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moving in day & memories

I live near a university and last weekend was moving in day.

It was packed with parents and new students and those coming back and renewing relationships and unloading and facing the unknown and everything that college is all about.

Beyond the fact looking at all these fresh young faces made me feel pretty frickin’ old … it did bring back memories.

Firsts.

Freshness.

Fun.

Friendships.

Fears.

Family.

Fame

Failure.

Fate.

Facing the unknown.

(it seems like i could discover a lot of F’s to use)

Driving thru campus you see it all and remember. The step from high school to college is a leap. A huge leap across a chasm.

Yeah. But everyone gets across (no one actually tells you that when you get there though).

But once across it is as if you have entered a new country.  You have become a citizen of someplace new with new rules and a slightly different constitution and ‘declaration of independence.”

Even the non freshman years are steps. Renewed friendships. Different challenges.  New fears. New failures.  New successes.

It is a fact. College teaches 2 lessons.  Education and life.  and, by the way, that is one of the reasons why I am a huge proponent of having someone go to college. While I am not sure (ok.  I am actually sure on this one) everyone who goes to college is smarter than peple who do not go to college I do believe the life experiences are invaluable for dealing with things later on).

Anyway. I believe that many who fail in college classes fail not because of lack of brain power but because they fail at the life trials they are tasked with.

And I thought as i looked around me driving through campus which of the fresh faces I saw today will succeed and which will fail?

I admit it brought back so many personal memories. Memories of how I danced upon my own precipice of failure several times. Looking back it is easier to see what happened.

At the time my parents were sure I would fall. They believed I would fall because of the education challenges. They didn’t believe I was up to those challenges (or maybe better said they were unsure I was smart enough).

If I knew then what I know now I would have told them it wasn’t the education. It was life. I danced with death on the precipice of life. I doubt I could have explained it well enough to be accepted by them but I see it now. And I wonder which of these young faces will dance the same dance.

It also reminds me why I like to teach. And why people ask me to teach.  I always weave in a life lesson to the education lesson. I absolutely believe knowledge is power. And teach that way. But I also know that even the smartest have to face life.  And life is a shitload tougher than any college class you can take (although it may not seem that way at the time).

And college is just one big life trial.

Its kind of like a trial run for life and career. It is certainly a trial run for who you will end up being in life – character, resiliency, respect, etc.

Anyway.

Moving in day also reminds me of what changes and what stays the same.

The hair styles stay the same (although the women may sport more variety of colors than in my day).  Short hair is cool as is long hair. Just depends on what kind of cool you want to be.

Hats. Baseball hats. Panama hats. Floppy hats.  Beanies.  Whatever.  Hats.

Tight clothes and baggy clothes. Just depends on what statement you want to make.

This year?  Big colored sunglasses on girls. It used to be the big black jackie onassis sunglasses but that’s now for older women. Today its about colors and big RayBan looking colored framed sunglasses (I saw yellow, white, pink, red, blue and multiple variations of those colors).

I think every fashion designer should attend a moving in day just to get a sense of what is “in” and what isn’t.

There is also a sense of energy and excitement and angst that is difficult to explain but you wish you could put in a jar like you did fireflies and hope it wouldn’t dim despite the fact you tried to capture something that was never meant to be captured.

College moving in day.

Fun day.

A memory day.

Client Agency Relationships Part 2: The Art of the Relationship

Once a deal has been struck (see Client Agency Relationships: the Art of the Deal) a client and an agency enter a relationship. This relationship can be as partners or a vendor relationship or even consultant relationship. Regardless of what that relationship ends up being there are several things that need to take place for it to be healthy.

First and foremost, the baseline or cost of entry in a relationship: an agency needs to deliver work on time, on target, and on budget, with zero tolerance for errors.

This is a fundamental truth. I attended a presentation in the 90’s given by the JWT worldwide Creative Director who said it best, “I have seen most client agency relationships fall apart because of day to day agency mistakes, not failure on the big thinking. The client starts thinking if the agency cannot manage the details how I can trust them to manage the big stuff. And it all starts falling apart.”

Secondly, an agency should be passionately committed to immerse themselves in the clients’ businesses—to come to the table each day as a fully engaged business partner, rather than as a vendor. It shows a commitment to true business results.

Beyond those two basic, but important thoughts, let’s say the following outlines some of the basics a client should expect from an agency. The agency should:

  • Be a proactive business partner, operating as an extension of the clients’ marketing department and functioning as a part of the overall business team.
  • Maintain an account management team to service the needs, the thinking and tactical needs, of the clients business.
  • Provide ongoing strategic thinking, to better understand, communicate with, and motivate the clients’ target audience to take action (drive results).
  • Leverage the budget through innovative planning, efficient buying, merchandising, added value, event marketing and sponsorships.
  • Create and produce highly effective, traffic building, multi-level campaigns that will successfully enhance and unify the client’s brand image.

On the other side of the relationship, there are certain things an agency would like from the client. The following outlines 6 (which may not be all-inclusive but probably hit the key things):

  1. Communicate.

An agency is only as good as the information it gets. Tell us the good, the bad and the truth. No matter how much experience we have, guessing is guessing, and we will not always be correct when we guess.

  1. Be a partner.

You are the Client. And ultimately your word is the final word (because it is your money). But agencies do impossible things for Clients who treat them like true partners. We’ll debate, we’ll argue, we’ll be grumpy with each other every once in awhile, but we all have the same goal in mind – business success. And you hired us to do something you didn’t believe you could do. So treat us like a partner.

  1. Be fair.

Maybe this should have been “be open minded” but suffice it to say we are not evil and we don’t purposely have bad intentions. When we do something we usually have a good reason on why we did it (and it would be nice for you to stop and listen to it). And we make mistakes on occasion. Not on purpose but because they sometimes happen. Just be fair.

  1. Be tough.

If it is not right in your eyes, then it is not right until we have convinced you it is (or you have convinced us otherwise). Sure. You hired us to be the experts in what we do, but you are an expert in what you do. Don’t compromise. Don’t settle for “good” because good is the largest enemy of “great.” Be a tough grader. This is business. And we are all about doing whatever is best to drive the best results.

  1. Have fun.

Laugh a little. Okay. Laugh a lot. It is marketing for Pete’s sake.

Conclusion: Some Semblance of Partnership.

While insuring expectations are communicated and aligned and delivering upon the details are critical, ultimately the most successful relationships have some semblance of a partnership. And partnership is truly a multi-faceted concept. Some collaboration helps (but agencies always need to remember they get hired because the client cannot do something themselves). A goal should be to attain a seamless extension of the marketing department at minimum, the client company at its best – joined by common business objectives and fueled by shared values.

It is quite possible this quote from Booker Washington summarizes a healthy client agency relationship the best:

“… be as separate as the fingers, yet one as the hand in all things essential to mutual progress.”

Note: To download a PDF of parts one and two of Client Agency Relationships, visit my Thoughts On Business page or click here.