Enlightened Conflict

hope, reality, dreams & bravery

November 15th, 2014

reality and dreams

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“A dream will always triumph over reality, once it is given the chance.”

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Stanislaw Lem

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Well.

 

Suffice it to say Hope is a pretty resilient motherfucker.

 

And I am glad it is.

 

Sometimes life beats the crap out of you.

And I mean REALLY beats the shit out of you.

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It beats you up enough that sometimes it makes reality take on some insurmountable size and shape … all but blocking out any sight of dreams.

And in doing so … by blocking sight to dreams the only thing a person can fall back on is Hope.

 

 

And that’s what bravery is all about.

 

 

In spite of everything.

 

In spite of all that happens, which by almost any measure would make you decide that hope & dreams are a waste of time, you maintain some hope.

 

In spite of all the shit that makes you begin thinking that time is better spent dealing with reality, you maintain hope.

 

I say this because, in the end, I tend to believe it is some version of bravery that keeps your head focused on maintaining hope. Because you have to be brave in some form or fashion to maintain some faith in something that can be difficult to see <especially if reality is standing in the way>.

 

You have to be brave to maintain some dreams you have.

You have to be brave to maintain some thought that there is something beyond the reality of the moment.

 

Unfortunately.

 

Reality is the inevitable.

 

The inevitable of Life <which is actually ‘things beyond your control’>.

 

What I mean is that some things are inevitable in your Life once someone else decides to pursue something in their Life … especially if their decision invokes some relentlessness.

And … in that ‘inevitable space’ … sometimes there are often truly no good solutions to the situations <not just problems … just regular everyday situations> that arise.

 

There are only bad and less bad solutions.choosing shit

 

And within that quandary it becomes even easier to lose hope.

 

Because that quandary most often is involving what is seemingly mundane everyday stuff … not the really big stuff. And when that happens you begin thinking … “shit … if I cannot even navigate the little stuff how the hell will I steer myself toward the big stuff <my dreams & things I hope for>.”

 

 

And you feel … well … fucked.

 

Fucked because Hope only provides an unclear future.

 

There are no specifics and no clear destinations.

And sometimes hope get additionally blurred by your desire to be able to see into the future.

 

But here is the deal.

 

Being able to see the future doesn’t make you any smarter or wiser than anyone else. And it certainly doesn’t stop you from making mistakes. All it does is to let you know what a problem is and how big the problem is … but it doesn’t give you any way to do anything about it.

 

Seeing the future just enables you to … well … see it … but you cannot do anything but deal with it.

 

And in dealing with it … therein lies the bravery.

Dealing with the daily battle to keep your Hope.

 

“I carry the battle in me.”

 

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A Six Word Story

 

 

Each day, whether you pay attention to it or not, you carry the battle between hope and reality.

 

The battle is defined by bravery. That is the only way you win the battle.

 

I imagine the opposite is cowardice. And the thought that it is the cowards <or the ‘unbrave’> who give in to reality and let hope die <or lose>.

 

Frankly … I don’t like that. Nor do I really believe it.

I don’t think its cowardly.

 

I just think it’s … well … very easy to let the reality of Life grind you down. You can be the bravest sonuvabitch and still find your hopes & dreams being crushed.

 

But.

 

I will say this.

 

You must be brave in the face of reality if you want your dreams and hope to even have a chance.

 

And if you believe such a thing as bravery is too daunting?

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Well.

 

 

Remember this.

 

If you give hope a chance, even a glimmer of a chance, it will win the battle against reality.

 

Reality is, in the end, always negotiable.

Enlightened Conflict