ‘puffery’ <the claim that we are unique and everyone will beat a path to our door>.

This is truly the challenge of what a really smart guy named Hugh McLeod calls ‘decommoditization.’ Most businesses simply begin from the wrong place. They either seek ‘white space’ in the competitive environment or they believe they are different and set out to tell the world about it.

That is good old school ideology.

But it is bad because it is old thinking.

In today’s more cynical world the mind’s perception map assumes everyone is equal until proven otherwise.

Every day a business is decommoditizing itself or it is slipping down the slippery slope to commodity.

Unless your business is lean hogs, rough rice, natural gas or soybeans <all commodity futures you can invest in> you better have your head focused on decommoditizing.

 

fragmentation:fragmented audience

Business has always been about managing a bunch of moving pieces. Even small businesses.

The parts & pieces make up the whole. But managing the whole is unrealistic as well as shortsighted <as well as doesn’t really maximize the pieces & parts>.

All that said … keeping an eye on fragmentation is a nice simple business concept … well … with just about every aspect of a business.

Fragmented culture.

Fragmented organization.

Fragmented messaging.

Fragmented process.

<just some examples>

Fragmentation is bad. Why?

Because I can almost guarantee that 99% of the time fragmentation = unaligned.

Oh.

And unaligned anything is bad in a business.

The easiest example is fragmented unaligned messaging. It is a common problem and it leads to fragmented brand <and lower brand value> and confused consumers <and lower sales>.

Heck. Fragmented messaging even confuses the organization <the employees>.

Brand messaging alignment leads to more efficient spend and increased sales <and a focused organization>.

Now.

The hardest example is a fragmented culture. A fragmented culture is ripe for structural corruption.

And by fragmented culture I mean “everyone articulates the company purpose or focus differently.” It may not be huge differences but this is like that stupid game you did when you were kids … lining up with Styrofoam cups linked by a string. The last kid will hear something through the Styrofoam cup but as they all throw the cups into the recycle bin they will all be discussing that they heard something slightly different.

<by the way … that is bad>

I tell most business that fragmentation management is an ongoing battle. Everyday a business will seek to break apart all on its own through inertia. Everywhere a leader goes he/she/it should be sniffing out fragmentation. Keep everything aligned and all will be good.

 

lack of interest:

People, in general, don’t care until they have to care.

I would like to point out that while we all say “the greatest thing since sliced bread” that sliced bread was not that great to people in the beginning … people just didn’t care about sliced bread … they liked what they had <unsliced>.

Anyway.

The corollary to that thought?

Everything is interesting at some point.

Yup.

Everything.

It’s all about uncovering the most relevant time to be relevant <and interesting>. Pick the wrong time and you waste $’s because the consumer just doesn’t care. Be interesting at the right time and the brand becomes relevant <and sales will increase>.

Whenever I bring this topic up … oddly <in general> … I find everyone gravitating to the ends of the spectrum … half believe whatever their widget is that everyone is interested in it … and the other half suggest the world has gone to hell in a hand basket and people don’t care about anything.

Regardless.

Assume people don’t care about what it is you want to tell them. And assume they don’t care about your product <until you do something wrong>. This is a good starting point for all businesses. It is also a great <overlooked> place for solid well known businesses to‘re-begin.’

Huh? Say what?!? You bet. I cannot tell you how many times I have seen a well-known business have great awareness numbers <people know who they are> but those same people have very little to say in terms of details <this is often called empty awareness>.

And why does that happen?

Lack of interest. People just don’t care until they have to care.

 

Nudging Nudge-Cliff1nudging:

So.

Getting people to care <and how to decommoditize>.

So often we want to bludgeon people with our business … the ideas and why it is so good for you … and break through that ‘lack of interest’ barrier I just talked about.

It is tempting to do.

Loud noises show that you are making a big effort <not really … but it creates the perception of>.

Here is a truth … nudging is actually more effective.

 

-          Can a Nudge Radically Change Shopping Behavior?
A professor at New Mexico State University ran a little ‘behavioral economics’ experiment at a local supermarket.
He placed a strip of tape across the middle of the grocery carts, and added a sign reading, “place fruits and vegetables in front of this sign, and other groceries behind it.”
This simple nudge doubled the amount of produce people bought — ten times more than any nutrition education did. Why? Because it established new social norms. People felt that it was now expected behavior that they’d buy that much produce.
This kind of nudge is brilliant and confounding: it’s remarkably effective.

 

Nudging is effective because it creates a behavioral shift without overt promotion, or bribes or any real loud noises.

Anyone can scream … ah … but those who can whisper? Worth every penny you can pay them. I don’t suggest that businesses solely rely on nudges … but I do suggest that building a business around the concept of nudging creates a behavioral pattern tied to whatever it is the business is offering. And that is a business foundation to build upon that can withstand the storms of competition and time.

By the way … nudging ain’t just for marketing … it is an excellent concept with regard to culture and business organizational behavior.

 

influencers:

The truth is that not all people are created equal when it comes to building a successful business model. And that means within the organization as well as without.

Therefore it is not about how many friends you have but rather who your friends are.

This pertains to decommoditizing, creating interest, nudging, whatever.

now is our timeFind the people who really matter and they not only spread the word … but they also stop the <negative/wrong> word. They are like a filter that permits things out but does not permit things in.

And I hate to break the news to everyone … but this isn’t social <or being social> this is about connecting with people who matter and creating a connection <and a type of relationship>.

We hear a lot about the increasing importance of social media and being involved <or being left out> but the truth is that the idea of <social> connectivity is more important than discussing social media. Social media is simply a tool in your arsenal to connect with these important people <influencers>.

Businesses can thrive … as well as have a buffer for when they are being challenged … with a strong influencer base <internally & externally>.

I tell businesses to think quality versus quantity on this topic.

It is a boring old concept applied to a new idea.

Frankly it was good then … and is still good now.

 

That’s it.

These are not ‘one-offs’ but rather ongoing commitment checklist.

Great leaders, and the managers, in business almost have these imprinted on their brains as a filter for everything they see, hear, smell or just sense in general. I tend to believe businesses committed to these will probably end up in a pretty good place. They can certainly do other things <to have a ‘business success list’ would take pages I believe> but these 5 seem to work pretty well.

the in-between

June 8th, 2013

wretched hollow of the“I struggle to think of anything more miserable than living a life in the wretched hollow of the in between.”me

Ok.

Having quoted myself …

What if that is all there is?

What if life is made up primarily of the in between?

And what if it is actually more important than all the other shit we focus on day in and day out?

What if the in-between is the big epic holiday from Life?

 

For all we could and should being

In the one life that we’ve got.

Everybody says that time heals everything.

But what of the wretched hollow?

The endless in-between?

Are we just going to wait it out? Imogene heap (Wait it Out)

 

Think about it.

If life is a journey <not a destination> then isn’t the completion of that thought that you are always in between?

In between where you were and where you will be <or you are going>.

Geez.

That doesn’t sound good.

In fact that sounds horrible <to me>.

And I imagine to people who have specific aspirations and goals and things they target as “success in life” it is even worse … it sounds an awful like nonsuccess, lack of focus and wasted energy.

It sounds like either not knowing where you are supposed to go <which is something that everyone is telling you is the key to happiness> or you are stuck someplace that isn’t moving toward where you want to go.

None of that sounds good.

But isn’t in between <in this sense> about finding your way?

Finding ‘home’ mentally’?

Where home, in the sense of ‘where I am going’, remains elusive mentally and physically.

And that you are in the search for … well … whatever it is you are searching for.

That means we are all supposed to be searching … well … all our lives.

Ok.

That was generalization.

How about thinking about this as living in between on the majority of things.

Would it be okay to be in between on all the <85%> things but ‘where you meant to be’ on the 15%? That suggests you are anchored on the important, or some, things.

Is that good?

Well.

As I noted above for me that is still miserable <or at least sounds so>.

Not knowing something as important as that seems like it should be in the minority of the time and not the majority <meaning it is okay to ‘not know’ for periods>.

And yet.

If you have ever been to a tropical island … I would suggest many of the people there live long periods of their life in between.

And by ‘in between’ I mean simply meandering through Life.

The majority seem to have left something behind but … well … haven’t made any decisions with regard to gaining anything more ahead <tangibly>.

In my rat race words … they still have not found what they are seeking.

inbetween why am i here inbetweenHere is the crazy thing.

They, for the most part, are quite content.

They seem to smile more <good> and maybe bathe less <not so good>.

They may wear the same shirt a couple of days in a row … and it isn’t some fancy designer shirt.

They don’t wear socks and they seem to be in less of a hurry <but almost always seem to get places on time>.

And … well … they seem to smile more.

So maybe it is just me.

Maybe I am trapped in the American ‘can do’ … or ‘should do’ attitude and missing out on what life has to offer when you spend it in the in-between.

I do know that when I am around people who are peacefully existing in the in between I seem to wander there into that wretched space.

And it doesn’t seem so wretched then.

And I wonder.

And then it is painful <becoming wretched again>.

I want to know where I am going. I want to know what I should be doing. And I want to be doing something purposeful for someone.inbetween want to feel important

Oh.

Yeah.

But they seem to smile more.

 

Maybe part of growing up is learning how to be comfortable in the in between … and not “being successful” and “having something to show.”

Maybe.

But it seems strange to me.

And it seems so far out of my natural DNA the thought of it makes me reach for another cocktail <preferably a pain killer> just to calm myself.

Oh.

But they seem to smile more.

 

And when I see them smiling … they do talk to me about their own in between, oddly enough, it reminds me of Alice in Wonderland …

 

 

Alice:                    “would you tell me please … which way I ought to go from here.”

Cheshire cat:     “that depends a good deal on where you want to get to.”

Alice:                    “I don’t much care.”

Cheshire Cat:     “then it doesn’t matter which way you go.”
Alice:                    “so long as I get somewhere.”

Cheshire Cat:     “oh, you’re sure to do that, if only you walk long enough.”

 

 

Look.

I imagine we all reach some crossroads in our lives.

Some moments when we question where to go from here.

I am an older guy.

I’m supposed to not only know where I am going but I am also supposed to be well on my way to be there <wherever or whatever ‘there’ is>.

Sometimes I feel I have visited ‘there’ already … and … well … shit. It wasn’t all it was cracked up to be.

That said.

Frankly … lately I wonder about what I will be “when I grow up” <which I imagine is the mature view of ‘where am I going’>.

Therefore I do spend some time in that wretched hollow I call ‘the in between.’

And, yup. it is wretched to me.

All my life I have improved businesses, organizations and projects. And I love doing that. And I imagine along the way I have improved myself <at least one would hope that was a by product>.

At the moment I am doing none of those things <at least on a 100% basis which is what I am used to>.

So what happens next?

I define myself by doing.

It makes you think … what happens when you stop doing?

Well.

Doing what you have always believed has created some ‘value’ in Life. I still think and write and share ideas and help people … but not in the way I used to where organizations counted on me.

Being a salaried employee is comfortable.

Doing and providing value daily, if not weekly, is comfortable … at least to me.

I don’t know that I am that different from the majority in this sense.

Many of us … most of us … like feeling productive. Heck. Most of us like BEING productive <in some form or fashion>.

It is funny.

I had this discussion with someone sitting at a bar in the islands.

Someone who was comfortable with the inbetween.

Mostly comfortable because they defined their Life differently … and, frankly, from a pragmatic standpoint had figured out a way to do something that paid the bills without the ongoing stress of where next month’s  money is going to come from.

Anyway.

Lastly.

Here is what I think about in-between and people and today’s culture.

 

Sometimes people need to be pulled out of the in-between.

They cannot get out on their own.

 

Wow.

That certainly goes against all of today’s “you have to be a self starter” or “you cannot count on anyone but yourself” or “no one is going to do it for you” philosophy being expounded, and pounded, into today’s culture.

I imagine I think of this the same as the slippery slope of Life. The in between, just as the slippery slope, is difficult to get off of or out of without a helping hand.

This isn’t about not being strong enough or not being enough of a self starter … or not even not being qualified or ‘good enough’ at some work talent … some people just get stuck.

And some of those people are simply better at being in the game than in getting in the game.

I know I tell people to get in the game all the time. Take chances and take some uncomfortable risks.

And I am not backing off of that.

But there is a difference between doing that while actually in the game then when you are out seeking to get in.

For example … myself … put me in the game and I will play like every second is the last second of the game. I take calculated risks and am relatively fearless in a business environment. But I am also relatively clueless about getting in the game if I am on the sidelines.

It is a different skill … and a different attitude.

And it isn’t about avoiding anything … or avoiding choices <or inability to make the hard choices> and … it is not even about being lazy … it is simply a different Life skill.

 

inbetween-spaceWhew.

This in-between thing can be quite wretched for many of us I imagine.

All I really know is that the conversation I had made me think and the next day at the same bar I had this scribbled on some napkins for them to read <they all bought me drinks after reading>.

 

I don’t share many things I write personally but try this one out as I ponder ‘what I will be’ and what I will do because I feel like I still have something to offer <professionally>.

And I am currently squarely residing in the in between.

And it is a really uncomfortable place for me.

In fact … I am relatively sure the in between is the wretched hollow in Life.

——-

 

Napkin scribblings at a bar in the Caribbean after a pain killer <or 2>. Oh. This is also probably my first published piece in that the bar owner liked it so much it is now posted behind the bar.

Here you go:

‘tomorrow I was nothing’

 

tomorrow I was nothinginbetween intersting people some of the most

yesterday I was no more than today

today I was believing that which is was not.

in some little place in between everything i hold on to “I believe in me.”

but

makes you wonder

if we ever reach a day

when we can discern the difference

between

that which is

what was

and what will be

and what we believe,

even in me.

so are we destined to suffocate

in the silent seconds

strewn in the wretched hollow

of the in between

where the only thing seen

are question

after question

after question

of the difference between

what is, what was and what will be.

oh, so i ask Life to wait on things

things that seem practical to the wise

as i wait

for wisdom with closed eyes

hoping all will appear on our fingertips to touch

that which is right from the wrong

and what we can feel may lie unseen in the in between

where it all becomes real

regardless

can you count the Mondays

Life thinks of calling me

and doesn’t?

because in the hollow of the in between

I know that i am you and you are me

and in the grey

in between decisions

seek the light of what is right

despite the fact you sometimes doubt that which is

and aim to the left

where darkness beckons.

in the end

departing the wretched in between

is simply what it is

and always comes back to what was.

so don’t blink

or you may you sink into the in between

of what you think

rather than what you should know

for tomorrow was nothing

and yesterday 

was holding your dreams

and today is what is.

——

<please note: I wrote the original for this maybe 6 months ago in a very pensive mood while relaxing on an island in-between – pun intended – working on business projects remotely>

Thanks for reading <sometimes don’t think I say this enough>.

inside out leadership

June 7th, 2013

Inside Out LogoOk.

This is about running a business and the heretical thought that the consumer is NOT the king or queen <if it helps … I will also suggest that they are not subjects of the kingdom either>.

I thought about this again after I watched the following TED.com video on how leaders inspire action.

http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action.html?goback=.gde_129331_member_8477855

 

<please note: the video is long but interesting if you like this kind of stuff … and … what I am going to write about has little to do with what is said in the video>

 

That said.

Why did I think about consumers not driving everything after watching this?

Well.

It reminded me that great leaders don’t respond … they … well … lead.

Maybe not always proactively but they lead from the inside out … not from the outside in.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

A bunch of people pay some lip service to the thought I just typed but it all goes awry as soon as their lips close because they then immediately start focusing on “what does the consumer want” or “how can I make my consumer happy?”

Now.

I understand you cannot go whole hog in one direction <solely “it’s about me” with wanton disregard for the people who actually purchase whatever it is you want them to purchase> but I believe too many business people have this equation <balance> way out of whack.

A business certainly  needs to understand its position in customers’ minds but a fundamental feature of a successful company is having a certain stamina for consistency. This is an ability to have a core strength combined with an inherent flexibility to adapt without being knocked off course by some short term consumer “gosh … I think this is what I want’ trend.

 

Good leaders appreciate the value of this business stamina and focus.

And at the core of this stamina idea is a focus on an embedded trust & integrity within the essence of the organization and ultimately its people <who actually embody the corporate brand>.

A trust & integrity tied to its purpose <which I imagine is a combination of individual morality as well as organizational  morality>.

The process in doing this?

I have heard people suggest that this is ‘turning the telescope inside’ where you look inside the company <users, employees, culture, etc.>  and explore the ‘brand essentials – where it comes from, how long it has been around, what the company is all about, its culture, values, personality, what makes it different, and so on.

And all that is good stuff.

But inevitably stamina circles around the overall intent of the process: desirable to consumers, distinctive from competition, deliverable by company, durable over time.

Well.

Maybe.

That’s important stuff but its … well … stuff.

Most processes will invariably pound away on those business distinctions … but honestly … inevitably it comes down to consistent, predictable essence <purpose, moral compass, vision … whatever you want to call it>.

And ,to me, inside out leadership is more important than ever because I believe the business world is finally reaching the critical point in a shift that began in 1990 <or so>.

Huh. Why now?

Easy answer.

Generations.

Change always needs to evolve and people need to wrap their heads around change … and big changes only truly evolve as people implement it in youth <so it is embedded>.

inside out killing myslefAnd, frankly, in the midst of change leaders kind of make it up as they go <as they have for maybe 20 years or so> but now we have a clearer picture of what a business will be facing moving forward.

 

Two books clearly outlined the initial stage of the generational shift <Drucker’s New Realities in 1991 and Toffler’s Powershift in 1990>.

I would like to remind everyone what Alvin Toffler wrote in 1990 in discussing this business shift:

 

“Anyone who believes that we’re just going to leap into some sort of glorious new age is very unrealistic … far-reaching turmoil can be expected, as individuals and institutions either adapt to, or resist, change.”

 

Yup.

More than twenty years ago Alvin Toffler wrote a book called Powershift: Knowledge, Wealth, and Violence at the Edge of the 21st Century which was a look at how social, political, and economic power structures were changing on the cusp of the computer age.

It foresaw many of the issues businesses <and the world> are facing today … and how the business world tried to cope <with far reaching turmoil>..

He noted when he wrote the book that at rare moments in history the advance of knowledge has smashed through old barriers. The most important of these breakthroughs has been the invention of new tools for thinking and communication, like the ideogram … the alphabet … the zero … and at that time … the computer.

 

He clearly outlined the impact on businesses created by the computer <and internet>.  The fact that the entire business structure kind of entered a chaotic stage as old barriers fell and leaders <who were steeped in an entirely different culture & world> struggled to adapt to the change <with no playbook to follow>.

He pointed out that everything reorganized <production, labor, distribution of knowledge as well as how it is all communicated> and at the same time as everything fell apart leaders tried to piece it all back together again … leaders who were learning on the fly and, frankly, making it up as they went.

 

And while Toffler & Drucker walked everyone through the shift … how did the existing business world and leaders deal with the shift?

In some one else’s words … business leaders “attacked everything in life with a mix of extraordinary genius and naive incompetence, and it was often difficult to tell which was which.”

<note: that is an awesome quote>

Business book after business book has been written on these leaders … sometimes skewering and sometimes praising … but they were simply adapting with an extraordinary mix of genius and naïve incompetence.

 

Ok. Moving on to today.

This means we are now entering a period of time <almost 25 years after the shift> when a generation is entering into the workplace which is steeped in ‘knowledge as wealth.’ We have reached a point that Drucker & Toffler ignored … the time when new leaders are not adapting to the shift but rather leaders are implementing engrained attitudes & behavior.

 

As I said upfront.

Consumer is not really the king/queen. The knowledge wealth <the company> is the king, queen or ruler … and they provide value to their citizens … without being subservient to the citizens.

So.

Why did leaders suggest consumer is king/queen?

Well <I will rationalize for them because they may actually have had a good reason>.

As knowledge wealth was dispersed to all levels within an organization <someone called it the democratization of knowledge> businesses became more fragmented.

These vast changes, within a short time, created stress and distortion beyond the adaptive capabilities of most people and pushed our physiological and psychological resources to the limits.

Interestingly Toffler identified maladaptive psychological conditions seen in the attempt to adjust.

This adjustment entails forms of denial, specialization, obsessive reversion, and super-simplification.

Oh my.

That sure sounds a lot like what we say about many of today’s leaders <and some of the leaders we grew up working under>.

 

The easiest way to say this is to say that knowledge could slink into any office space and anyone smart enough to use it could become smarter than the person they reported to. It is easy to see that this organization fragmentation driven by real/actual knowledge could easily become chaos … unless leaders put a shiny object in front of everyone that was easy to grasp and easy to accept – the consumer.

Frankly it was a cheap leadership trick from leaders. And at its worst actually could divert a company from its true purpose. At its best … it made businesses money.

Now.

I say this with the benefit of hindsight. It is quite possible that I, trying anything imaginable to rally & focus an organization around, would have done exactly the same.

But it is not the way to go.

And good leaders today have the opportunity today to get it right.

It is not easy and it is certainly challenging.

The big challenge?

I believe that today’s successful business is the ultimate contradiction – personal freedom for openness to imagination and creativity <with a tolerance for individuality> tied to careful channeling and close control of directed purpose and actions/behavior.

This contradiction makes it impossible for leaders to lead in a traditional way <the way they learned to lead from those who were adapting to the shift> and there needs to be a new leader, and leadership style focus, to manage in this evolved business environment.inside out leadership

 

It becomes dynamically more challenging because beyond the consumer is the king/queen trick … leaders were also faced with organizations shifting from a culture of individualism management <management by ‘one’>. This post-industrial revolution stage rewarded people who could break problems and processes down into smaller and smaller parts. This disintegration or analytic approach had led management to think of production as a series of disconnected <or mutually exclusive> parts to be honed to ultimate efficiency. At that time the entire process was seen as either sequential or isolated.

This is what current managers/leaders grew up on and tried adapting to the changing business world.

This is what they feel most comfortable with especially when problem solving or delving into a situation.

However.

The new knowledge system driven by technology <and the spread of knowledge across multiple constituents instead of solely knowledge leaders> began to understand <and treat> production or the process as increasingly simultaneous and synthesized. The parts of the process are not the whole and cannot be easily isolated. Everything feeds into the other arcing back and forth in a never ending cycle.

That threw the business world in a tizzy and leaders scrambled to adjust.

 

In addition <to add an additional layer> we began interrelating data in more ways, giving them context, and thus forming them into informed information as well as assembling chunks of information into larger and larger models and architectures of knowledge.

That ‘non mutually exclusive’ skill set began creating a need for a different type of leader/manager <one who did not exist at that time>.

Want more challenge?

Now the practical business issues I just outlined gained additional complexity because as information, and access to knowledge, became available to the lowest common denominators <any work space> at the same time we began to realize that not all this new knowledge is factual or even explicit.

In other words … not all knowledge was good <or available>.

Much knowledge is unspoken, consisting of assumptions piled atop assumptions, of fragmentary models, of unnoticed analogies, and it includes not simply logical and seemingly unemotional information data, but values, the products of passion and emotion, not to mention imagination and intuition.

 

This new knowledge based business model created new opportunities … and new challenges to leaders.

Toffler’s implicit assumption was that new technologies usually work in favor of the common man. He argued, for example, that computers are helping “thoroughly smash” the knowledge monopoly of Western managers and specialists, leading to a democratization of power.

inside out distribution of powerWell.

I agree and disagree.

I agree it creates a perception of democratization of power.

I disagree it smashes the knowledge monopoly of managers.

 

I believe it simply began the need for the creation of a new type of manager/leader.

And it certainly began the need to look at businesses, and capitalism, as a whole differently <which is probably a separate post in that it is a philosophical crisis we seem to be facing today that is an outcome of this shift beginning 25 years ago>.

 

And I even agree this whole line of thinking totally changes on how we should be looking at businesses and inevitably ‘capitalism’ as it is defined in our minds.

As Toffler suggests: “if the shift toward knowledge-capital is real, then Capital itself is increasingly “unreal” – it consists largely of symbols that represent nothing more than other symbols inside the memories and thoughtware of people and computers.

Capital has therefore gone from its tangible form, to a paper form that symbolized tangible assets, to paper symbolizing symbols in the skulls of a continually changing work force.  Finally, the electronic blips symbolizing the paper. Capital is fast becoming “super-symbolic.” Salt, tobacco, coral, cotton cloth, copper, and cowries’ shells are useful things that served as money. However, paper money dominated the industrial society … today, as a more advanced economy emerges, paper money faces near-total obsolescence. Not a single coin or piece of paper money is exchanged. The “money” here consists of nothing more than a string of zeros and ones transmitted by wire, microwave, or satellite.

In brief, the rise of electronic money in the world economy threatens to shake up many long-entrenched power relationships. At the vortex of this power struggle is knowledge embedded in technology. It is a battle that will redefine money itself.

“Mind-work” is range of “mixed” jobs – tasks requiring the worker to perform physical labor, but also handle information. Since the inception of the Industrial Revolution, big smokestack companies have held a great control on the economy.

But In the super-symbolic economy, “wealth creation is increasingly dependent on the exchange of data, information and knowledge. “With these changes, there are now growing conflicts between the “highbrow” or knowledge-base and the “lowbrow” or muscle-base businesses.

 

All that said.

Leadership will be defined by the inside aspect of businesses. Not just in producing things but rather knowledge capital and how it is managed. Not just innovations and ideas … but getting an organization to collectively think in a common direction.

Leadership will be defined by their ability to not respond to the consumer but rather respond, and adapt, to the organization <boy … there is a paradigm shift … isn’t it?>.

And the organizational power, in general, will depend on taking advantage of the cracks in the process. The cracks speed creates. The events that were not pre-programmed or foreseen.

I imagine leadership power partially depends on chance <finding the opportunities to lead within the moment> and managing human behavior in a desired fashion.

This doesn’t mean everything is accidental. Not everything is random. In fact power is found within predictability as well as randomness. Power implies combining chance, necessity, continuity, chaos and order.

 

Interestingly Toffler suggested, in 1990 I would like to remind everyone, the following <which impacts my thinking on inside out>:Inside out The-Mind-Film-Concept-Art

-              THE CORPORATION OF THE FUTURE – the bigger the world economy, the more powerful will be the smaller players. This is because they are more flexible, faster and more economical – not burdened by layers of bureaucracy. Computers and telecommunications, now affordable to small companies, allow them to compete globally, and deregulation and globalization of financial markets gives them access to capital. Computer-driven technology also makes it possible to produce small runs of customized “higher value-added” products aimed at niche markets. Products produced “just in time” save money on inventory, and they can be quickly improved to compete with rapidly changing technology and tastes. Big companies will break up into confederations of small, entrepreneurial units. Small interacting firms will form themselves into temporary mosaics to be more adaptive and productive.

 

-              KNOWLEDGE IS THE RESOURCE OF THE FUTURE – land, natural resources, factories and workers are no longer the measure of a country’s wealth because multinational businesses can easily obtain these things anywhere in the world. It is the APPLICATION OF KNOWLEDGE that now offers the competitive advantage in the world economy. The KNOWLEDGE WORKER is the true asset because of the knowledge and abilities he or she possesses. In the twenty-first century at least 35 percent of the workforce will be knowledge workers. They must have formal education, possess specific knowledge and skills, have the ability to acquire and apply theoretical and analytical knowledge, and continue to learn throughout their lives. They will work in teams because no one person can know enough to do it all. Because they are the true assets and are highly mobile, companies will work hard to keep them.

 

I bring this into the discussion not only because he was so accurate in his 1990 thoughts but because to me this means the new inside out leaders of today will have more of an opportunity to create the necessary attitudinal shift in business world than in recent years. Smaller organizations are easier to create attitudinal and behavioral direction than larger organizations. Lots of smaller pieces and parts coalescing in a common direction can affect a larger cultural shift.

a host of different smaller business formats will shift traditional power away from manager-bureaucrats in the years ahead and create a new power for leaders <that they not only need to recognize but embrace in order to be successful>.

I believe organizational morality <or value beyond profit> will become the leadership cornerstone within an organization.

And while morality and virtue are developed over time <via repeated decisions to choose what is right and to fore go what is wrong> which typically means there is no quick fix to any organizational morality problems … lots of smaller pieces can be redirected in the here and now.

 

What about laws? <you may ask>

Sure.

Laws can help foster an environment in which virtue can be developed and exerted more readily. But if managers and leaders could be empowered and encouraged to take moral considerations into greater account, and unshackled from the constraint to operate their corporations with an unwavering focus on maximization of shareholder value the cultural shift can happen. And within a generation I believe. Think within a 2 decade span.

Forestalling the wrongdoing of the future can only be reached with a longer term perspective because the creativity and persistence of wrongdoers in the present <or at any time actually> is mind numbing.

Look.

Having spent a boatload of years in the corporate world I know that business leaders don’t want young people coming into their companies who are brilliant but dishonest. Nor do most want to build a flawed organization which will encourage moral ambiguity in decision making <albeit they lose sight of this with a focus on profits>.

And yet we are bombarded with stories of greedy corporate leaders and corrupt decision-making/actions all the time.

Indeed, every sector of our society seems confronted by a crisis of character … but the change can occur within the business world. A change created by the new inside out business leader.

 

All that said.

Today’s’ inside out leader faces a variety of challenges. I will speak to what I consider the two biggest:

-          Embracing fragmented knowledge while empowering it through  organizational ‘tribes’

-          Discerning between desire for speed and need for speed

 

-              inside out leader: Embracing fragmented knowledge while empowering it through ‘organizational tribes‘

 

There are two portions to this challenge … contradictory but compatible.

Individualism empowered by access to knowledge and organizational tribes embedded within organizations.

First.

Tribes.

I didn’t coin this term and in fact Toffler may have used it in 1990. I like the term. It exhibits a stronger cultural aspect than simply suggesting the younger generation of employees cluster into groups of likeminded people.

Because it is more of a behavioral truth if we just say that this generation’s attitude embraces the communal aspect … comfortable in ‘tribes.’ Not full large organizations but tribes <organizations are made up of a number of tribes>. Not unlike the Iroquois nation there are various tribes co-existing under a common charter. Each with separate cultural nuances and rituals but clearly aligned on a bigger purpose.

I began there because todays leader grew up under the ‘dog eat dog’, ‘big fish eat little fish’ and ‘kill or be killed’ every person for themselves organizational upward movement mentality.

Remember … I shared these Toffler words earlier in the post:

“Big companies will break up into confederations of small, entrepreneurial units. Small interacting firms will form themselves into temporary mosaics to be more adaptive and productive.”

He didn’t recognize a cultural shift affecting the generation <more of a community/tribal character> but rather focused solely on the power shift <knowledge wealth>.

As the two connect <a cultural shift and a business power shift> the words he shared become even more powerful … and meaningful to a new inside out leader.

These smaller units are tribes within an organization.

Each with its own ‘power’ to be managed by a leader savvy enough to move pieces seamlessly and have the ability to empower disparate thoughts, and tribes, into an aligned organization.

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inside out Emerald Insight company

The new inside out leader will need to recognize the balance between managing individuals and managing tribes <with tribal cultures>. Neither a one-size-fit –all mentality or a one-by-one management mentality will work and be successful. It will be about empowering tribe without having tribal war … and permitting the natural tribal leaders to arise from the culture.

 

Second.

Fragmented knowledge <individualized empowerment through knowledge>

A truth.

Knowledge is the most democratic source of power. The truly revolutionary aspect of knowledge wealth, and the internet, is that it can be grasped by weak & poor as well as strong & wealthy which makes it a continuing threat to the powerful, even as they try and use it to enhance their own power.

Toffler said this:

Bureaucracy is also a ways of groupings “facts”. A firm neatly cut into department according to function, market, region, or products is after all a collection of cubbyholes in which specialized information and personal experience are stored.  The vaunted “rationality” of bureaucracy goes out the window. Power, always a factor, now replaces reason as the basis for decision. The power structure based on control of information was clear, therefore: While specialists controlled the cubbyholes, managers controlled the channels.”

 

Reading this also explains why every leader is tempted <if not actually desirable of> to control the quantity, quality, and distribution of knowledge within his or her domain.

Therefore the internet has created a power shift by taking it from solely under those with legal or formal position and towards those with natural authority based on knowledge and certain psychological and political skills.

It became a leader’s headache as knowledge could slink into any office space and anyone smart enough to use it could become smarter than the person they reported to. It is easy to see that this organization fragmentation driven by real/actual knowledge could easily become chaos … unless leaders begin showcasing a different ability than maybe we have valued up until today.

This means today’s leaders need to be assimilators of fragments.

They need to encourage empowered individuals and tribes to accumulate knowledge and then redirecting or gathering disparate pieces of knowledge into new forms in which the organizations, and ultimately, the tribes benefit from.

The control of knowledge is the crux of an organization’s struggle for power and a leader’s biggest challenge in tomorrow’s businesses.

Compounding the issue is that the hyper speed in today’s world is making facts obsolete faster. Therefore knowledge built upon certain facts becomes less durable. This has 2 key impacts:

-              truth is fleeting <and decision making has small windows of opportunity>

-              business has become more abstract <as knowledge streams non stop into and within an organization>.

 

Which now leads me to discuss speed.

 

-              inside out leader: Discerning between desire for speed and need for speed

Inevitably speed kills <leadership power, decision-making, quality, sense of teamwork, etc.>.

Economics is now all accelerated <even if it isn’t really … we incessantly talk about it as if it is>. And all this accelerated pressure <speed> also shifts power by putting stress, and inevitably undermining, the fixed, bureaucratic chain of command.

Now <taking a step back>.

While everyone talks about a faster world today I would like to point out business has always had a love affair with speed. I would like to remind everyone that the second phase of the industrial revolution was focused on breaking apart production processes <and behavior associated> into the smallest portions with the intent to isolate and shrinking time to the most efficient pace possible.

I point that out because we have always desired speed. But we do not necessarily NEED speed. Speed is not only an addictive objective but an elusive one … the more you get the more you want.

That said.

I believe the new inside out leader will learn how to slow organizations down. They will need to be able to discern the difference between desire and need.

I don’t mean make them slow … but rather simply slow them down.

There are a variety of ways to do so but I would suggest the best, and easiest, is to embed the core purpose or vision of the organization within each employee.

Organizations will slow to think … and assess. And only leaders can empower organizations to do this.

 

Therefore this will be a new kind of leader stressing the central importance of character and virtue in a culture … focusing everyone on the basics … decency, doing the right thing, cooperation and that actions always have long-term consequences.

This changes decision-making from “if it makes money it is good” to “how does this fit within our purpose/direction?” … which inevitably leads to smarter decisions and sometimes even adapted decisions <on the ground> all meeting a common purpose.

It slows down the organization to think a little.

James Q. Wilson wrote in The Moral Sense “Order exists because a system of beliefs and sentiments held by members of a society sets limits to what those members can do.”

Those limits not only provide a moral compass but also steady an organization <invariably slowing it down smartly>.

Businesses, in order to function well, therefore depend upon the virtue of their participants. Any distrust engendered by moral ambiguity raises wasteful transaction and monitoring costs to levels that can paralyze a business and infringe upon effective leadership <plus different tribes will assume different rules within the ambiguity>.

Moreover, moral ambiguity leads to the phenomenon of “putting profits before people.”

Even Adam Smith understood the link between markets and morality. Contrary to his common portrayal, he did not believe that a successful economy could arise from the raw, unbridled pursuit of self-interest. He maintained that self-interest could fuel a successful economy only if it were narrowed by the constraints of traditional morality.

Now.

If you do not believe there is a business benefit to what I just suggested there are some results of a major research study <which I need to refind the source>.

It was a study of professionals in all vocations who did not succeed and why did they not succeed <or even fail>.

Was it because of a lack of knowledge?  No, their education provided that or they acquired it.

Was it because of a lack of skills?  No, their education and/or life experience provided the necessary skills.

Was it because of a failure of character?  The study stated an unequivocal yes.

 

In the end … it is pretty simple … inside out ‘slowing down an organization’ will come down to an ability to drive <and exhibit> consistency and predictability.

And an ability to avoid structural organizational corruption due to fragmentation <and a desire for speed>.

So.

I use the term structural corruption to refer to a specific kind of risk‐taking in which an entire enterprise,  industry, or market deviates from accepted norms of behavior in a dangerous way. Often the pressures of business performance override the kinds of good judgment that managers would otherwise apply.

Structural corruption doesn’t materialize out of nothing.

It begins with a private but clearly stated agreement within a small group to cut corners, to find ways of doing things that appear to be in its favor but fail to account for their broader implications. The behavior then spreads to the wider workforce that hasn’t been party to the original consensus, but which now views the practices that have resulted as standard operating procedure. Often years pass before it becomes clear that the breadth of the original agreement to engage in questionable conduct exposes the entire organization to compromise and reputation loss.

In order to battle organizational misbehavior and structural corruption the leader has to use consistency and predictability.

While they cannot regulate behavior they can certainly, and publicly, manage ethical violations. Because individual violations ignored … lead to a group <or followers inclined to act the same way> violations which leads to organizational fragmentation … and ultimately some type of dysfunction <structural corruption>.

There is a simple solution.

The new leaders will find magic in consistency.

Not regulation and rules.

They need to encourage events which make values substantive in employees’ minds.

And, inevitably, management responses need to be predictable.

Organizations will be operating on consensus not compliance to moral obligations and actions.

Organizations will be connected by the shared values … and the consistent delivery of decisions based on the shared values or shared purpose.

 

Anyway.

Inside out leadership.

In today’s world of pundits, pontificators and prognosticators we seem to believe everything is new and a crisis and unforeseen. We overlook some really smart things said in the past and do not take the time to reassess and reapply the thinking.

Drucker and Toffler were true futurists. They recognized and outlined the real shift happening. The only thing they missed was what most miss … the generational lag.

When a shift happens <like the computer or even the printing press> the existing culture deals with it. sometimes with naiveté and sometimes with ingenious.

During the shift an entire generation not only has to watch the fumbling & bumbling of those doing their best to cope <therefore viewing the test tubes of management in front of their very eyes> but they also are steeped in the shift from early behavior patterns. The shift shapes who they are versus the shift being adapted to be the generation having to accommodate it.

Outside in kind of worked because it not only generated money/revenue but in general a happier consumer who felt important <who doesn’t like that?>. But it also worked because this knowledge power created a newer faster ‘responder’ organization which permitted leaders to be … well … lazier. They could build careers based only on responding and not foresight & consistency … and makes gobs of money.

But.

“If it feels good do it” mentality is not an effective business management style <especially if encouraging individuality and individual freedom in business>.

“If its profitable do it” mentality is not an effective business management style because it doesn’t breed the organizational cohesiveness to balance against the individual freedom.leadership dimensions diagram_2

But the worst thing about those?

If both of those management thoughts are driven by the outside, the wants & desires & whims of the consumer, then the organization will never be centered.

Ambiguity, not just morally, will reign within an organization.

Oh.

Ambiguity in leadership, and an organization overall, is bad.

 

Inside out leadership leads to minimizing ambiguity and maximizing organizational focus, efficiency & … well … doing the right thing.

Inside out leadership is the key to the future successful business.

 

no one noticed

June 4th, 2013

futurama doing things right“When you do things right, people won’t be sure that you have done anything at all.” – God (in Futurama)

 

So.

In case you have forgotten … Futurama was one of those random Fox sci-fi based animated shows in the early 2000’s. Typical of that genre <Simpsons & family guy> … when the writers wrote a good show it was a frickin’ great show … and when they missed … well … they missed <by galaxies in this case>.

Regardless.

I loved the premise behind this series … it follows the adventures of a late 20th-century New York City pizza delivery boy, Philip J. Fry, who, after being unwittingly cryogenically frozen for one thousand years, finds employment at Planet Express, an interplanetary delivery company in the retro-futuristic 31st century.

And, typically of Fox, it was full of those incredibly excellent moments where they lampoon other shows as well as some topical moments.

For example … here are the top sci-fi references you would find in the show …

Futurama sci fi references: http://www.ugo.com/tv/every-sci-fi-reference-in-futurama

 

Anyway.

Back to the quote.

Here’s the entire conversation:futurama best 1

the Galaxy God: Bender, being God isn’t easy. If you do too much, people get dependent on you, and if you do nothing, they lose hope. You have to use a light touch. Like a safecracker, or a pickpocket.
Bender: Or a guy who burns down a bar for the insurance money!
the Galaxy God: Yes, if you make it look like an electrical thing. When you do things right, people won’t be sure you’ve done anything at all.

 

Regardless of whether this thought is delivered from some animated galaxy God or not … this thought is a big thought <which, I imagine, is the reason why they had the god character deliver it>.

It is a Life truth.

The fact that the really great things in life are easy to miss … easy to mistake as nothing … and yet they are … well … right.

Goodness … heck … greatness … whether we like it or not … is stealthy.

This combined with the fact that small acts of kindness can be more effective than doing great, drastic actions makes ‘doing things right’ truly a selfless act.

Easy to miss … easy to mistake … when everything is great.

Oh.

The corollary thought to what I just typed is that sometimes if you try and accomplish huge, world changing things … they become engulfed in the spotlight.

Yup. In the business of what you do or are attempting you gather supporters … sometimes even large groups of supporters … but more often than not you inevitably gain people along the way who disagree <in some way> and even if in a minority they are loud.

And from that grows conflict.

And doing things right actually becomes debated.

And the debate is often in the nuance.

<note: that is kinda nuts when you think about it>

Cynically I could suggest that what is better to do is perform the small acts … the ones that are unnoticeable by the mainstream public … therefore you avoid the conflict.

But.

I am not that cynical.

Doing things right isn’t about small … nor large … but if you do it right … really right … people will not really be sure that you’ve done anything at all.

Now.

In today’s bombastic world it can actually become a bad thing if no one notices. Why? <insert ‘huh?!?’ also> because someone else at the exact same time is telling everyone what they did … and yes … unfortunately … often the squeaky wheel does get the grease.

Aw heck.

The value is never in the credit. And we need to remind ourselves of that more often.

 

“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.”

 

Little things can matter.

A subtle touch can create the needed ripples.

And you can be the initiator, instigator or implementer … or even all of them … and it doesn’t really matter.

In fact.

How do you know when you not only did the right thing … but did it right?

no turning backNo one notices.

Well.

How is that for Life advice?

Don’t be noticed <but always do the right thing well>.

 

<I will not be making millions writing that book>

 

Being good <or God> isn’t easy.

You always have to be ‘doing’ and yet you always have to not be noticed.

Your reward?

Things are done right.

And people believe they did it themselves.

 

By the way.

That is also called “character.”

That said … I could have easily used the infamous character quote … “character is what you do when no one is looking.”

But I didn’t. on purpose. Because the Futurama quote is a stronger point about character.

It takes it one step further.

Character is doing the right thing and not being noticed. You are facilitator for good … and what is right. And have the strength … an inner strength … to just do what you do with no recognition … no outside stimulus. You just do.

 

Yup.

Don’t be noticed <but always do the right thing well>.

People won’t be sure that you have done anything at all.

But who cares?

Being good <or doing the right thing> isn’t really about anyone noticing.

Hey.

Being good isn’t easy.

the black white and gray of plagiarism

June 3rd, 2013

“… these appropriations matter. If the poets don’t assert the value of their words, who will?” - Plagiarism scriptSandra Beasley is the author of the poetry collections

 

Well.

Plagiarism.

You know … not too long ago I had a very clear point of view on what plagiarism is. Today? Whew. There is a lot of gray area.

I have always believed that original ideas and original thinking were fleeting at best.

And I have always believed that 99% of the time if you were thinking something … someone else in the great big world of ours was thinking it at exactly the same time.

Before the worldwide web that was just a theory.

In today’s world it is a truth.

A tough truth.

 

Now.

Sometimes plagiarism is so glaringly obvious that it sends a shiver down your spine.

Lately the most vivid examples are happening in the poetry world. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You are saying ‘who cares about poetry?’ <answer: an obscure few>

But it permits me to make a point and discuss plagiarism.

In the latest poetry scandal one bonehead <a guy named Christian Ward> lifted lines and slightly paraphrased another published poet. The accused poet, Ward, defended himself by saying, “I had no intention of deliberately plagiarizing and suggested he had used the original poem as a model and had submitted a premature draft.”

 

And another British poet has been lifting lines <actually entire poems> from numerous poets in the U.S.:

 

Publishers and magazines have been working to take down poems and suspend sales of collections by David R Morgan after the American poet Charles O Hartman realised Morgan’s poem “Dead Wife Singing” was almost identical to his own, three-decades-old “A Little Song”.

Assiduous digging by the online poetry community, led by the poet and academic Ira Lightman, then discovered that Morgan, a British poet and teacher, had lifted lines and phrases from a host of different writers. One of Morgan’s poems, “Monkey Stops Whistling”, won him an award. [...]

 

Ok.

Those examples are clearly plagiarism. And I have always felt like I have had a pretty firm grasp on what constitutes plagiarism.

Well.

That is until I began writing a lot. And publicly on enlightened conflict.

Writing is hard.

I know I have a method to avoid <or slow down> plagiarism.

I write down my basic thoughts and thinking before I even go online to do any research.

Always.

Do not pass ‘Go” before doing this basic writing.

 

It also helps in that I find myself in a somewhat enviable position in that I have never faced the seemingly oft-discussed strain of coming up with new material <called ‘writer’s block>.

I may write about bad ideas or silly things or inconsequential things but I have never, never once, not had something I didn’t want to write about. Therefore I never have to cruise the web seeking inspiration for writing ideas.

Now.

That said.

I do seek inspiration <and additional knowledge> on thoughts I have. And, correspondingly, who hasn’t wanted to steal words from a better writer?

Even a somewhat clever mind and clever writer can give into the temptation to be a cheating plagiarist <borrow some words>.

Sometimes this plagiarism is simply a sentence … sometimes it is stringing together quotes from other writers and sometimes it is just laziness because you cannot envision ever being able to write the thought any better than it was written.

As one writer <I am stealing from> suggested:

‘Until very recently, most scholars have been happy to simply chalk these up as “allusions” to the work of other authors. For a long time, it was regarded as something poets just did, as a way of honoring their influences.’

 

This is a slippery slope.

And even slipperier <that is not a word> because even if you do what I do <write before research or the search for additional inspiration> you can still find your own words in what someone else has already written.

I cannot tell you how many times I have thought I was brilliant only to find that my own words, the words I salivated over with sheer joy over their taste, had already been used by someone else on some obscure blog in Europe or worse … in some obscure town in North Dakota.

I recognized this was going to be an ongoing slope I would find myself slipping on all the time and I even published a post clearly stating “I steal images” because I realized that with at least that one component <images> I was going to be constantly at the fringe of straight robbery: http://brucemctague.com/spam-and-images

 

But words? Here is exactly what I wrote in my ‘steal images’ post:plagiarism university

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Words I use.

I seriously doubt I have consciously plagiarized anyone’s thoughts or words. I have seen some well articulated thoughts that are components of what I write about and while trying to avoid using the same words … a well articulated thought is a well articulated thought and, frankly, it’s difficult to find better words if something is well articulated.

I have found things that I have written appear somewhere else (even though I know they have never seen what I wrote). That is the way of the world. If people have the same idea and they know how to articulate it, it will often look very similar in verbiage.

When I do actually use something that someone else wrote I either italicize or credit it.

—-

 

So.

I also know <going back to poetry> that when I write my own bad poetry it is littered with small phrases I have scribbled down that inevitably were coined by someone else.

Heck.

My blog writing is littered with wonderful two or three word phrases I have picked up here and there.

Were they used in the same context as what I write?

Nope <99% of the time>.

Is that still plagiarism? <yup … well … I am assuming that is>.

It certainly constitutes some level of ‘not an original work’ and serious professional writers refer to this as ‘textual rape.’

I am certainly not rewriting whole documents.

And I have found inserting copied words <citing the source> helpful to provide context for my own thoughts.

And I try and be generous with regard to admitting I did not create a thought or actual words <even if I do suck at sourcing and citing>.

All that said.

Plagiarism is tricky <when it is not clearly black & white>.

Now. There is plagiarism technology out there.  And technology can help but inevitably it really <mostly> comes down to human analysis. It is a judgement call. In addition <to be philosophical> … if a tree falls in the wood and no one is there to hear it does it make a sound.

Huh?

If I write something on enlightened conflict and no one reads it but someone else 6 months from now writes the same thing are they plagiarizing?

And … trust me that kind of stuff happens all the time. ALL the time.

People have the same ideas & thoughts at the same time … all the time. We don’t like to believe that … but it is so. It is a Life truth. It is certainly a writing truth.

 

Here is an additional fact.

No one knows everything, and I must research in order to write on a topic I know nothing, or little, about.

I have opinions and points of view on just about anything … but not supporting it is lazy … and therefore I need to do some research on what other people think (and know) when I write.

And, once again, I absolutely suck at formally citing sources if I use them.

Although, once again, I freely informally give credit where credit is due.

 

It’s an interesting challenge I face every day in detecting and slowing/stopping plagiarism when I write.

 

When your work is posted and reposted online and the simple publishing of a blog post enters into a global community I imagine <hope> all writers struggle with a somewhat flexible definition of intellectual property.

Regardless.

It comes down to 3 things for me.

-          The obvious steal

This one is easy. I began with the poetry example because that is plagiarism at its worst. Worst? Because it is not simply copying words … it is copying thinking & creativity. It is the full alignment of plagiarism at it’s worst. Copying words simply to get some words down on paper is bad. And it is the obvious steal. Thoughts & creativity may be slightly more difficult to assess … but … an obvious steal is an obvious steal.

-          Simultaneous originality

Sometimes I get really lucky in distilling an insight, or something relatively smart, into nicely crafted gathering of words <rare … but it happens>.

Sometimes I am simply early in the sharing of an idea and thought <I cannot tell you how many times I have seen one of my post ideas published in a viable credible publication maybe 2 weeks to 2 months after I wrote mine … please note … typically written better than how I wrote it>..

Most often what I consider a quasi-original thought on my part is simultaneously <or close> not only being thought by someone else but actually being shared somewhere on the world wide web. Here is where working for a while in a creative industry helps me mentally.

What do I mean? We all are accessing the same stimulus. With the world wide web even more people are being stimulated with the same information and background and news than ever before. If you put the same material through the same filters inevitably similar thoughts/things are going to be generated.

In the advertising world everyone realizes in new business pitches that the final creative ideas presented will be very very similar throughout four disparate agencies simply because the initial strategy and research <the input to the development> is very similar.

Ideas and thoughts on the web are the same.

We are all absorbing the same stimulus … inevitably a number of us will generate similar responses.

 

-          The inspiration

Plagiarism posterprintThere are gobs of beautiful talented writers out there and even the quasi talented can craft a beautiful thought on occasion. All serves as inspiration.

But inspiration ‘borrowing’ doesn’t have to happen on the web.

John Fogerty says about Proud Mary. In 1967 he sat in his apartment in San Francisco and says “I began playing a song intro I had been working on which was based on the opening of Beethoven’s 5th symphony. I didn’t like how Beethoven had composed it and preferred hitting the 1st chord hard for emphasis and not the 4th. “

Margaret Mitchell took the title of “Gone with the Wind” from a beautiful lyrical poem called “Cynara” written Ernest Dowson:

 

Yea, I was desolate and bowed my head:

I have been faithful to thee, Cynara! in my fashion.

All night upon mine heart I felt her warm heart beat,

Night-long within mine arms in love and sleep she lay;

Surely the kisses of her bought red mouth were sweet;

But I was desolate and sick of an old passion,

 

When I awoke and found the dawn was gray:

I have been faithful to thee, Cynara! in my fashion.

I have forgot much, Cynara! gone with the wind,

Flung roses, roses riotously with the throng,

Dancing, to put thy pale, lost lilies out of mind;

But I was desolate and sick of an old passion,

 

Yea, all the time, because the dance was long:

I have been faithful to thee, Cynara! in my fashion.

I cried for madder music and for stronger wine,

But when the feast is finished and the lamps expire,

Then falls thy shadow, Cynara! the night is thine;

And I am desolate and sick of an old passion,

 

Yea, hungry for the lips of my desire:

I have been faithful to thee, Cynara! in my fashion

 

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm …

Is that plagiarism?

Or is it simply inspiration?

Words I see inspire me to think all the time. Sometimes someone’s words inspire me to write. Sometimes their words become the cornerstone with which I build my thoughts and words around.

The internet has made the random beautifully crafted thought more accessible than ever.

It’s not just published literature anymore … Beethoven or poetry … but now it can be a blog in the Philippines with a readership of less than 50, a tumblr post or a tween on xanga. We have access to more thoughts and thinking and words than ever be for … and all of it can be used for inspiration not to be plagiarized.

 

In the end?

While some people suggest ‘it has become common on the web to ignore the basic courtesy of giving others credit for their idea.’

I don’t agree.

Original ideas are few and far between.

That certainly doesn’t absolve anyone from citing or providing sources or even sometimes sharing credit for inspiration.

Anyway.

All I know is that plagiarism has entered into a big massive humungous gray area.

I struggle with it every day when I write.

I know I do because I know when I write … depending on what I write … I taste the words in my mouth.

 

“With every draft I read aloud, I tasted the words in my mouth. Salty, sweet, fatty, lean, velvet, metallic, mean. Mine. What does it feel like, tasting words you’ve stolen? Like sand, I suspect. Sand that a man dying of dehydration drinks in the desert, never slaking his thirst.”Sandra Beasley is the author of poetry collections

 

Sandra is 100% correct.Words to Savor

My own words taste like the most indescribably good taste in the world. The perfectly cooked steak, the sip of a cool drink on a hot day, the robust blossoming of a super Tuscan red wine on your palate or the hamburger straight off the grill … you can savor each word as you read them.

Others words can taste great also <the ones from better writers> but they don’t taste as good.

I didn’t cook them up.

And words that I am tempted to plagiarize? Taste like sand.

I spit ‘em out.

That’s how I keep myself out of the gray.

my macho moment with the mailman truck

June 2nd, 2013

macho mail-truckOk.

This is about me … and about being macho. Manly. A manly man.

Oh.

And my race with the US Postal service.

Lets call this ‘fast & furious: going postal” version.

Just to be clear.

This wasn’t the little puttering delivery person at your mailbox. This is maybe a step up midsize delivery “van.”

And the bastard passed me on the highway.

So I picked it up. Pedal to the metal <as Dukes of Hazard would say>.

No mailman was gonna drive faster than me <dammit>.

Whew.

Maybe I was having a Miami Vice moment <without the pastels and blazer and the flamingos in the background>. Oops. Just dated myself there.

Now.

I am not a slow driver. Nor am I <typically> a racer.

But dammit … when out of the corner of my eye … as I am chugging along in the middle lane of a 3 lane highway … and a post man zips on by to my left … even subconsciously something must have kicked in because the next thing I knew I was racing the mailman.

macho mailmanI am not sure he even noticed <because he was actually going fast because he had something practical and productive to do … a commitment to get mail somewhere on time> but I noticed. And I was NOT going to let it happen.

Real men do not get passed by mailmen <or grandparents in cars so old they do not even have seatbelts>.

A real man would take up the challenge and pick up the speed regardless of the speed limit.

Yup.

A real man certainly has some rules … you know what I mean … they should not do this or that. We should not drink with straws, should not wear pink and admit we do not like beer <among some easy example>.

Even subconsciously we feel obligated to follow some rules of being a man.

Does it stem from some obscure buried insecurity of our own sexuality and some random homophobic thoughts <even if we are neither insecure nor homophobic>?

 

<I thought I would add in his somewhat irrelevant but psychological insight – mumbo jumbo – so that it may show my manly smarts in assessing the entire stupidity of this scenario>

 

All I truly know is that when we get passed by a mailman … or simply hang out within a group of men … we seem to feed off of our inner “maleness” … it’s like we have to subconsciously prove that we are a manly man … that we are manly and that no little mailman truck can handle us.

Regardless.

I beat the bastard to the exit <showing the mailman who was the real man> and along the way <after recognizing how stupid the whole scenario was> it made me think what other things I also do that makes me macho beyond racing a mailman on the highway.

This was me exploring the inner subconscious male.

Thank god some blog called “self help for happy people” actually thought about, and wrote about, this exact topic in 2011.

He developed a list of 25 things.

I made it 22 because I don’t like things neatly fitting within the 10, 20, 25 rules as well as several were obviously filler.

Regardless.

Men … take note. This is a good cheat sheet for what you already know subconsciously.

Women? … take note … there are some things you should just let a man do because … well … he is a man.

 

The Manly Guide to Being Manly: 25 <now 22> Manly Things to Do

 

Men fight. It’s what we do. We drink, fight, fart and laugh. We laugh at the drinking, the fighting and especially the farting. We’re simple creatures. Hunting, fishing, and sex … these are things that make men manly. Unfortunately, modern society dictates that we cannot always make these things the sole purpose of our existence. Instead, we have to find other ways of being manly.

There’s something incredibly manly about standing there cooking bacon without a shirt on. It’s manly in a way that loading a dishwasher isn’t, even if you do load it half naked! I shallow fry my bacon. Some people grill it; fuck that. That is not manly. I’m a man I can take the fat!

There aren’t enough opportunities to be manly in life. So I thought I’d make a list of manly tips to improve your sense of manliness. We’re not sexist here at Self Help for Happy People. Women can be manly too.

 

  1. Be in charge of the barbeque.

macho barbeque rainCooking raw meat over fire; this is one of the mostly manly pursuits in modern times. There’s a prestige about being the man in charge of the barbeque. And barbecuing in a storm? The ultimate. Because we’re not going to let the rain stop us. But. If the host of an event isn’t the one in charge of the tongs then you can expect to see men queuing up to be centre of female attention as they sweat over raw-in-the-middle, black-on-the-outside burger.

  1. Light the fireworks

Fireworks explode. We get to be responsible for letting that happen. If we could get our hands on more powerful explosives we would. In fact, real men make thermite in their spare time.

  1. DIY

Fixing things is manly. Putting up a fence or a wall is very manly. It gives a sense of this is mine and I am building a wall around it. It is manly to build walls around all sorts of things – houses, gardens, fields and emotions. Plumbing, electrical wiring, fixing the TV, fixing the wobbly table, building a vibrator from scratch… it is extremely satisfying to Do It Yourself rather than paying some other guy to come and do it for you faster and better than you can.

  1. Make pancakes

Yes, Pancake Day is that time of year where fathers all over the globe take to the kitchen to “show how it’s really done”. Making pancakes from scratch is more manly than it sounds, and a must if you have children in your life.

  1. Shine Shoes

I mean properly shining them, with brushes. None of this wet flannel or easy sponges for cleaning shoes shite. Brush like you’ve never brushed before. Get those black bits all over the newspaper on the floor.

  1. Build a camp fire

Fire, it is the ultimate of manly things. All men are pyromaniacs. Getting to be a pyromaniac in the wilderness on a cold dark night with the stars ahead is beautiful. Everyone should do it. Sit back watch the flames burn, sit quietly and contemplate whether you should really have put that much wood on the fire, or whether it is a little too close to the nearest tree, and listen to the fire crackling as the embers glow. Seriously, what is more manly and awesome than that?

  1. Sharpen a knife

You can do this whilst sitting next to the fire. The knife may well end up blunter than when you started. Still, it feels very manly while you are doing it.

  1. Catch a fish

Sitting in a boat all day, doing nothing, it sounds like bliss. Apart from the boat part it sounds great. Still, fishing is a manly pursuit (as is hunting), and there is something manly about killing something and then eating it. It also stops those pesky vegetarians stating “well you get your meat in shrink wrapped form, you wouldn’t go out and kill and gut it yourself”. Fuck them, tell them you can and you have and it tasted great. Then ask if they have any pets.

  1. Cut down a tree

Destruction, it’s a manly thing. Cutting down a tree is a manly thing to do. Not that I advocate chopping down trees willy-nilly. Trees deserve respect. Anything that can still be standing upright after hundreds of years is a worthy adversary. Cutting down a tree with a chainsaw may speed the process up, but for a full dose of manliness use real saws.

  1. Chop firewood

Because once you’ve chopped down a tree you need to prove your mastery through further destruction. Chopping wood is great. It’s almost like a form of meditation. Use an axe or a machete. Axes are manly. For smaller pieces a good machete is also suitably manly. These are also items that you can sharpen for extra manpoints.

  1. Get outrageously drunk

Not a little tipsy. Not drunk to the state of rudeness. Wipe a week out of your memory. Out-drink everyone around you, make an arse of yourself, forget where you live, pee against a wall, sit on a bench for a little while, remember where you live, pass out in bed fully clothed and then get the fuck back out there the next day and do it all again. Last a week. Every man should spend one week of his life recovering from that week.

  1. Take a punch

Every man wants to know he can take a good punch. In fact, men probably brag more about hard they have been hit than how hard they can hit. It’s because we’re solid. We cannot be broken. We are invincible. We are Thor the hammer-wielding god of thunder, lighting, strength, destruction, fertility and protection. We can take that goddamned punch and we can…

  1. Throw one back

Yes, we took it, then we gave it back – with interest. Real men can throw a straight punch. We can throw a haymaker too, but we don’t need to. We have finesse. We want to throw a backhand to your solar plexus, uppercut to your chin and follow it with a hook to your liver. We want it to hurt. If we can’t kill you we can at least make you hurt. Hitting things is manly.

  1. Take up a manly sport

Rugby, football, and boxing are manly sports. There is nothing manly about badminton. Nothing. I don’t care who you are. Pool is not a sport. Sports are games where you have to change your shoes. Pool is a game. It is manly though.

  1. Play a musical instrument

There’s a reason why most rock bands are male. Guitars and drums are manly. We like to make noise. It ranks right up there with fire, destruction and hitting things. If you’re a drummer you get to do all four.

  1. Have the last word

Men need to have the last word in arguments. We need to be right, even if we both know that we’re wrong. Seriously, all you women out there, we’re not trying to continue the argument, we’re not trying to upset you, we just need that last word. There’s nothing you can say or do to change this so don’t try. My word is final.

changing a tire

changing a tire

  1. Change a car tire

If you are a man and you have to call out your breakdown cover because you can’t change a tire then I pity you. Just picture it.

  1. Ride a motorcycle

Motorcycles can be dangerous and so they will always be cooler than cars. Riding a motorcycle provides freedom, it provides fun, it provides that little moment of excitement when you’re not sure you’re going to make that corner. Motorcycling is that time when it is perfectly acceptable for men to dress in leather and have something powerful between their legs.

  1. Read a real map

Fuck satnav and fuck asking a stranger for directions. I can read a map and I am going to prove it. Maps are a source of interest for men generally. We love knowing where stuff is, which is ironic because we can never find our keys. Maps are manly and follow similar rules to remote controls, under no circumstances are the females allowed to touch the map.

  1. Carve a turkey

Yes, another food related one, but again, Sunday lunch, Christmas dinner, etc… as a man it is necessary for you to sit at the head of the table and carve that turkey. You will inevitably fail to resist the temptation to ask any adolescent present whether they’d prefer a leg or the breast.

  1. Hold hot stuff

“Careful that plate is hot” is something women should never utter. That’s pretty much the only encouragement we need to prove that we have asbestos fingers. That’s right, we can prove our manliness by taking hot plates through to the dining room without using a tea towel.

  1. Carry heavy stuffmacho carrying heavy stuff

Sometimes men like to carry large, heavy things around. It may be easier to get someone else to help carry that table, but I’ll be damned if I’ll let it beat me, it’s going where I want it to go and I’ll do it on my own!

 

There you go.

Being a manly man is simple.

Barbequing, carrying heavy stuff, not drinking with a straw … and beating the mailman in a car race.

This, my friends, is enlightenment at its best.

Enlightened Conflict