this world which could never fully quench me
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“I had hoped to be disliked by most, not by way of rebellion, but by way of excellence, disdain for the habitual, and the common man’s inability to grasp this.
The act of being scorned?
I saw it as a victory, my irreverent boast against this world which could never fully quench me.”
Coco J. Ginger
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Well. I don’t know who Coco is, but this description on her blog is fabulous. And ‘my irreverent boast against this world which could never fully quench me’ may be one of the best thoughts I have read in years.
Regardless. While this is certainly a Life thought, her thought inevitably should resonate with thinkers, writers & bloggers everywhere.
Writers have to live with the words they write.
Once shared they can never be erased.
Thinkers have to live with the ideas they share.
Once shared they can never be replaced.
Why is that so important?
Well.
Couple of thoughts.
First. Most of us play it safe.
It isn’t really political correctness, or fear, it is simply because most of us are … well … common. That’s not any kind of criticism against anyone, it just simply ‘is.’ Most of us are pretty common in our beliefs and shared thoughts. What this means is that if any of us common people have a slightly uncommon thought, idea, or something to write it feels a bit unsafe. And it is (to us). That is not an indictment on any of us nor am I going to suggest the trite ‘step out of your comfort zone’ or any fortune cookie life wisdom. Living with something that can never be replaced should demand some thoughtfulness and if you elect to play it safe, it is your choice and not someone else’s.
Second. The passionate people, and people under stress I imagine, say things now that they regret later.
This happens a lot because we live in the moment and it is a reflection of how you feel in the moment.
And, you know what? … that is okay. Because we change moment to moment, circumstance to circumstance, and having the ability to articulate that moment is a gift. I would note that most of these people don’t say what they say to be rebellious they simply say it because they feel it at that moment. I would also note the great ones say it in a way that spans generations of moments.
Now. All that said.
Words, once inscribed, never change.
Sharing words that showing disdain for the habitual?
Sharing words that show irreverent boast against a world that can never fully quench me?
Personally, I often use “I have a lover’s quarrel with the world.” Compared to “a world that can never fully quench me” it sounds less than. It sounds combative rather than hopeful. I imagine it is a reflection of the fact I see the world as full but imperfect and I seek to change it. A world that cannot fully quench me is one that has no boundaries. She sees a horizon I cannot imagine but could only dream of.
I wish I had written this thought.
It is spectacular.
But I imagine I couldn’t.
For she also wrote this about herself:
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“I am torn open, unabridged, hot and a bit crazy inside.
This is the feeling which belongs to me, she has always been mine.”
Coco J. Ginger
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I chuckled. She is as Kerouac said “… the ones mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time.”
We need people like this to stretch us all. We may dislike people like this because they make us feel a bit uncomfortable in their desire to remake a world in their vision, but these people have purposefully chosen a path that many of us not only didn’t choose to walk, but we also could not walk it. Yeah. I just said that. Some people have this dna and some do not. And that is okay. Just as I pointed out in ‘play it safe’, you make choices with regard to your own life, someone else does not.
If you would like to visit her blog, it is called Courting Madness.
Her poetry is interesting. Her writing has flashes of brilliance. And, for the most part, she is sparing with words but never sparing on thought. But, most importantly, she is one of those people who know words and ideas shared can never be replaced within a world which can never quench them.
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