never fear the event

“Never Fear the Event.”

Admiral Lord Horatio Nelson

So.

I am using a quote from a guy who probably was one of the best at seeking out ‘events’ rather than fear or avoid them.

Therefore it becomes difficult to use this occasion to discuss worrying about things that will never happen and fear of what could be.

Instead this is all about the ‘impending event’ and fearing it.

In Nelson’s case it was huge cannons shooting big iron balls at him with the intent of taking his head off (and whoda thunk it would actually be a mini ball that would get him in the end).

But. You know what?

He took that bullet that killed him standing in full admiral dress uniform on the main deck in full view of his men and all his enemy to see.  Leading. Did he feel “fear?” Sure.

I am sure somewhere inside him he had to feel something. But the event took precedent.

Fear, dread and worry are odd things. But very real odd things.

And because I am writing about ‘the event’ they affect the event. Or maybe better said they affect your performance at the event.

They become important to talk about for in the moment of the event should lie peace and a certain contentment if we accept the moment as it is (and you actually want to do your best at the event).

But fear saps peace. And worse it saps energy.

“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy.” Leo F. Buscaglia

I will change this quote for my needs and say “it only saps today of its energy.”

The constant litany of everything that should have been done, everything that needs to be done, everything you wish you had time to have done … and done it better … sap energy that could be invested in the event.

And many of the things I just listed are driven of fear of the event.

Now. I am not suggesting not being prepared or thinking through what needs to be done or anything like that.

But events are meant to be commanded not feared.

And the difference between approaching an event looking at both of these is significantly different.
I am sure we all have encountered that familiar tightening in your gut as you not only near the event but sometimes just even thinking about the damn thing.

Deep breaths don’t do shit.

Convincing yourself that everything will be okay doesn’t do shit.

And building the perfect plan CERTAINLY doesn’t do shit. (because inevitably it will all go to shit and you will fester and worry about that)

Let me tell you the conclusion of what will occur AFTER the event with worries:

“None of it happened (what I feared or worried about).”

“Some of what I feared happened.” (but it the world didn’t stop spinning)

Oh.

“Look at all the time I wasted.” (fearing the event)

The anxiety and fear associated with the event is a big fat frickin’ waste of time.

Imagining how everything was going to turn out badly was a waste of energy. (and the people who suggest that doing such things made everyone better prepared are wrong … unequivocally wrong)

Some guy who had a crappy education and ended up on CNN or something like that said: “I’d been so focused on my doubts, on replaying that tape of me at my worst, that I’d forgotten who was truly helping me become the best I could be.”

Dude.

You got it (the issue). And you got it (what you wanted).

Ok.

The point.

Yeah. I purposefully selected probably one of the best naval commanders of all time to make this point.

You can fear the event or you can command the event.

Boldness, or commanding the moment, does have a certain power to it. I won’t call it magic but rather energy.

And that makes fearing what is actually something that is inevitable (the event) is just plain silly. And just a plain waste of energy.

I don’t care if it’s a presentation, a speaking event, your driver’s test, an interview or even a frickin’ date.

They are inevitable events.

Seek to command. Do not enter into the event in fear. Stand on the deck amongst the bullets in full uniform and take what will come.

But.

Command. Do not fear the event.

Command the event.

respect the burden

“respect the burden” – Napoleon Bonaparte

Ah.

So, yes, I wrote this in combination with Nelson’s ‘don’t fear the event.’

Two charismatic leaders who didn’t fear the event and respected the burden that came along with being a leader (and managing the event to the extent they could).

Before I get to the ‘burden’ it is interesting to note both of these excellent leaders of men were excellent delegaters. Excellent delegaters.

Nelson? Huge advocate of independent command. He was always clear on his expectations (‘when in doubt put yourself as close to the enemy as possible’) but delegated responsibility to individual commanders on how to do so.

Napoleon? Huge advocate of independent command. He was a ‘reactor’ to the situation. Gave his general’s direction and independence to act depending on the situation (he just chose excellent commanders).

Regardless.

They respected the burden.

They understand the burden. And they understood the aspects of the burden.

Being a leader carries with it huge responsibility. Not only are you constantly under a microscope but while under the microscope you are carrying the burdens of leadership.

But I find it interesting that the great leaders rarely invest a lot of energy discussing ‘burden’ but rather responsibility to others.

“A leader is a dealer in hope.” Napoleon

Part of the burden is giving hope in the face of fear.

Encouraging action when there is a temptation to freeze.

Part of it is ‘showing the way’ or at least showing ‘what could be.’

And be believable.

And.

Part of the burden is decisions. Or ‘guiding independent actions.’

“Nothing is more difficult, and therefore more precious, than to be able to decide.”- Napoleon

There is a burden to make decisions … and to permit others to make decisions.

Part of the burden is understanding the importance of communication in leadership.

Included in that is the understanding of a responsibility for peoples actions even though you have delegated the actions.

“An order that can be misunderstood will be understood.” Napoleon.

Part of the burden is understanding the depth and breadth of the leadership responsibility. Understanding it does not rest solely in one decision or a great decision but rather the great and the many and the ongoing. It is a burden to be a leader because the weight remains regardless. Maybe the best example I have seen of this was on West Wing where the president character’s most common phrase spoken was “what’s next.”

Part of the burden is always knowing that what’s next is just as important as what just was.

Resting is rarely an option for leaders.

“Greatness be nothing unless it be lasting.” Napoleon

And lastly.

Part of the burden is understanding the role they play with some humility.

“A throne is only a bench covered with velvet.” – Napoleon

The heights of leadership is rare air coupled with a burden of many aspects.

The greatest accept the burden.

And even better?
They not only understand all aspects of the burden but accept the burdens with grace and character and intelligence and some characteristic of charisma.

So.

Don’t fear the event.

Respect the burden.

Great management lessons.

For life and business.

enlightened college football conflict analysis

Opening weekend in college football. My look at the top 25 and some other stuff and my enlightened expert analysis.

First.

Because I have been very very consistent on this issue I need to comment on BYU going independent (I have always believed the Mormons should just have an all-star team and beat the crap out of everyone).  Oh. I also believe an all star team would constantly receive NCAA violations for too many tickets allocated for the wives section so maybe that is a vote against that idea.

Anyway. Awesome. The Mormon team can now be free to do what Dean Smith of UNC used to do. Promise incoming players they would schedule games where they were from or their families were. BYU can now travel the world to play maybe in Africa, Latin America or even Easter Island. Now THAT is a recruiting ploy (the bastards).

Second.

No Notre Dame in the top 25 so I don’t get to make any Charlie Weiss jokes or talk about jimmy c’losin’ or Knute spinning in his grave over their win loss record. But. Suffice it to say my prediction is they will be better than last year. Yeah. I know. I really stuck my neck out on that one.

Third.

The top 25. A quick look at the games enlightened conflict style.

No. 1 Alabama vs. San Jose State
Alabama plays ‘san’s Mark Ingram. No way Jose! Oh. Saban is still stuck on sport center set playing ginga with Mack Brown. Doesn’t matter. Bama fraternity parties will have more drunks then in the stands by the end of the 3rd quarter.

No. 2 Ohio State vs. Marshall
I still don’t think Pryor is a great quarterback. But. He is absolutely a thundering herd as he rolls down the field. He is kind of a Tebow-lite player. I didn’t like Tebow either. Doesn’t matter. Buckeyes won’t look as good as everyone wants them to look. Everyone will start questioning how good they are. But. They will win. And Tressell will sport a brand new argyle sweater vest which will wow the boys from West Virginia.

florida fan

No. 3 Florida vs. Miami (OH)

Don’t misread. This ain’t THE Miami. How Florida is number 3 is beyond me. Talented? Yes. Number 3? You gotta be nuts. Yeah. Gator country celebrates this week. Florida. Enjoy it while you can. By the end of the season you ain’t number 3.

No. 4 Texas vs. Rice

Longhorns eat rice. Makes for leaner beef.  No mad cows here.

No. 5 Boise State vs. No. 6 Virginia Tech

Broncos leave the smurf turf to try and make a point they belong in college football instead of high school football. The Hokies are young and inexperienced and the crowd will be drunk. They will play lights out in the first half. Then Boise will remind themselves that if they lose they end up playing a bunch of games on silly looking turf in -5 degree weather and no one will care … and they win.

No. 7 TCU vs. No. 22 Oregon State

Whoever scheduled a game between Horned Frogs and Beavers should be given a raise. Purple and obnoxious beaver orange and black and random colors appear on the field will be offensive to the eye. The score? Who cares. Every fashion designer in the world will find inspiration in this game. Dammit. But beavers are bigger than frogs I believe.

No. 8 Oklahoma vs. Utah State

Oklahoma starts their run at another BCS bowl loss. They are better than everyone thinks they are. Doesn’t mean they won’t lose another bowl game but today they start showing everyone how good they are.

No. 9 Nebraska vs. Western Kentucky

This is awesome. This is probably the closest most Nebraska boys will ever get to Kentucky. The only hope for the Kentucky team is that all the Nebraska boys will be staring at their cheerleaders thinking “wow, that’s what girls are supposed to look like” and forget to play. Well. Won’t happen.  But don’t be surprised if some second team Nebraska boys transfer to a southeast college afterwards.

No. 10 Iowa vs. Eastern Illinois

Nobody probably remembers but last year Iowa sucked in their first game and almost lost to some high school team in northern Iowa. Won’t happen this year. They will focus. That just means they will suck in their second game this year.

No. 11 Oregon vs. New Mexico

boise state

Well. having been in New Mexico I will first point out green and ducks are a rarity. So. The Lobos will come out and not only be befuddled by whatever wacky uniforms the Ducks are wearing but also spend at least a half researching this new color they are seeing as well as “what the fuck is a duck and do they only get that big in Oregon?” By then the game will be done and Nike will be happy and the Lobos can go home and talk about rain and this new amazing color called green and ‘have you ever seen that big a fucking duck?”

No. 12 Wisconsin vs. UNLV

So. Wisconsin chooses to go to Vegas to start the season. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Badgers are good but the cheese boys are just gonna be getting in from the tables and the strip clubs and this game is gonna be closer than everyone thinks. Plus. Let me go on record. Wisconsin suspends at least three players after this weekend.

No. 13 Miami (Fla.) vs. Florida A&M


Being 13 is nuts (they should be higher). Miami is pissed. The rattlers get crushed. And watch Miami (as long as they stay pissed) start their run up into the top 10.

No. 14 Penn State vs. Youngstown State

Joe Paterno forgets to bring his Depends. Keeps leaving the sidelines. No one notices. Penn state is already focused on next game. It doesn’t matter. Its games like this that make you wonder why college football just doesn’t have a preseason game before really having games count.

No. 15 Pittsburgh at No. 24 Utah


This will be an awesome game even if you don’t care about Mormons, Indians, wildlife or anything outside of SEC football. I have no clue who will win. But I will watch this one.

No. 16 LSU vs. No. 18 North Carolina


Another awesome game. Everyone seems to be picking LSU but I actually believe UNC will suck it up and win this one. Now. UNC will end up losing some bonehead games later on in the season and underachieve but this one? Yeah. I think they make Miles throw his hat on the ground in frustration.

No. 17 Georgia Tech vs. South Carolina State

Well. Just having been in Atlanta I think that the rambling wreck fans will have other things to do than attend this game. I think it is Pot Festival weekend. The engineers (fans) all go off and get stoned, go to the Varsity and pig out and wander into the stadium after the game is done to see that Tech won and then go off and eat pizza and do whatever engineers do for fun.

No. 19 Arkansas vs. Tennessee Tech

Ryan Mallett is awesome. He will look even awesomer against Tennessee Tech. If he stays in the game long enough he is gonna put up better numbers than a Texas Tech quarterback. I will say it here and now. Mallett is gonna be an awesome pro quarterback if he stays healthy.

No. 20 Florida State vs. Samford

At first I thought it was Stanford and I was going to call this the IQ versus no IQ game. Nuts. Missed opportunity. Regardless. Seminoles can save whatever IQ they may have for another game. In fact. Maybe they should use this opportunity to go to some classes and skip the game because they would win anyway.

No. 21 Georgia vs. Louisiana-Lafayette

I am assuming Georgia scheduled this game thinking somehow it would prepare them for the ‘real’ Louisiana game. Whatever. UGA has the best looking girls in the top 25. Hands down. That’s all that really matters.

auburn frat boy

No. 23 Auburn vs. Arkansas State

So. Here’s a random fact. Auburn is the only team in the SEC to retain their entire coaching staff from last year (USA Today). Huh? Who cares? This is one of these stupid games that will tell us absolutely nothing about how good any team is. I hope it is 100 degrees and 90% humidity and everyone is miserable. Because if you tune into his game you will be miserable. The fans may as well share in your pain.

No. 24 West Virginia vs. Coastal Carolina

WTF. Who schedules these games? Ok. I admit. I liked the Mountaineers offense with Rodriguez and I do think they have a cool logo. Sorry. That’s all I got for this game. If West Virginia loses this game they should go to Chile and utilize their mining skills and get those miners out and stay there until December doing that.

b2b selling, heck, selling in general

Yes. I have an entire white paper on b2b marketing.

But.

Some things just need to be said again (and again and again and again).

For some reason there seems to be a wacky belief that b2b marketing is so radically different from consumer marketing that … well … if you can do one well you could never do the other well.

With that said.

Just out of sheer spite I am going to invest some energy suggesting some thoughts on how the underpinnings are quite similar (so if you are a b2b business and you are speaking with some consumer guy and you think you are wasting your time pay attention because if he/he suggests some of these things they get the nuances and the similarities).

Let me begin with a word I have come to absolutely abhor. Brand (or branding).  Inevitably any discussion seems to begin here so I will try and get it out of the way.

Whether your company is selling products or services to individual consumers or to businesses there is a need to get above the “noise.” Creating a branding imprint in the world relevant to you is the “simplifier” and can assist in the sale (and getting a higher price, and getting considered more often, and being differentiated in a sea of sameness, and, well, you get the point).

Look.

Good ‘branding’ is not about stirring rational people into frenzy so they make irrational decisions. It is about communicating the benefits and value proposition that a business or product provides its customers.

Okay. I think I got the “B” word out of the way.

Anyway.

I had this old dated factoid lurking on my computer (and I can only imagine what the numbers are today … higher).

In 1998 the average U.S. office worker received more than 160 messages a day via e-mail, fax, voice mail and conventional mail (lets go ahead and assume it is exponentially bigger now).

Go to a grocery store and you are faced with over 37,000 different products with distinct SKU’s (stock-keeping units) compared to 8,000 in 1970. Some other examples:

SKUs 1999 1970
Orange juice 70 20
Coke 25 6
Crest Toothpaste 45 15
Philly Cream Cheese 30 3

With that many choices establishing some added value (in the form of a brand) is almost necessary to be successful.

Oh.

Thinking that maybe all of a sudden I am not talking about b2b anymore because I used some consumer facings information? Nope.

For every product on the shelf there is a business decision maker choosing to put them on the shelf. So combine the numbers I just gave you above with the fact a grocery buyer is seeing twice as many (ones that end up dying and ones that they just cannot justify putting on the shelf) and all of a sudden you start seeing some of the challenges a b2b marketer faces.

So how the heck do you attack this issue (keeping in mind I am suggesting the more you tie consumer thought process and business thought process the more likely a company will be to be well prepared to meet any customer challenge).

First.

Any business (that includes the sales and marketing departments) has to recognize and plan for various buying styles/attitudes as well as the various buying cycles of their customers (this is the same with anyone b2 or consumer).

I (being JWT trained in customer buying behavior analysis) believe in beginning with the basics.

Let’s call it a Consumer Buying System (because it is called that …. oh … and by the way … a b2b customer is a consumer also … anyway). Think in terms of simple phases/stages in a purchase decision cycle:

-          Predisposition.

-          Stimulus to act

-          Consideration

-          Search

-          Choose

-          Buy

-          Experience

(then it circles around again which would be called the “purchase cycle”).

Yeah. Sure. Here you go. An explanation of The Consumer’s Buying System.

This is more than just a theory or model for consumer behavior; it is the key to understanding the purchase process from the consumer’s perspective, and the tool for allocating the right communication resources and sales techniques at the most appropriate points in the cycle.

The easiest way to us it is to put yourself in the consumers’ (prospects, potentials, interested rejecters, customers) shoes and look at the category through their eyes. What makes them enter it in the first place? What criteria must their brand or service selection meet? Where do they get their information about the brands or services in the category, and where do they go to actually make the purchase?

Not all categories involve the same degree of time, effort and consideration. The buying process for chewing gum may last no more than a second or two; for a car it could take months, a business software system could take years and the consumer may make several loops through the search and channel contact phase before actually arriving at the contract/buying stage.

How do we use it?

It’s easy to use (and in its simplicity many may want to complicate it) because once you can describe how the consumer moves through the buying system for your particular category you can ask yourself all the right questions: “Where in this cycle is there a role for advertising, promotion, direct response, PR, telemarketing, sales, etc.?”

So.

Because I am ranting about the b2b specialty that no one can do but b2b specialists let’s look at some real numbers and see how they could be improved by this Consumer Buying System process.

According to recent studies at any given time:  15% is in buy aspect, 70% is not in a buying aspect (43% will enter into a buying cycle in the next 18 months) and 15% will not purchase from your organization.

Ok.

Next.

According to a Marketing Sherpa study:

7% are sales ready, 11% are mid term prospects, 73% are long term prospects and 9% will not purchase from your organization.

You look at these and think you have some good information.

Well. Not really.

In fact.

If I were to take the consumer buying system and apply it against each of those percentages I can actually derive what percentage of all those percentages would be likely to consider me, likely to run across me during a search phase, what percentage I can actually impact (and I could provably figure out what would be most important to say to them if they ‘glanced off of me’ while searching for information that would be most likely to get me back in the game).

In addition I could see what percentage of the buyers (consumers) actually have different criteria they are evaluating in the choose phase then when they were in the consideration phase (you would be surprised how often ‘price’ is a low priority in consider phase and then when choose comes rocking down the road price all of a sudden rears its ugly head … oh … in fact … that is often why companies/people aren’t REALLY choosing the lowest price because their initial consideration set was flawed if they truly wanted the lowest cost provider … anyway).

That’s just a couple of quick examples.

Ok.

Maybe it would help with the b2b people if we call this entire mumbo jumbo ‘Final disposition versus sales staging.’  Yeah. It’s the attempt to gain a true understanding of the status of your potential customers and existing customers all in one buying system analysis/discussion.

Look.

The buying system is simple but complex.

Adding meaningful status or stages to your marketing efforts can greatly enhance visibility into the overall marketing/sales pipeline activities AND put you in a position to understand the timing and movement of your prospects.

So.

Ultimately this process is set up to understand that buying phases exist and having an execution strategy for each phase to drive customers down the path to a transaction (adding value and setting expectations that can be met so that they end up satisfied).

Oh.

Another benefit of this Consumer Buying System thing? Long term consistent performance.

Sales and marketing often treat all prospects and customers the same. They deploy the same strategies, messaging and collateral to all. In doing that of course you obviously lose the ability to deliver relevant content at the appropriate time.

Maybe worse? You lose the ability to build relationships with those that are not in a buying mode but will be at some time in the future. Oh. And you lessen the probability that you will be in front of your customer when they enter a buying mode.

The value of thinking in a ‘consumer buying system’ like this way is you end up thinking long term engagement and not short term project.

Everyone fits into the funnel. Customers, interested, interested rejecters, dissatisfied, whatever. They all fall in and become part of the cycle.

Therefore activity avoids a ‘Project mentality’ (and even ‘just get me some leads to call).

(note: my entire write-up on the company TelAffects addresses this).

An additional benefit is a continuous effort (which maintains any momentum) instead of a more sales driven ‘stop-and-start’ activity style. I guess I could throw in that a continuous buying system communications plan invariably entertains the idea of an “ongoing dialogue’ attitude rather than “oops, I need to talk with you today” attitude (that also inherently strengthens efforts and efficiencies and relationships).

The consumer buying system inherently also integrates activities by simply suggesting it is all one cycle and therefore specific tactics aren’t utilized in a vacuum but rather in coordination with everything else affecting the cycle. And by integration I mean not just traditional marketing but all aspects (let’s call them touch points) of interaction between the company and potential customers.

Ok. I will stop on that discussion point.

You get it. The Buying System forces everyone away from “one off” actions and inherently incorporates a longer term focus (without sacrificing short term).

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Yet. Many fail to invest in a process (although I just gave one for free) that develop strategies and deploy tactics at each buying mode.

Ok. One last thing.

The buying system thought is dead if you don’t have information.

In fact.

If you use the buying system (which is so frickin’simple) it is difficult to go into data overload and easy to gather pertinent information.

Because it is a thinking process/methodology you are actually systemizing information. Okay. In English that means as you gain data, rather than analyze data, you bucket it first. You put data into the system where the data/information most useful to you.

After a while rather than conducting massive research studies and huge data dumps you are rather simply updating or filling in holes as you gather items.

A process like this stops data overload and lets you actually go ‘do.’

And.

It really helps if you aren’t solely dependent upon research research (you know … traditional qualitative or quantitative research) but rather you have the ability to capture prospect and customer information through sales (or marketing or even telemarketing).

Sales and marketing should be constantly striving to gain information on their possible customers (in fact you can build a parallel consumer buying system for those costumers/consumers who have never purchased from you with the purpose of not getting them to ‘do’ your buying system but seek the moments where they may actually sneak close so you can suck them into yours … uh … that’s called converting competitive users …) and customers that will give them insight into not only their organization’s sales cycles but purchasing behavior.

Often the most overlooked and most valuable information is the information captured directly from your prospects and customers from previous dialogues.

Why does this happen?

Lack of attention from the sales and marketing personnel to gather and enter information.

Lack of consistency across the sales and marketing teams to gather and enter information.

The lack of understanding on how to use the information in a meaningful business dialogue.

These are solvable but that isn’t the point of this write up.

Here is a fact (that many marketing groups fail to see despite its obviousness).

The buying system is truly dependent upon information and information is often most attainable through sales (or any customer interaction including telemarketing and service providers). Once you have the information (an you have something as simple as a Consumer Buying System analysis) it is incredibly easy to Train sales and marketing people on “how” to use the information and “when and where” to use the information (in fact … sometimes the Buying System is so simple that people want to try and get something more ‘complicated’ because something that simple cannot be right).

Look.

(sticking with b2b)

Here’s the deal. Doing more with less seems to be a common issue we all face regardless of our roles or our responsibilities or industry. That means companies just need to be plain smarter with their activities and, in particular, with the information available and how they use that information (and leverage the information across their entire demand creation – consumer buying system – pipeline information process).

Yes.

I have written about a company called TelAffects. I didn’t want to call them telemarketing but, if you do, then you have to admit that many companies never receive the potential benefits of a well planned telemarketing program (read my article if you don’t agree).

People just don’t approach telemarketing in b2b as an effective marketing tool and integrate that activity into the entire process (as a marketing tool as well as an information tool).

Anyway.

The buying system naturally incorporates partners and alliances (telemarketers, crm, service providers, and suppliers) because the all affect the buying system and get built in to the entire fabric weave of interactions.

So.

All that said it all really falls apart if you don’t get the core thinking right.

Core thinking being value proposition, brand strategy and positioning in the marketplace (what need to does the company want to fulfill and how does the company want to be perceived by the customer).

An excellent example of brand vision in the semiconductor equipment industry is provided by Jim Morgan of Applied Materials. As chairman of the world’s leading semiconductor equipment supplier. He said, “Information is power. Information is wealth. Information is self-determination and in the 21stCentury, we have the potential of placing information in the hands of people around the world. This is the promise of the networked economy; the hope of individuals around the world; the purpose of Applied Materials.”

But. Core thinking is an entirely different article and write up.

This is about how b2b isn’t just for b2b rocket scientists. It’s for anyone who is smart enough and understands principles of differentiation and buying behavior.

Enough ranting.

Suffice it to say a good consumer marketing person can do b2b and a good b2b person can do consumer. And that’s that.

elephants and leaders


“All of the great leaders have had one characteristic in common: it was the willingness to confront unequivocally the major anxiety of their people in their time. This, and not much else, is the essence of leadership.” – John Kenneth Galbraith, U.S. economist, “The Age of Uncertainty”

So.

I am not sure if this is becoming a characteristic of this generation of business leaders or I never noticed it in the last generation of business leaders. “This” is the inability to deal with the elephant in the room. Or even worse is the ignoring of the “herd of elephants” stalking through the organization.

Yes.

Being a leader of an organization (and size almost becomes irrelevant) is difficult and comes with challenges.

No.

Leaders shouldn’t ignore the elephant in the room or the herds of elephants wandering the hallways.

Elephants?

There are so many to choose from I couldn’t list them all. And no leader in their right mind will do an “employee survey” and expect to uncover the elephants that are seemingly walking invisibly through the hallways and offices of their company. No one trusts internal surveys any more.

Anyway.

Here are the ‘big 3’ elephants I see leaders kind of having their head up there ass on:

-          Senior manager flaws.

For some reason leaders are becoming blind to their semi-peer flaws. I don’t know if it’s the “kinder gentler” management of this generation or if they are just focused on what is being done well because it is one less thing to worry about. I don’t care what it is but it is elephant numero uno.

Here’s the deal. People have higher expectations the bigger the title. And they should. A bigger title means a higher standard to live/work by. A leader HAS to set his management team to a higher standard. They cannot be expected to play by the same rules as the rest of the organization. Oddly (having been in so many executive meetings I am surprised I haven’t had a natural lobotomy) leaders want to set up a standard of stricter rules for junior people and more flexible standards for senior.

It’s wacky. Senior people are supposed to be role models. The trickledown effect if you permit senior people with obvious ‘flaws’ is lack of respect, a belief that management is flawed, and a belief that anyone can be a senior manager (which isn’t true) and, well, confusion on how “they” (employees) can see something that should be obvious to a leader.

-          Making specialists generalists.

The way today’s business seems to work is no matter what your responsibility is in your ‘growth’ stages you get promoted (assuming you do well) and get rewarded with a generalist management role.

Look. I am not suggesting specialist cannot become generalist nor am I suggesting that a specialist cannot assume some responsibilities as executive leaders, but I do see organization leaders permitting the title/responsibility role reward based on merit not on ability to do the reward.

And the trickle down to those decisions (beyond the obvious that many just don’t deserve that role and mismanage) is that the organization staff see it and get confused (and join the herd of elephants wandering the hallways)

-          Inability to deal with younger employee dissatisfaction.

Whew. This one is a humdinger these days. This elephant isn’t even invisible and it gets ignored. In fact, many leaders just stare at the elephant and shake their head and go “oh well, there’s that damn elephant but there’s nothing I can do about it.”

It’s crazy. I have written about this before and, yes, I am going to generalize … but … this doesn’t have anything to do with “this generation’s work ethic” or “young kids just don’t have the same attitude as we did” (gosh, anyone reading that I would hope would feel old if they know they have said it themselves) … this is about leadership.

It’s not about being cool or wearing flip flops to work to show you ‘relate’ to the generation.

In fact, dear leader, they don’t want you to relate … they want you to lead.

A leader doesn’t have to be a ‘giant’ like I have written about before but they have to be a leader. Employees don’t have to like you (although it helps) they have to respect you. And that crosses any generation at any time with any age employee.  Being a leader (and however that particular leader utilizes leadership-like charisma) will overcome 90+% generational issues (flip flops in the office should take care of the rest).

Those are just three.

But I would imagine the point here is that I tend to see a diminishing ability in leadership to effectively deal with the elephants within their organizations. They are either oblivious, ignore them or accept them. Any of the three are unacceptable.

Ah. The biggest argument I get from senior people? I have other things more important at the moment, I am simply prioritizing.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ….

I have a tendency to want to point out that an elephant is … well … an elephant. And they are big.

Deal with it.

Anyway.

This is just a trend I seem to be seeing these days.

One last thought (because some of the elephants live outside the office building but come in attached to employees when they come to work every day):

Brian Dyson, CEO of Coca Cola Enterprises from 1959-1994
“Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling five balls in the air. You name them – work, family, health, friends, and spirit – and you’re keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls – family, health, friends, and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged, or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.”

Nice way of looking at it if you ask me.

Okay. My advice to leaders? Go elephant hunting.

that one person

one person to tell you

“you can only tell who you are, if you have that one person to tell you.”

I would imagine the picture and saying is directed toward something romantic.

But.

Think of this as a mentor. Or in the business world. And maybe even life in general … but I will talk business.

We all, no matter how good or bad we are, just don’t know who “we are” in our business lives when we begin. As a matter of fact I would guess that at each transition point in our business lives we don’t know exactly who “we are.”

And then one day you know.

And it’s not a light bulb going off.

And it’s not an epiphany.

And it’s not something that occurs by looking in the mirror.

Its words.

Not anything you can read but words you hear.

A mentor, someone you truly respect, says something.

We all need these words at some point in our lives. We would be silly to not think so.

Words are powerful. Words empower.

Oh.

And words are a responsibility.

I got copied on an email today from a friend who was introducing me to a contact for my wacky global education initiative idea.

She called me a mentor.

It gave me pause.

Being a mentor is a responsibility. On many levels it is a responsibility but when I saw  the quote above I … well … paused a little. And thought.

As you mentor people choose your words wisely. For they can be road signs at crossroads in people’s lives.

Yeah. I know this now. And it is easy for me to type this now.

But. As I think of the hundreds of people I may have impacted as a manager, and sometimes as a mentor at the same time, I wonder if I truly recognized the responsibility all the time.

What I am sure of is I was blessed with incredible business, and I would imagine life, mentors throughout my life. Some made huge impacts and some made incremental but significant small moment impact.

Polly Goodrich-Reese

David Strauss (who I called coach)

I had 4 at one time in one place, all extremely different; all with one thought … make me the best person I could be: Charlie Calise, Steve Price, Beth Mack, Pat Madden

Jeff White

(there are others but the list could get long … as I said … I was very fortunate in the mentor department)

We all have at least one mentor in our lives. Or, let’s say I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have at least one.

And then at some point I would imagine I became a mentor to some people.

And I hope I did as well with that responsibility as the ones I had.

But. What I did learn.

All those people I listed above never wasted words. But they also told me things. And I would have never figured out who ‘I was’ without them telling me.

I guess the business point of this post is when you are a manager you can make an impact in many ways. But words.

Oh those little words.

Little words with big impact.

Weigh them carefully.

Because you may be “that one person to tell you” for someone and you want to get it right.

Because getting it wrong  … is … well … anyway … just avoid it.

owning a contradiction


Ah.

Contradictions. My favorite topic (certainly in business).

I guess the idea from a literature rules standpoint is a combination of an oxymoron and figurative literature (if you want to track using other people’s words).

Regardless.

I personally love the idea of ‘owning a contradiction’ because it is a descriptive phrase that invokes people to hold two opposing concepts concurrently.

And more importantly?

It is a smart idea. And I don’t care who you are you like smart ideas. Ideas that make you think.

“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. One should, for example, be able to see that things are hopeless yet be determined to make them otherwise.” F. Scott Fitzgerald

Anyway.

I can’t believe it has taken me so long to write about contradictions. And owning a contradiction.

Patient quickness.

Make haste slowly.

That kind of stuff.

Literally I imagine we are simply discussing oxymorons.

But.

I will get back to that (because I am curious and looked up all that stuff).

Owning a Contradiction is excellent for when you are talking about brand positioning and company’s value propositions and what people think about an organization (or product or service).

It becomes something that may seem counter intuitive and make people cock their heads a little bit and think “how do they do that?”.

From an organization value proposition standpoint (what is it we do best – with a skew toward functional) owning a contradiction is kind of the holy grail.

In particular you love to zero in on some aspect of more for less.

(Think of that as the holy grail value proposition sweet spot).

What do I mean?

That’s like …

More happiness-satisfaction less worry.

Get more Services at less cost.

More nutrition in least (smallest) portion.

Do more with less (plus/minus relationship).

Do most with least amount of money/budget.

Large global resources attention to small details.

Just saw an Accenture ad … “who say you can’t be big and nimble?”

Stuff like that.

If you can build an organizational culture and innovations and attitudinal structure with something like that at the core you are golden.

Now and for the future.

Anyway.

Whenever I bring up owning a contradiction at first blush everyone loves the idea.

The challenge is when people want to “understand it.”

So.

Inevitably you get the smart(ass) question … ‘are you talking about an oxymoron or a paradox’?

(yikes. Here is where I need to search dictionaries for help)

Oxymoron or Paradox.  Here are the two definitions.

An oxymoron as “a figure of speech by which a locution produces an incongruous, seemingly self-contradictory effect, as in ‘cruel kindness’ or ‘to make haste slowly’.”

(c’mon … who uses ‘locution’ in a sentence … jerks)

A paradox is defined as “a statement or proposition that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth”.

Uh oh.

That didn’t help me. Is one a figure of a speech and one a sentence? Geez.

‘Self contradictory but in reality expresses a possible truth.’

Now. That sounds good.

Unfortunately if I research oxymoron I get more of what I am talking about with owning a contradiction despite the fact the explanation for a paradox seems … well … righter.

(figures it couldn’t be easy, huh?)

The Oxymoron is a figure of speech that deliberately uses two contradictory ideas. This contradiction creates a paradoxical image (okay. They just used oxymoron and paradox together … they are frickin’ killin me) in the reader or listener’s mind that generates a new concept or meaning for the whole.

Some typical oxymorons are:

-          a living death

-          sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind

-          a deafening silence

-          bitter sweet

-          The Sounds of Silence (song title)

-          make haste slowly

-          conspicuous by his absence

Ok. It gets worse (trying to understand what it is supposed to be) when you look at these.

The following seem more like paradoxes to me, but they all are from a book called “Oxymoronica” by Dr. Mardy Grothe.

I can resist everything but temptation.

Oscar Wilde

Don’t be too clever for an audience. Make it obvious. Make the subtleties obvious also.
Billy Wilder

Just be truthful – If you can fake that, you’ve got it made.
Barbara Stanwyck

Please all, and you will please none.
Aesop – 6th century BC

Nothing is permanent, except change.
Heraclitus – 4th century BC

Okay.

Regardless

Owning a contradiction (to me) is not only smart but it articulates something in a way that it actually becomes a figure of Speech (which also has a literal definition by the way)

Uh oh. Another definition. Figure of speech?

A figure is worth a thousand words (A picture is worth a thousand words)

Figurative language:

One meaning of “figure” is drawing” or “image” or “picture”. Figurative language creates figures (pictures) in the mind of the reader or listener. These pictures help convey the meaning faster and more vividly than words alone.

We use figures of speech in “figurative language” to add color and interest, and to awaken the imagination. Figurative language is everywhere, from classical works like Shakespeare or the Bible, to everyday speech, pop music and television commercials. It makes the reader or listener use their imagination and understand much more than the plain words.

Anyway.

I come back to “expresses a possible truth.”

Owning a contradiction (when you aren’t making it up and it is something of value) is figurative, a paradox and most importantly is communicating the possibility of a truth.

Something meaningful but contradictory … all to the benefit of whoever you are communicating to.

In a way it is quite possible I like contradictions because they aggressively and interestingly attack people’s ignorance.

They make you think of things that may not seem possible but become an interesting ‘truth’ (and we learn something).

Real knowledge is to know the extent of one’s ignorance.
Confucius – 6th century BC

Anyway.

I know I embody a contradiction in the work place.

Lunch bucket intellectual is my contradiction. Bring a blue collar work ethic day in and day out but relentless intellectual curiosity to seek insights and ‘truth.’

I guess I am also a generalist specialist. But. We will get back to that.

But.

I didn’t write this because of me.

It is because I am across a real contradiction that intrigued me.

So I was looking at a software company who really didn’t have marketing strategy at it corporate culture core (as if any technology software company does, huh?) and as I was cruising through some information and it hit me … they were generalist specialists (specialists in software innovations and tool development yet generalist in industries – their customers are a potpourri of industries and services and product deliverers)..

It was interesting to me.

Maybe because I am almost positive they don’t see themselves that way.

Maybe because I am a generalist specialist.

And maybe it is interesting because I really enjoy trying to get organizations like that to understand the potential of such a positioning for them.

Anyway.

Not sure I will ever get to tell them but if I do you can bet I will be talking about “generalist specialist.”

Bottom line?

Any time you can own a contradiction you are more interesting … as a product, as a business or even as a person.

discontinuity for successful company continuity

(warning to reader: I don’t have a printer and this is one of these articles that could be a white paper but I have found that white papers are best written by printing out stuff and rearranging so that it makes some logical sense in flow. No printer? Whew. This maybe is a little … well … ‘discontinuous’ in its flow and logic … but … in the end you will get the point one would hope.)

So.

This is about managing companies. Organizational behavior and developing a company structure for success today and in the future. I presented this idea in a business consulting/brand strategy environment maybe 3 years ago (although I have used portions in business discussion for years). Interestingly in that presentation there was not a lot of discussion on a relatively controversial strategy/value proposition underpinning but rather the discussion focused on the organizational structure/behavior idea we shared. I call the idea “controlled autonomy.” (others may call it a version of a self organized organization or a decentralized organization or a variety of ‘decentralized-like employee empowered’ terms).

Regardless. Here you go. The idea of ‘controlled autonomy’ for a company and the challenges and pluses.

“It is a wise person that adapts themselves to all contingencies; it’s the fool who always struggles like a swimmer against the current.” – unknown

Managing companies these days seems to have become even more complicated than it has in the past.

Everyone wants to streamline streamline streamline.

And simplify simplify simplify.

And often that means stripping away the “discontinuous” portions of the company with the intent to keep things moving smoothly  and focus on the ongoing “continuous” activity (efficiency seems to translate to ‘speed to market’ for some reason and certainly translates into ‘higher margins’).

Well.

That’s the challenge.

Because it’s that discontinuous part that feeds innovation and some autonomy and friction/conflict to spur growth and responsiveness and the type of stuff that makes customers (and employees for that matter) happy (and you have just stripped it away in the interest of ‘maximizing efficiencies).

Anyway.

In order to continue to maintain excellence and remain competitive companies really must adopt some dynamic strategies of discontinuity and creative destruction (and yet maintain continuous efficiencies).

Yikes.

How the hell do you do that?

Well. You better learn to be able to do it.

Because companies that operate with management philosophies based on the assumption of continuity cannot change or create value at the pace and scale of the markets in the longer term. The company’s processes (which control actions) that have enabled them to survive over the long haul deaden innovation, day to day flexibility and constant need for change.

Here is a fact.

Organizations are tough to manage.

And align. And lead.

No matter how you decide to go (centralized, decentralized, a hybrid, or something some business book has suggested) there will always be pluses and minuses and challenges in managing an organization.

To make it more difficult? …. there is no one path to success.

But.

While there is no one right path … organizations must learn to incorporate aspects of ‘dynamic and responsive’ to meet the market itself (assuming they are to sustain superior returns and thrive over the long term).

In a sense I am talking about some business agility.

The ability of a business to adapt rapidly and cost efficiently in response to changes in the business environment (and customer/market needs). Business agility can be maintained by maintaining and adapting goods and services to meet customer demands or adjusting to the changes in a business environment.

Controlled ‘agility’ (an aspect of autonomy) is a concept that incorporates the ideas of flexibility, balance, adaptability, and coordination all within some construct.

Look.

It actually can be done. And it isn’t that difficult.

Well. Let me say it isn’t difficult if you trust your people (the employees).

So.

What do I believe is the way to create the continuous discontinuous organization?

Controlled autonomy.

The phrase of the day (or at least this article).

Controlled in that there is a vision, a focus and a functional understanding (what is it we do well).

Autonomy in that outside the ‘control developers’ people can do different shit.

(note: As a side note – global franchise organizations have a tendency to be very very good at this)

Controlled autonomy is certainly an organizational shift from the past.

But even IBM has looked at this concept.

A past IBM research report suggests that the best analogies for businesses in the future may no longer be the command structures of the military but the self-organizing networks found in nature: schools of fish, flocks of birds and swarms of insects.

Well. I don’t know about the birds & bees thing but I do understand they are suggesting some decentralization (or autonomy at the employee level).

The struggle with this is that this agility I am discussing is a process where the leadership is not omnipotent.

And further struggle continues with autonomy (and the ensuing agility) as there will be enablers and blockers within the organization therefore the leadership must factor in internal organization limitations (and possibilities) when judging the best plan of action.

What that really means is that no matter how you slice it organizations are ‘tense anxiety-driven’ structures.

Employees typically oppose new ideas because they perceive they are unworkable (and sometimes they are if the ivory tower doesn’t have their shit together) and bad for profits (or it appears to on the ground people they aren’t making as much money).

And yet we also know that employees always have a large stake in the future success of any organization. Some hesitancy is due to fear or laziness but it can also be due to good judgment.

This is where autonomy comes into play.

It’s not just about diverse views in planning (which obviously highlights opportunities and obstacles) but also some permission of diversity in on the ground decision making.

And autonomy in an organization helps address the truth that is there is a difference between ‘intended’ strategy at the corporate level and ‘realized’ strategy on the business level, i.e., what management wishes to occur, and what is in fact carried out.

That is also part of life in an organization.

And, oh by the way, that is the dynamic portion of businesses that permits change to meet changing markets.

Sounds awful difficult to control? (or manage) Sure it is.

But that is why a leader should be paid the big bucks.

How about this as a leader?

The chairman of IBM during the 1930s once described the most important factor in his success as doubling the number of failures.

Or this?

“When I talk of this company, I am not thinking just of a legal or business entity. I am using the word in the older sense, as in a company of scholars, as a company of adventurers, or a company of voyagers. I think our companionship partakes of all these things. We are a permanently dissatisfied company and so far as I can see, we shall not run out of things to be dissatisfied about. I think our work, in most instances, is the best of its kind in the world – and yet not good enough. Not as good as it is going to be. There has not been and there should never be a year when it is not better than the year before. We must be dynamic for purposes bigger than ourselves.” CEO of JWT

Look.

When I was younger I thought hierarchy was the only way to run organizations. I always believed that an organization couldn’t exist without a hierarchical chain of authority. Now I understand there are a variety of ways to run an organization (I am simply focusing on the autonomy aspect here).

I have always had a sense that empowering employees in some form or fashion is an effective management (organizational behavior) direction.

And then I saw this in maybe the late 90’s:

The maintenance of organization in nature is not-and cannot be-achieved by central management; order can only be maintained by self-organization. Self organizing systems allow adaptation to the prevailing environment, i.e., they react to changes in the environment with a thermodynamic response which makes the systems extraordinarily flexible and robust against perturbations from outside conditions.Biebracher, Nicolis and Schuster in their address to the European Communities (1995)

That thought didn’t really rock my world but it seemed to articulate something I had lurking in my management portion of my brain (they also had a variety of whizbang charts to go along with it).

Oh.

I know I am tossing around several terms (controlled autonomy, self organization, responsible autonomy, controlled business agility) but they are all degrees of the same thing.

So.

Regardless of the nomenclature (I will stick with controlled autonomy) it is all about clear organizational direction and focus, alignment and agreement on that focus/core and autonomy to implement.

The ‘clear organizational direction and focus is important because:

“To be in a state of self-control, a person must know: what he/she is supposed to do, what he [or she] is actually doing, what choices he/she has to improve results wherever necessary. If any of these three conditions are not met, a person cannot be held responsible.” (JM Juran)

Yes.

I am arguing for ‘some’ autonomy (organizations dictate amount of autonomy based on their market situation, organizational alignment and agreement on focus).

I do believe some autonomy helps organizations as business and industries start ‘blurring.’

Blurring? Yeah. Nowadays there is often a  blurring of boundaries between shopping, learning and the experience of culture (its really no longer sales versus marketing versus operations and if an organization is ‘stuck’ in that mindset they should be prepared to go the way of the dinosaur very very soon).

So.

As a more agile organization culture (of which is exactly what I am talking about with a controlled autonomy) the company has an ability to blend into the marketplace (versus rigid institutions unable to flex).

Yes. Technology has certainly affected my own believe in effective organizational structures (and I don’t believe I am alone if I read Harvard Business Review or use that European Commission report I cited).

Technology has changed the way organizations should act because it has changed how the world interacts – the way we shop and consume. It creates new opportunities and destroys businesses that are unable to adapt to a sudden discontinuity with our past.

Quoting Susan Baker, a Cranfield School of Management researcher “The Internet aggregates the actual brand experience, it discloses and amplifies the mismatch between companies and their customers, which can be seriously disrupted”.

(by the way … she also suggests we are moving from a production driven society to a consumption driven society and I don’t agree with that … I believe we have always been a consumption driven society … uh … if no one consumed your crap it died on the shelf … how is that not consumption driven?).

Ok.

Circling back to something else I have written this is a version of Creative Destruction where the underlying theory is that businesses are built on the assumption of continuity to be most effective/efficient yet the markets the businesses perform in are built on the assumption of discontinuity (constantly seeking new creation and destruction of old).

(The assumption of continuity is dangerous, leading to hubris, and a loss of focus on the market. Joseph Alois Schumpeter, economist, called the process of creation and removal the gales of creative destruction.)

All that said?

It is true that enhanced innovations (thru technology) have impacted businesses in that businesses are faced with a tougher job when innovation and flexibility are the markers for competition, rather than efficiency being the fundamental driver of value.

And this is a fact for all businesses and industries (b2b, service, CPG, technology, whatever).

Oh. And back to the blurring thing.

Convergence of these technologies means that businesses are beginning to blur with other industries (and there will be new cannibalization which a business has never seen before).

I mention that because if an organization doesn’t maintain some agility they won’t be able to swing resources around to meet unexpected forays into their business space.

Anyway.

The way to stay ahead of this is this controlled autonomy thing I suggest.

So.

Why the heck haven’t companies made more strides in this direction?

Well.

Change, particularly among experience senior people, is very difficult.

Despite all the evidence, we keep self directing organizations into many variations on the centralization themes.

(to me)

What makes things even worse is how senior managers in many dysfunctional organizations (of which I have been in several) proclaim empowerment, participation, collaboration, teams, leadership, trust, and all that stuff. But they ‘dip their toes’ into self organization/autonomy and often take partial measures while expecting total success. They liberate parts of their organizations while limiting other parts. They liberate some decisions and limit others. They push hard with one foot on the accelerator while also pushing hard with their other one on the brake.

Their words say, “You are empowered”. Their actions say, “You are empowered as long as you get approval first.”
That said.
Maybe because the controlled autonomy is a contradiction it is tough. And it creates dysfunction. And it needs a powerful strong charismatic (however you define charismatic in that people will listen and follow) leader. Because dysfunctional organizations end up trying to go in two opposing directions at once and it gets frustrating and the rest of the organization feels the ripples.
Frankly, most senior leaders (centralists by management nature) don’t set out to deceive anybody. In their heads they know that high degrees of involvement, participation, and autonomy are key elements in high organization performance. But in their hearts, they still crave orderliness, predictability, and control. But most fail for one really simple reason. A central “plan” cannot dictate and bring order to a haphazard, unpredictable, and rapidly changing world.
And. It gets more difficult.
With a continuing stress on “bottom line” or making margins as high as possible leaders fall into the financial analysis trap.

Financial analysis can clearly show that consolidating and centralizing support services and functions saves money and increases efficiency (in huge PowerPoint graph slides in the conference room).

What doesn’t show up is the alienation, helplessness, and lack of connections to customers or organizational purpose that centralized bureaucracy often brings. Efficiencies may save hundreds of thousands of dollars but the processes to do so can be energy draining and passion destroying to the people within the organization. Bottom line is traditional accounting systems can’t show the hundreds of millions of dollars lost because of lackluster innovation, mediocre customer service, uninspired internal employees and financially driven outside partnerships.

“The weather-cock on the church spire, though made of iron, would soon be broken by the storm-wind if it did not understand the noble art of turning to every wind.” – Heinrich Heine

And, of course, the biggest concern is the inevitable loss of agility and ability to adapt quickly (I added quickly because visionary leaders can certainly lead change/adaptation but often not as quickly as ‘down-to-up’ adapt input).

So. The idea here is giving people a good degree of autonomy surrounding a clear vision.

Sure. There are risks. But huge benefits (if you have the right leadership):

-          Everyone can see and manage their work as part of a whole organism not a bunch of manufacturing “Borg-like” parts and pieces.

-          Employees (and often outside partners/alliances) are trusted and treated as responsible, caring, and committed decision makers (often creating behavior not unlike “part owners” of the business). Ultimately the sense of ownership, commitment, energy, and passion levels are much higher.

-          It is a fact that small self-contained teams or business units are more flexible and responsive at meeting threats and capitalizing on opportunities.

-          Everyone focuses on meeting customer/partner, not internal bureaucracy/process needs WHILE doing so within a strong sense of organizational culture.

-          People have more control over what they are doing replacing the helplessness of working within an inflexible construct (this also has the added benefit of eliminating, or limiting, the transference of anxiety up toward leadership).

-          Feedback and response mechanisms are much shorter and closer to the customer and markets.

Once again.

Highly decentralized structures are not for the management faint of heart. Management is giving up a significant amount of control of people so that employees (or the organization itself) can control their own and the organization’s destiny.

Ah. This means you have some inherent trust in your people to ‘do their job.’

But when it works the employees and organization is happier and more positively dynamic.

Anyway.

But here is what I do know.

Organizations always carry with it a thread of anxiety or stress within it.

Some days very little and some days a whole shitload.

In general organizations are tense, uncomfortable and stressful places.

In a centralized organization the stress gets compounded by aspects of organizational practices, processes and structures which serve not only to enable task completion, but also unconsciously serve as defense mechanisms to cope with anxiety in that it permits employees to transfer feelings of anxiety toward leadership (or the leader).

In other words, “I am not empowered it is because of the process and the stupid process was developed by the leader.”

Why did I add this at the end?

Well. To point out to any senior leadership you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t.

Pick your poison. Ah. But remember this thought:

“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex. It takes a touch of genius — and a lot of courage — to move in the opposite direction.”
— E. F. Schumacher, 20th century German economist and conservationist

I would argue controlled autonomy may increase your purchase of Pepto/Maalox/any antacid but only until your organization falls into a rhythm (that you can actually manage if you are crafty and a herder).

In a centralized organization your own stress doubles (ok. maybe exponential) because you are stressing the organization with inflexibility and handling organizational anxiety/stress as it is being handed back up to you in their frustration).

Me? (as a quasi senior leader)

I am all about stimulating self organization encouraging some autonomy where leaders manage system not people.

I guess what this means is that leaders in controlled autonomous organizations set the “core compass point” so whenever anyone tends to stray they can find the path back and then leaders manage boundaries (say … well … they insure that as people stray they don’t stray too far).

I guess I am a border collie at my core.

And I imagine many senior leaders could learn some good lessons from a border collie.

this I am today, that I will be tomorrow

Up to a point a man’s life is shaped by environment, heredity, and the movements and changes in the world around him. Then there comes a time when it lies within his grasp to shape the clay of his life into the sort of thing he wishes to be. Only the weak blame parents, their race, their times, lack of good fortune, or the quirks of fate. Everyone has it within his power to say, ‘This I am today; that I will be tomorrow.’ The wish, however, must be implemented by deeds.” Louis Lamour

So.

I have written about self esteem and self image and living life.

Until now I have never found a quote that summarizes a belief I have always had lurking in the back of my head.

Louis Lamour is best known for his western writing (The Sacketts being the longest series).

“Then there comes a time when it lies within his grasp to shape the clay of his life into the sort of thing he wishes to be.”

How awesome is that?

(pretty awesome)

It is absolutely true that a lot of what may hold us back from our dreams, or maybe more importantly, being whatever it is we want to be isn’t our fault (or in our control). It would be foolish to not recognize that.

But.

The days when nothing seems to go right. The days where dreams seemed to have vanished. The days where ‘not drowning’ is the focus instead of ‘swimming.’ All those days are gonna happen. To all of us.

And it is on these days where it becomes really really easy to focus on excuses.

But.

We do have power to shape our tomorrows.

Even if circumstances make things difficult improving things is NOT impossible. Sometimes a little ingenuity is required.  Sometimes you almost have to trick circumstances.

And what a statement. What a fucking beautifully written statement:

“That I am today; that I will be tomorrow.”

Absolutely most people underestimate what they can do today.

Absolutely most people over estimate what they can do tomorrow.

But it still comes down to two things: action and objectives.

Actions.

What I am tomorrow depends on what I do today.

My actions today make me who I am tomorrow. (you get it)
This is all about first step baby. First step.

You constantly hear “I’ll do it tomorrow”. And when it doesn’t happen tomorrow, it becomes the next tomorrow and the next and …. well … you get it.(and I will explain why under objectives)

But.

While you hear that what is actually the truth.

What do people really do? (and you just may not always see it)

Here is the truth behind actions and this thought. Yup. The truth.

People who decide mentally to “do something” actually … well  … do something. They do take action. They do begin to “shape the clay of their life to become what they want to be.”

Then what is the problem?

Objectives. Meeting the sometimes farcical expectations in the mind.

So.

Let me take a minute on ‘objectives.’

When writing about this quote I happened across this kid (university student) named Scott H Young who wrote something on this topic.

Now.

I will admit. He lost me somewhere in the middle but regardless he comes up with a nifty concept called “velocity based thinking (or goal setting).”  Here you go. I didn’t want to steal his idea but rather simply share it. This isn’t the entire thinking just a highlight to make a point:

How is it possible to balance living in each moment and the concept of personal growth and improvement? Doesn’t personal development imply a certain dissatisfaction with where you are in life? At the very least, doesn’t an obsession with personal growth indicate that you are constantly living in the future, rather than enjoying each moment? How can we remove this apparent dichotomy and get the improvement we desire along with satisfaction now? In other words, how can we live for today and still strive for tomorrow?

The old position based paradigm told us to focus on where we are in life. If we have a big house, a nice family and are in good health, then we can be happy. If we are poor, miserable and alone then we are depressed. Pretty simple. In this paradigm, our main focus is on our current position.

Some take this position based thinking to a slightly higher level when they don’t think about where they are but where they are going. Instead these people draw their level of happiness from the position they feel they will be in the future. Although this is an improvement, the cost of being unsatisfied with today is simply too high a price to pay for this paradigm.

There is an alternative paradigm, however. This is a velocity based paradigm. In this paradigm, where you are doesn’t matter. It doesn’t even matter where you are going to end up. From this perspective, our focus not where we are going, but rather, the rate we are getting there. This perspective tells us that being homeless or a millionaire makes no difference. It is only the rate at which they are improving that distinguishes them.

The major distinction between a velocity based goal and a position based one is mostly in how you view the goal. Positional goals are usually viewed as a means to achieve something. If I set a goal to lose x pounds in three months, then what I am pursuing is the goal itself. Velocity based goals take a completely different approach. The purpose of a velocity based goal is to serve to direct, focus and amplify the growth you are experiencing right now.

Imagine life is like climbing an infinitely large cliff side. Positional thinking tells you to try and get as high up the cliff as you can. Positional goals are used to reach new plateaus on the cliff. Velocity based thinking tells us that getting really high up on the cliff is irrelevant given its infinite nature. Instead velocity based thinking tells us that the true experience of life has to come from the rate at which we are climbing the cliff. Sitting at one notch of the cliff for too long is boring and unsatisfying regardless of your height. Velocity based goals in this sense are not used to reach the plateaus themselves, these goals are used to encourage, push and measure the rate at which you are climbing.

The key difference between positional goals and velocity based goals is simple. If you fail to achieve a positional goal, this is usually very demotivating. This is often why so many new goal setters fail to continue with the practice. The pain of failing to achieve when you’ve tried your best is often too great. Velocity based goals remove this problem entirely. Because the goal was simply a servant of directing and pushing your own growth, as long as you know you were trying your best (maximum velocity possible) then the goal was successful regardless of whether you underestimated the deadline necessary.

A velocity based paradigm is actually far more effective in improving our position.

The reason is actually rather simple. Positional based thinking is built on the notion of competition. As a result, we strive to make leaps ahead in our position based on where we are compared to others. If we are on the top then we slow down, for what is the point of trying really hard when you are already in the lead? If we are on the bottom, negativity and pessimism often cripple our growth. Position based thinkers tend to only achieve a maximum velocity when they feel they need to increase their position, yet that positional increase is achievable. Velocity based thinking doesn’t have this weakness. People who truly live this ideal are at a maximal velocity all of the time. Being at the top or bottom holds no distinction to these people. Rich or poor, strong or weak, healthy or ill these people are always traveling at a speed which is the most they can possibly achieve.

So.

What I like about his velocity thing? It isn’t about frickin’ milestones and moving up the ladder and crap like that. It is about movement. And movement at your own pace. Not in competition but rather just with a goal of improving personal being. Judging yourself against … well … yourself I guess.

And with that I get to complete the circle on this quote and thought.

“That I am today; that I will be tomorrow.”

The only really important word Louis uses throughout this thought is “I.”

It’s not about competition.

It’s not about goals and objectives.

It is about I. And what “I” wants.

That said.

Go your own speed. Fuck what anyone says.

Sure. Becoming who you want to be “tomorrow” takes lots and lots of work. But. Go your own velocity.

Anyhow.

I thought I would share this quote.

Because I like the way it gives the truth instead of some pithy inspirationally flippant quote.

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“Where the emotion has found its thought and the thought has found the words.”

Robert Frost

I love this quote for a number of reasons.

Let me focus on two.

First is I do love words and I truly envy people who know how to take a seemingly mixed bag of words and put them together in a way that makes people laugh or cry or just “feel something.”

Second is something practical. I tell people in business that more great ideas, more great thoughts, have died because they have not been articulated well then anything other reason in the world (more than even process or scared people).

Great thoughts are meaningless if no one can understand them.

The most powerful thoughts and ideas in the world have typically been captured in some words that have clearly communicated the thought behind it and evoked some sort of emotiochoose the right wordn.

In the end.

You have to find the words or the best thought you have ever had will die.

That is almost a postulate in life.

So.

With all that said and with full understanding that I will never be able to use words a well as Robert Frost (or maybe even Jack Frost) I have this book I keep with me everywhere I go.

Choose the Right Word by S. I. Hayakawa.

A friend just reminded me of how great that book is for those of us who challenge ourselves to use the right, or best, words whenever we can. It is the bible of wordsmanship.